One of my female work collegues is. I can tell by the way she re-acts when we talk about sex. She is forty (younger than me and I enjoy anal etc with my husband).
2007-02-01 07:55:22 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
To clear up a few things:-
I didn't say that I discuss at work about what me and husband do in private. Conversations about work could be to do with something in the papers or on the news. And to those of you who feel I should me sticking to the regular missionary position, you don't know what you're missing. And I'm certainly not "some old broad". The short medical lesson was very informative.
2007-02-01 19:42:23 · update #1
Yes, SHE is if you consider people who are not comfortable talking about sex in public to be a prude. But I know what you mean. Her sex life may be lacking while yours is not. Be thankful yours isn't.
2007-02-01 07:59:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jewel 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well I can't say that anyone has ever called me a prude. Point of fact some psycho who sure seems to be a prude has been bad mouthing me around YA because I said that I enjoy anal too. I don't really talk about that sort of thing at work though. I have friends in the office but I know that some of them shock pretty easily. That doesn't necessarily mean that they're prudes, most are just ignorant like Mrs Badgrumbles above and they've come to believe the sexual urban myths spread by the uninformed, again like Badgrumbels. Even so, everyone has a different comfort level and it pays to be conscious and considerate of how people might react. It's a just professional courtesy not to get too explicit at work. It can be a distraction and now a days you can't be too careful of sexual harassment suits. If you've got a couple close friends that you can discuss this sort of thing with then your doing alright.
2007-02-01 16:30:48 · answer #2 · answered by Barb S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex was into some freaky stuff, 2, 3, and 4somes, anal, etc... It wasn't my 'cup of tea', being the jealous type, but I loved him,and we enjoyed it all. I seriously don't think I'd ever do these things again. It's gross and unnecessary. I would HARDLY call myself a prude. However, I never went to work and "bragged about it! How close is this woman to you? It's great that you enjoy freaky sex with you husband, and talking to your close friends about it, fine. But go into the office with it? It's unfair to call her a prude! Frankly, I'd rather be a prude than an insecure, rude, big mouth braggart!!
2007-02-01 08:22:28 · answer #3 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not, working previously in the Forces and then with aload of guys in an Insurance Office, didn't have much choice as it was a constant topic of conversation.
Don't be too hard on her, unless you know her background, it's not fair to judge.
We are alot more open about sex now a days and perhaps she's just not happy with it being discussed in front of her. Her choice.
2007-02-01 08:02:29 · answer #4 · answered by lynn a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How about respecting other peoples boundaries???? There's an idea. I'm not entirely sure that you understand that a lot of people aren't interested in other people's sex lives. I'm not even sure why your posting this question.
Like the attention? Self obsessed? Have no other points of view of value to contribute, or just do it for the shock value.
Grow up and get a hobby.
2007-02-05 05:42:41 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No prude could discuss with personal friends but if someone at work went on like yout o be honest I would think it was all in your mind that they had to go on about it. Over 40 eh beginning to feel your age and trying to show a youthful you?
2007-02-01 09:38:21 · answer #6 · answered by Ms Mat Urity 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually if you do practise that you're disgusting. When you're older there's a strong likelihood that you will also regret you have practised such a base act. The damage you have done to your musculature will not heal and with age it will decline. So think again and perhaps it would be wise to change your habits. Your friend sounds like a more normal woman who is shocked at your obvious shameless attitude.
2007-02-01 08:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by : 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just because she doesn't want anal does not mean she is a prude. Maybe she doesn't want to hear sex stories or maybe she has issues about all that. I would talk about other things, she could also be jealous of you. Beware, jealous friends are the worst.
2007-02-01 08:01:44 · answer #8 · answered by christinedaae 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a prude, but I still dont' want to hear about you having sex with your husband. TMI, and it's not appropriate for the work environment. Save it for bar night with the girls.
Heed this warning because if the wrong person hears you - you can get fired.
2007-02-01 08:14:27 · answer #9 · answered by acholtz@verizon.net 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm not a prude but experience has taught me those who talk most about sex aren't getting any. People who are getting enough action don't need to talk about sex to get their kicks.
2007-02-01 22:29:22 · answer #10 · answered by freebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋