if your wife/husband knew about your liking of the same sex, and agreed to let you explore that option with you being around , but they have gone several times and done it and then told you about it when they got home..would you consider that cheating? hypothetically of course...♥
2007-02-01 07:59:38 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
YES...hypothetically of course
2007-02-01 08:02:52 · answer #1 · answered by gabby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that cheating is cheating if you know/suspect the other person wouldn't be okay with it. All marriages are different but in general, your wife would probably take offence. She might think of it as cheating, because these women are objects of your desire and you're paying them to be, well, desirable and take their clothes off. I'd say that it was emotional cheating, because when you cheat on somebody you're basically sending the message that they're not attractive enough to earn your exclusivity. Which is the same message that married men send to their wives when they go to strip clubs. It depends in the occasion too, like if it's a stag night or something, then she might be a little huffy or whatever but she'll probably understand that it's a guys night for a friend. If you're going because you want to watch omen get naked without your wife knowing then yeah, it's cheating.
2016-05-24 02:48:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its cheating, only because you two agreed to something (explore this option together) and they went behind your back and experienced it without you. Don't listen to the people who are telling you its wrong because its someone of the same sex.... ignore them, if you agree to something and you both want it and are consenting adults, go for it! Just remember: Safe, Sane and Consensual.
Talk to your partner tell them your feelings and if this really truly is something you want to experience together then make sure you are both on the same page, and go for it! have fun!
2007-02-01 08:33:45 · answer #3 · answered by Lovely Lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically yes.... just because you have permission to do it with them present does not give you a free pass to play w/o them around and then ask for forgiveness after the event. If he/she wants to be present, then why would you not include them? Because you get a thrill out of "cheating".
2007-02-01 08:19:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's considered cheating and it doesn't matter if it is of the same sex. Cheating is still cheating.
2007-02-01 08:14:24 · answer #5 · answered by Nancy M. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Any sex without the consent of your spouse is cheating.
2007-02-01 08:54:16 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hypothetically speaking of course....
If two people have an agreement and one knowingly breaks it - it is called betrayal. Yes it is cheating.
2007-02-01 08:03:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Technically, yes. It's not always a matter of the physical contact with another person. In this case it would include deceit by omission.
2007-02-01 08:04:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm confused. You had an interest in a same-sex option, but they had gone out and done it for you without telling you? What?
2007-02-01 08:07:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you feel compelled to sneak around or keep it from your spouse, you're cheating. It's not a question of gender; it's honesty and trust.
2007-02-01 08:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by SA Writer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋