3 weeks ago my ex-bf called me & asked me to go see a movie with him. The weird thing is that HE was the one who dumped me, we only dated for one month AND this call came after one year. I said yes, he picked me up, then as soon as the movie was done he drove me home. It felt kinda rushed, on the drive home when I asked him why he wanted to see he said, "I wanna see you every once in awhile". We never had sex cuz he knew that I wanna save myself for marriage. During this year although he never asked me to see him, he did talk to him on msn. Is he stringing me along & what does he want? He's 26 while I'm 21.Some say he wants sex, but he knows my beliefs and he can get sex from LOTS of other girls.
2007-02-01 07:41:32 · 8 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well you know what?..
first of all i wana say that you should stop being too easy for him.. i mean he dumps you and he know that he can get you back any time he wants.. i think you should show more self respect and be cold with him.. and dont get back with him unless he reall y really really begs for it.. and i think that he is really missing you so he wants a way to get back in touch .
2007-02-01 07:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys do that alot. I am still friends with one of my ex's from the beginning of last year. She lied to me about her age and it was while I was fallin in love. Now we are good friends and we talk every now and then, cuz I know she is still a good person who just made one huge mistake. and yes, I dumped her. He just wants your company and your friendship. If he knows you wont have sex, then he couldnt be trying to go for that. Think about it. Just hang with him, without the skepticism. He's not trying anything tricky (at least from what I see) . Apparently youre just a good person.
2007-02-01 15:49:15 · answer #2 · answered by Snowman8 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you wanted guys only....This kinda thing happened to my younger sister when she was a teen...The reason he did this to her after the brake up was because he didn't realize what a good thing he had until it was gone..They are now happily married and have been for a few now..
Again I know you only wanted guys and I am sorry but I feel that you should also hear from some of the ladies.....
2007-02-01 15:53:14 · answer #3 · answered by charmed4412 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with going out here and there. Maybe he just needs to talk or something. There is nothing wrong with a girl-guy friendship. Don't get spooked because I really dont' think it means anything. Stop reading into it to much.
2007-02-01 15:46:11 · answer #4 · answered by aimstir31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first kudos for saving yourself. I can't say for certain but maybe he wanted to see you then had second thoughts or maybe he wants to be just a friend and is starting it slow or something like.
2007-02-01 15:47:43 · answer #5 · answered by Dr.DoSoLittle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he just wants to remain friends. i don't think he's stringing you along because it sounds like he pretty much told you that.
2007-02-01 15:44:47 · answer #6 · answered by dennisjohns23 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he just wanted to spend time with you I think. but if these random occurences are goign to drive you mad, dotn allow them anymore.
2007-02-01 15:47:47 · answer #7 · answered by Tian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to get into your panties... use it.. :D
2007-02-01 15:46:32 · answer #8 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋