Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

Last year, i went long-distance with this guy for 8 months. We met while he was visiting his dad, who goes to my church. We spent a few days together, and on the last day i saw him, he asked me out. After a while, I got really tired of the whole 3 states apart thing so I broke up and moved on. He didn't - and the next time he came to visit, (over Christmas break) I started getting "the feeling" again. We talked every day and hung out as much as we could, and i loved him more then i ever thought i would. This time, the day he left he kept saying how "he didn't want to leave me" and that he is going to try to move up here to be with me more, to try and work things out. The problem, is that I dont like him anymoreI I dont want him to ruin his life by moving here if we're never going to work. He is way more into me then i'm into him! His sister is pretty much my role model and I don't want to do anything that would hurt either of them! She keeps joking that "i'm going to marry her brother"

2007-01-29 08:21:01 · 26 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

my new husband jo is a very devoted/supporting dad/exhusband.jo promised hi ex they would raise thier only child tom together after the divorce.because of this jo maintains daily contact(phone,email ect)with his ex regarding everthing from sports/school activities to what tom ate for lunch.its not unlike her to call jo for 20 mins to tell him what she and tom did for the day.i understand jo does not what to miss out on anything with his son but tom is 7yrs old and old enougth to tell his dad what he did.i feel like hes still married to her just not living with her.this would not bother me much if his ex was not so bitter to me and except me.she had made it very clear i will never be part of her "family unit"and wants me to have nothing to do with toms life as i'm not really family.since jo's life revolves around his son it is hard for me not to be involved.jo will not back me on any of this as he says its her right as a mom to decide what i can an can't do regarding tom and if he stands up for me it will only make it worse for tom.

2007-01-29 08:20:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 08:20:19 · 63 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a theory and I want to see if is true. I will not tell you my theory because I do not want to influence answers. I will tell you after the question has been up for a while.

2007-01-29 08:20:09 · 22 answers · asked by Stuey 6 in Singles & Dating

He's 18 and i'm 13, he said if I wasn't 13, he'd ask me out. What should I do? I really like him and he likes me....but does age really matter? =\

2007-01-29 08:19:59 · 6 answers · asked by yodachrissy 1 in Singles & Dating

Of a chick? when people refer to a ckick(girl) what do they mean exactlay?

2007-01-29 08:19:54 · 4 answers · asked by Isurehopeyouthinkimcool 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband had a harsh childhood (drug addicted Mom and abusive, cruel Dad.) My husband spent 14yrs with his 1st wife, often working 2 jobs while she stayed home. He says he can count on one hand how often she said she loved him or thanked him for anything. He admits that he never had a backbone with her. She verbally and emotionally abused him and he took it, not knowing how a real family is supposed to feel.
Now she has custody of their 2 boys and she is so evil and mean. She tells the boys and everyone else that my husband used to abuse her. I have caught her in so many lies and schemes to know that my husband is the one telling the truth. He is so patient, gentle, and loving and doesn't deserve this treatment. It's obvious to anyone that he is intimidated by her but she is 5'1" with a sweet voice so it's hard to not believe her if you didn't know both of them. She uses the kids to get at him and encourages them to be rude to us. There is no talking to her. What do we do?

2007-01-29 08:19:28 · 10 answers · asked by yadayada 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is Playing hard to get good or bad??

2007-01-29 08:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by Madeline G 1 in Singles & Dating

"let go of myself" ? As in "Stop to worry, let go..." ?

2007-01-29 08:16:25 · 13 answers · asked by Voy P 1 in Friends

she is beautiful what can i say..i try but sometimes she said no or yes

2007-01-29 08:16:23 · 13 answers · asked by Mickie Lee's Hater 1 in Singles & Dating

my ex-bf is going to call me. what sould i say to him i like him but we are not going out what should i say to now

2007-01-29 08:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by jamie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am adopted, but have no desire to look for my birth parents. My sister who is adopted from a different family has looked for hers and I am not sure if she ever found them. I would like to find out from different adopted individuals what their success/non-success stories are.

2007-01-29 08:15:55 · 6 answers · asked by Important 4 in Family

I usually talk to my friends when I'm bored but tonight no one is online and I'm really bored! any solution?!

2007-01-29 08:15:40 · 26 answers · asked by talk_2me_imbored 1 in Friends

2007-01-29 08:15:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was at my friends 16th birthday party yesterday. Her boyfriend was so mean to me! We were playing games and were on a team and he was being nice giving me high fives and stuff. Later he turns mean calling me special ed ( I'm not special education by the way) because I said something stupid. He is mean to me for no reason. He was like I'm going to call you that when I see you in the hall. Her boyfriend doesn't even know me that well! I told him this and he was like I kinda do because you talk to Alex at his locket ( Alex is my friend). Why is he mean to me?

2007-01-29 08:15:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

His Friends Say We Are A ''Sad'' Couple.Im ick of This Crap From His Friends, Even Though They Are Single. We Love Each Other Sooo Much And We Have A Unique Relationship, Everythings Perfect With Us Its Just THEM! Help!

2007-01-29 08:15:16 · 10 answers · asked by hannaht2k5 1 in Singles & Dating

I see a lot of girls nowadays claiming to be women, and wanting a real man .. or complaining about the lack of real men.

but can any girl be a woman ... is it age .. maturity ... ?

are you one just because you think you are .. ?

is it how you carry yourself ...?

is it when you stop fainting at rock concerts .. or what ..?


Send all answers to the temple

Dr bad
Please be aware that it will not be possible to reply to all... If you do not hear from me within 3 days.. make of it what you will ... but it probably means that you were unsuccessfull ;-))

2007-01-29 08:14:37 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There's this girl I like but everytime i try and talk to her, I get nervous. I'm not the greatest looking guy in the world either so that doesn't help me out. But I have a great personanlity. That Matters right? What can i do? Please help!!!!

2007-01-29 08:14:20 · 13 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Singles & Dating

I was not meaning any disresect to any one. And to one of my answers I got. I was with the guy for a year . And don't go calling people s***s when you do't know the whole thing.

2007-01-29 08:14:13 · 3 answers · asked by mandimaydowhatshepleases 2 in Singles & Dating

please?

2007-01-29 08:14:11 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I really want to see how other people feel about this issue. Most people from church don't think that you should date anyone that don't attend church. How do u feel?

2007-01-29 08:13:14 · 9 answers · asked by sweet p 3 in Singles & Dating

My best friend has been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy but she is so naive she thinks just cause her husband is hopelessly in love with her and she is his whole life that means he would never cheat on her..I told her never say never...anybody agree with that.

2007-01-29 08:13:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother and his wife has had their children taken from them, the two oldest has been in foster care for about 1 1/2 years she had a baby and that to was take a year ago. they should have to went to the classes to get the kids back but never did, what can I do to get them out of foster care before they get adopted? Someone out there has got to know what can be done. We are in two different states if that helps.

2007-01-29 08:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by angel eyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

When you really care about a guy. He has stated that he cares for you. But he is depressed. So he pulls away and you inform him that you need to move on. So he says..."if that's what you want to do." He states that he can not handle a relationship at the time but at the same time seems like he wants me to hang around.
WHY the Mixed Signals???

Yes.. we were sexually active and that was not a problem. HE is the one that has stopped that. Says he enjoys it very much with me..."But doesnt want to mess with my head". I still want and have offfered the sex....

2007-01-29 08:12:00 · 5 answers · asked by MiMi 1 in Singles & Dating

ok Im 20yrs, i have two girlfriends, the first one is my first true love we beeing together for 2 yr. she is so romantic and cares for me so much. on bed shes shy and im a wild animal so is not as good as i would like it to be. on the other hand the other girl is not as romantic but on bed is a FREAK!!! and i love that. both of them are attractive, same age(19), height, weigth, color, both are college students there is so much on common that i have a hard time deciding which one i should stay with. I need HELP romantic or sexual...why????

2007-01-29 08:11:45 · 20 answers · asked by superman 2 in Singles & Dating

even though i look and act in a more mature way than my age.....most people think i am 24 or 25..... but still is it wrong to go out with a girl who is 5 years older?

2007-01-29 08:11:05 · 26 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:10:56 · 6 answers · asked by j. 1 in Singles & Dating

honestly guys! is realy the fat girls get no life with boys coz she`s fat! or what do you think about that?

2007-01-29 08:10:47 · 9 answers · asked by pearl 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:10:43 · 14 answers · asked by eddie_baller 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not into porn. is that normal??

2007-01-29 08:10:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce