I overheard him on the phone. He still want admit to it. But right now I get showered with breakfast in bed, I don't have to cook, wash or clean he does all this but my heart is telling me different. This is just a put on so that I can forget about what I heard on the phone.
2007-02-01 07:27:44 · 19 answers · asked by Tettypu 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you can't find it in your heart to forgive then I would say it's a very good reason for divorce, it's enough that he hurt you, you don't have to keep hurting yourself by staying married if you can't forgive.
2007-02-01 07:32:30 · answer #1 · answered by melimel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And what is your question? Is cheating a goog reason for divorce????? Hon, betrayal is the ONLY good reason for divorce. You don't trust him, he pronged another lady, and the visual is pretty real, you no longer admire him nor respect him... in short, you marriage is in the toilet, and you don't even know it....yet.... but resentment will raise its ugly head as soon as you come around, and unless the two of you get into counseling, this will grind on you enough so that by the end of the year, you'd like to kill him.
2007-02-01 07:35:57 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Biblically and morally cheating is a good reason for divorcing. If they do it once, they'll do again. He's just playing you and trying to get back into your good graces. Tell him to not let the door hit him where the good Lord split him!
2007-02-02 10:19:02 · answer #3 · answered by saylavie2u2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's cheating. Is this what you want for your marriage? If you still want it, get both of your tails into counseling. Insist he be tested for STD's and you get tested too.
If you don't want this kind of marrige then it is time to end it. By the way, I think that anyone who cheats on their spouse is a real low life jerk. I think you deserve better.
2007-02-01 07:52:59 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on what you heard on the phone......if you really think he is actively involved in an affair you have every right to know & to be upset. you may consider hiring a PI or do some snooping yourself....once you have the proof it'll be up to you what you do with the information. There are couples that survive adultery - it depends on his ability to admit & stop the affair, & your ability to forgive him for his deceit.
2007-02-01 07:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by rjsluvbug 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you just answered your own question...you know in your heart he's done you wrong..i think the only way to move on if you dont want to get a divorce is to forgive him, are you willing to do that? if not then yes divorce is the only answer...otherwise forgive and forget...which is extremely hard to do..thats too bad there are soo many men now days that cannot be faithful to their wives, and get whatever it is they need from other women.
2007-02-01 07:34:31 · answer #6 · answered by ღCCღ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ge a blood test ,that may not be all he gives you in bed.
That is # 1 on the list of reasons to get a divorce.You will never be able to trust him alone again.
Be Safe
2007-02-01 09:36:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you should leave him.... he cannot be trusted... what if he comes home with a STD & gives it to you??? I have been married for 12 years, and if I found out my husband was cheating, he would be out the door with no questions asked!!! That is a deal breaker!!!!!!
2007-02-01 07:34:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, what did you hear and what are you imagining? As far as the breakfast and cooking and cleaning....enjoy it while you can before it changes. If I were you, I'd be sure of the allegations before I acted upon them. It won't hurt to wait and be sure.......
2007-02-01 07:32:49 · answer #9 · answered by J.M.C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing worse than cheating is being dishonest about it. Kick him to the curb. Don't you deserve better than this?
2007-02-01 07:46:18 · answer #10 · answered by °ĠיִяĿỵ° 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋