Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

There are several people that we feel could cause problems at a wedding, but they are "dating" people that should be there. Is it possible to invite them to the reception only, even though they would be with a couple of the people at the actual ceremony? We would invite them only to the reception, where we would know they wont ruin the ceremony, just to be fair. How would you go about inviting someone and not a guest with them, by keeping the ceremony family only, if we have one? Can we invite the person (say his father) to just the ceremony and then seperately his significant other to just the reception so she doesnt cause issues? What should we do? How could we word the invitation so they know that he cant bring her to the wedding? Do we send just a seperate invitiation to her worded for those just welcome to the reception? This is a tough situation, but I want it family only and she will cause issues, and she isnt welcome under the circumstances she has caused....

2007-01-29 08:00:56 · 21 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Weddings

I have a boyfriend who I have been with for quite a while, the thing is there is somebody else on the scene don't see him very often and not been unfaithfull in anyway but my heart is so confused how do I know what I am supposed to do and how do I make sure I am not making the biggest mistake of my life in what ever I do.

Been feeling so down and everything lately and don't know if i think this might just be a way to escape and try something new.

Don't even know if the other guy likes me or not!!!!!!!

I sound like a teenager with a crush!!!!

2007-01-29 08:00:50 · 12 answers · asked by karen H 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

He's this amazing guy... we've been friends for a little more than a year, but we've been really tight off and on. He gets mad at me for saying the smallest things, but makes me happy when i'm with him. We've gotten in two big fights, one last February (when we broke up) and one just a week ago. He got really mad at me this time for being "stupid/blonde" and that's when i just blew up. I said something a shouldn't have but i apologized a few times, and he doesn't seem to be forgiving! I really want to stay friends with him, but how?

2007-01-29 08:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 2 in Friends

I like to be submissive....is that wrong since I am young?? ( but legal)

2007-01-29 08:00:28 · 4 answers · asked by liyah's mommy 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im lookin to have an affair but i hate those sites that offer that kind of thing for a fee, i just want to meet someone close by thats looking for the same thing i am.

2007-01-29 08:00:15 · 24 answers · asked by red o 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 08:00:11 · 13 answers · asked by fred 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife is an animal lover...we have 3 cats and take care of ferals in the neighborhood.

Today, she read on the news that they killed the horse known as Barbaro.

Since hearing the news, my wife has left work early and is crying her eyes out at home... I'm talking pure hysteria here!!!

I'm obviously not leaving work early to comfort her as she cries for a horse she had no personal contact with at any point in her life...

Now, she is looking to donate money to a foundation to help horses (a big waste of money in my mind)

What can I do to snap her out of this? She shouldn't be crying over any animal, let alone a horse who had a good life (I mean, this horse won the kentucky derby, I'm sure it had all the privilidges in life including money, fame and female horses)

2007-01-29 08:00:00 · 15 answers · asked by Ted Arcidi 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok!!! so... my hubby and i have been married for 6 years now... and he wants a separation. we both know within our hearts we do belong together. right now he isnt happy with himself and i am not happy with myself. i am having a hard hard time feeling the rejection from him. HOW.. do i heal this hurt that i feel. i am 24 years old.. i have been with him since i was 16... what do i do? we are on good terms.. we talk and everything is good.. i have my own place he has his... i just dont know what to do to help me cope with this situation. he is also leaving for korea in the start of march so that will be easier for me too. we both arent sure if we want this to be permanent but how can i prepare myself for the time to come if it is permanent? any advice or help will be appreciated

2007-01-29 07:59:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i dont know why im so damn lonely.i dont got a true friend in the world.
i am 13,sorta short,and indian(not native american!).i dont speak english with an accent.
is this cause i hang out with the wrong crowd,i listen to weird songs, or cause wat i eat?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

2007-01-29 07:58:37 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i love my family and i respect my parents wishes untill im out of the house because i love them and they care for me sometimes i dont agree and i get mad but i understand that they love me enough to care...is there anymore people in this world that dont hate there parents and that respect them please i would like to know!thanks

2007-01-29 07:58:30 · 8 answers · asked by Helena White 2 in Family

i had a dream last night, and i was dreaming about one guy. i used to know him by internet. but when i saw him in my dream. it wasn't him. i saw another guy. he is so kute and he was kissing me. it was so romantic. and he said that he wanna marry me. what is that mean? i wonder

2007-01-29 07:58:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah, please, continue to yell and scream to me what you think is right & wrong.

2007-01-29 07:57:18 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have for the first time in my life fell in love. I love it but at same time scared to death. He is in love with me also. We broke up for 3 weeks and was the most miserable in our life. The day we got back together we realised we were in love for sure..no doubts.
I am scared to death...I have been married before and never felt like this...help!!!! What do I do?

2007-01-29 07:57:03 · 11 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been on the depo shot dince nov 25(i think). anyways if u know anything about it plz tell me. for me one min im fine,then the next im crying. Plus my mind is thinkin crazy stuff(nothing sucided or harming anyone) just stuff that ain't me. i Feel crazy any a way. pesonally i think it's the shot because of the horomones,or watever. plz tell me wat im going though is the depo shot in me. Because usally i am not like this. also give me some advice how to get stuff off me mind! thanks so much for ur advice

2007-01-29 07:56:55 · 4 answers · asked by ♥Classii1♥ 1 in Singles & Dating

My Husband is at the Academy for Highway Patrol, he will not be home for his birthday or Valentine's Day. He only gets to come home on Friday Nights, and has to go back on Sunday afternoons. My question is.... What can I suprise him with for Valentines. I am going to plan on celebrating it on February 9th. Any ideas on Something memorable....That will also blow his mind. He is always so romantic to me and I want to do something special for him that he would never be able to forget.

2007-01-29 07:56:16 · 10 answers · asked by kelynn1985 3 in Marriage & Divorce

then rejected me at last?..uknow everything ! he even blushes whenever i am around.. talks to me, complimenting me alot.. u know, his friends are more friendly to me.. and stuff..but why when i confessed he rejected me?!!

2007-01-29 07:55:43 · 4 answers · asked by suMeone'SUmwhere 2 in Singles & Dating

8 or 9 of your own and 8 or 9 adopted.

2007-01-29 07:55:31 · 11 answers · asked by :) 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl said that to me and i dont know what it means is it an excuse because now she is with some other cowboy and im kinda mad about it we were together for three years what the heck?

2007-01-29 07:55:11 · 11 answers · asked by Joe 2 in Singles & Dating

Seriously, as a relatively young man, any attractive woman is going to be someone with whom I would like to have a sexual relationship. However, I am happily married and very content with my beautiful, loving wife and two children. But I have become friends with an attractive woman, same age and I really just want to be her best friend. I have spoken with my wife about it and although she is a bit tentative, she is willing to see it through with me. Is this possible, or will the natural sexual tensions get in the way. I mean, there are lots of people I know with sexy wives, its just that I do not wish to be their friend. This is eating me up and I don't know what to do. I really value this woman's friendship and I feel it is a huge positive for my life. Please none of the obvious sarcasm, just honest answers from those who have experience with this.

2007-01-29 07:54:30 · 26 answers · asked by James S 1 in Friends

So, lately, I find myself asking my bf to do things to me that he used to do with his past lovers and for some STRANGE reason it actually turns me on. So, here's the thing- I'm bi, so I don't have a problem sitting at home discussing if a girl is cute or not with my bf. Now here's the thing, it's been almost 2yrs and sometimes I feel I'm too much for him. Before we got together we were friends and he used to talk about how much of a "rough" type he was. Now, he says its different and that he loves me so he rather make love to me. Which is soooo sweet btw. After a while he's just like, "can we stop this pretending already, I just want you". So fine, when we get back into it, he starts to get rough but eventually goes right back to "making love". I know, I know, I'm an ungrateful woman. How do I try to make him open up more so that he doesn't feel like he has to hold back with ME? We both enjoy each other, I just want him to let loose and open up and moan as loud as he wants to.

2007-01-29 07:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she Yells and screams at me sometimes and i try my best to be good to her i want to leave but haven't found the heart yet because i keep thinking it will get better, and it does for awhile but always goes back to hell!!! Should i stay supportive of her and deal with her temper tamptrums or hit the bricks and start over? And by the way shes 36 im 24!

2007-01-29 07:54:00 · 21 answers · asked by dbone2you 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How do u think I can compliment a guy on or about his girlfriend..saying how pretty she is,don't leave her..and so on..

2007-01-29 07:52:52 · 17 answers · asked by Annabella 2 in Singles & Dating

If you have family that uses guilt to get you to perform to their expectations and to control you. And their religion makes them think that you are screwing up your life and your kids lives. (They don't directly say anything that often.. but their ideals definetly come across strong... which leaves me in the 'sinner' and 'need help' spot). I don't want my kids around them too much.

How much contact until my children start getting affected???

2007-01-29 07:52:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

ok so my bf and i took a break but we still acted like we were dating...the break was because of the distance between us and thats like an hour...all of the suden...he sends me a text saying that we need to talk...and i was like ok...about what...and he tells me that he is with somone else...Now before he started dating me he was with his ex for 3 years...she cheated on him more than once with his friends...and i told him that i would always be there for him and be by his side no matter what...and he told me that he wanted to love again and he could tell that i wanted to love him and be there for him...and he said thats what he wanted to...so i dont know what happen...and i told him " i guess i was just a REBOUND girl then"...and he said "YOU CANT BE A REBOUND IF IT WASNT SERIOUS" what the hell does that mean...........PLEASE help me understand what he is saying

2007-01-29 07:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah.Elise 2 in Singles & Dating

I am custom making my bridesmaids and mother of the bride tote bags. At this point, I am uploading a photo of a single orange mini calla lily and then putting "Bridesmaid", "Maid of Honor", and "Mother of the Bride" beneathe the flower. Would it be better to do initials? I was thinking they might get more use after the wedding, but I thought my first idea was so cute. What do you think?

2007-01-29 07:52:11 · 10 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

I have a male friend that I had not seen in eight months, when he seen me we hugged and kissed. Thats one thing we had never done 8, months ago. Did it mean that he missed me? He even held me while were asleep does that mean he has feelings for me?

2007-01-29 07:51:31 · 30 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 07:51:30 · 8 answers · asked by wwe diva 1 in Friends

I really like this guy and i love to flirt with him anyone please give me some good ideas of how to flirt with him like what do i do?

2007-01-29 07:51:06 · 4 answers · asked by GoGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to know if my parents will should be changed with my children as beneficiaries instead of myself. My parents are elderly. If I were to inherit their money would my husband get half of it in the likely event that we divorce? It's not a lot of money, but I need to protect my children. I work full time and he refuses to look for work. Our savings are dwindling. Also would a judge require that he actually work so he could contribute to child support? I'd appreciate any serious comments.

2007-01-29 07:50:25 · 15 answers · asked by Debbie S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do some women have a fascination with watching two guys together? Even at that why when having sex they like to play with the guys butt? Just curious what turns them on with them. So please let me know.

2007-01-29 07:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by andyramvzb 3 in Singles & Dating