hi i have been with my boyfriend for nearly 8 years now he is 30 and i am 22 years old my problem is i have put up with seeing him only on a weekend and only him phoning me on a weekend for the past 8 years but now i am having a real problem getting him to move out with me or have my baby or even get married which he asked me to do 6 years ago, he always keeps putting it off everytime i ask him to move pout with me he just says wait untill i leave college which i have no problem with except now he has just bought his mums house with her and he is now tied to his mum for the next 5 years i have gone round this all in my head and the only thing i can think of is he is seeing someone else but i cant see him doing that what can i do to sort this mess out please help?
2007-02-01 07:49:47 · 6 answers · asked by doodygirl2007 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i was 15 when we first started seeing each other but he thought i was 16 not his fault
2007-02-01 07:56:02 · update #1
yeah ive met his mum and dad and friends they all know about me
2007-02-01 07:57:49 · update #2
Dump him and move on! I find it scary that you've been together since you were 14 and he was 22. He sounds like a guy with a fetish for very young girls.... and I wouldn't be surprised to find out he's got one locally.
I hope things work out for you...
2007-02-01 07:54:28 · answer #1 · answered by tah_map 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well If i were you i would just tell him that after investing so mnay years of your life into your relationship you would like more of a commitment from him and he should respect that if he loves you But i have to be honest to only phone and see a man on the weekends for 8 years sounds fishy to me and shouldve to you a long time ago. I mean that leaves so much time for him to lead a seperate life even have another person possibly even have a wife and kids of his own for all you know so me personally I would do some investigating of my own to see if there is something I am not being told about the real him If you have no time and have some money hire a private investigator I mean you are my age and if my bf didnt see me on the weekdays and only on the weekends I would want to know why and what he really does on his m-f's just dont allow urself to be any mans fool you are young he is not all that young you have a lot of time with gods help to find "the one" dont settle for less if he is not doing for you what you want your man to do then replace him with one that will good luck
2007-02-01 15:59:48 · answer #2 · answered by bkgrl718 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not be seeing someone else.... He's having the best of both worlds, the caring from his mum through the week and the best bits with you at the weekend, and you're allowing him too and have done for the last 8 years. Have you met his Mum? Does she know anything about you?
Apron strings need to be cut, and until he does, I don't hold out much hope for you.
I wish you luck whatever you decide, you deserve more.
2007-02-01 15:56:00 · answer #3 · answered by lynn a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 22 and you've been going on with the same guy for eight years? I'd say you need a change, girl. I'm think that he feels this way too, only he can't really tell you .... maybe because you're inclined to be a bit clingy?
Learn to live without him. So what if he's seeing someone else, you should too.
2007-02-01 16:06:09 · answer #4 · answered by Orla C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well he sounds like a right Mummy's boy .I think it's time you out grew your teenage crush and found yourself a man.
2007-02-01 16:04:26 · answer #5 · answered by pigtailkid 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need sex hun
2007-02-01 15:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋