I just have looked around yahoo answers for a while and there are more miserable relationships or problems than I can count. Anyone happy...and if you aren't chime in too. I am looking for a ratio....
2007-02-01 08:02:32 · 16 answers · asked by kishoti 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
By the way, any happy married people. If everyone has to be single to be happy...then what is the reason?
2007-02-01 08:07:26 · update #1
Any unhappy ones...you can say it is a friend of yours to protect the nosy spouse
2007-02-01 08:14:35 · update #2
this is not a true depiction of all the happy or unhappy people out there. you must find happiness in oneself and in your mate.(God must be in the mix as well)
2007-02-01 14:59:51 · answer #1 · answered by chilwil2k 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are friends for a season, some for a reason, and some for a lifetime.
Relationships are never steady, they are always shifting in some way or another. I have a long-term best friend and we love each other to bits even though I could never live with him. I am in my second marriage now for seven years -- at times I have almost convinced myself it just cannot work, but when I realize the basic awesomeness of my partner, we seem to overcome the flaws and differences we both have and hang on for the ride together.
I've found it's seemingly very hard to actually share the same bed and house with anybody because that is such a naked and revealing situation. You gotta really be willing to love, and see past each other's jagged edges. For the long term relationship you have to find someone whose jagged edges do not happen to point at one of your soft spots... and you'll never really know until you try, and you can rarely be 100% sure that one of those jagged edges won't rotate over and mortally wound you.
The last weirdness is that health can compromise either or both partners, and if you stay together a long time it eventually will. One needs to be able to see oneself and one's partner loveable and imperfect best friends.
I'm a good single guy. I'm better as a married partner (I feel more able, more stable and enjoy sharing the load with someone). Overall I'm really happy.
2007-02-01 09:08:45 · answer #2 · answered by OpalMirror 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very happy in my relationship. Dated my wife for 2 years, took a break to see other people, then got back together and dated for 4 more before getting married. We have been married for 13 years and it still seems as though it were only yesterday that we got married. The key to my happiness = don't marry until you are BOTH sure...comunicate...never tell a lie (you don't have to remember anything that way!).
2007-02-01 08:11:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mike T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband and i have been together for 12 years, married 10. We have 2 kids together and he has three daughter's with his first wife. W e are so happy together. Or friends say that we make them sick when we are all together. All of them are in relationships that suck! they are either married and the cheat on each other [ ANYWAY} My husband and I are great together. I wish that everyone could be as happy as we are!!!!
2007-02-01 08:15:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for 3 years...we have 2 children , I am very happy. Wouldn't trade if for anything in the world. Of course there are times you get on each others nerves, but mostly its great.
2007-02-01 08:13:22 · answer #5 · answered by kiss me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Married and VERY happy! I am married to my best friend...yes we have our little quarbles sometimes...but never anything serious and we always communicate. We are more in love with eachother every day....and the more we experience together the more we appreciate one another!
2007-02-01 08:29:13 · answer #6 · answered by designz51 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm in a very happy and healthy long term relationship. I'm an adult and have been dating my man for a year an a half. I've never been happier in my entire life.
2007-02-01 08:05:54 · answer #7 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm happily married... We don't have any major problems, we hardly even argue. I count my blessings every day.
I didn't mind being single - but I love being married. I really enjoy the companionship of the right person.
2007-02-01 08:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i did have a happy relationship. long term we wanted to get married but he broke my heart on sunday and said "i dont want this relationship anymore" its a long sotry but anyways the relationship wasnt the problem. it was fine. got into thos elittle arguments her and there. we were together for over 2 years. we were eachothers first loves and eveything. we talked about marriage a few times as well... but he just ran away from me.
HIS LOSS anyways!
2007-02-01 08:08:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM!!!!!! i am very happy and engaged to the love of my life....i had some bad relationships before and thought that i would never find someone who would love me for me........but i did. and i am soooooo happy we are getting married in June.....he loves me more than anything in the whole world and i love him more than he will ever know so not everyone is unhappy. :)))))))
2007-02-01 08:08:32 · answer #10 · answered by blah blah blah 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋