So, lately, I find myself asking my bf to do things to me that he used to do with his past lovers and for some STRANGE reason it actually turns me on. So, here's the thing- I'm bi, so I don't have a problem sitting at home discussing if a girl is cute or not with my bf. Now here's the thing, it's been almost 2yrs and sometimes I feel I'm too much for him. Before we got together we were friends and he used to talk about how much of a "rough" type he was. Now, he says its different and that he loves me so he rather make love to me. Which is soooo sweet btw. After a while he's just like, "can we stop this pretending already, I just want you". So fine, when we get back into it, he starts to get rough but eventually goes right back to "making love". I know, I know, I'm an ungrateful woman. How do I try to make him open up more so that he doesn't feel like he has to hold back with ME? We both enjoy each other, I just want him to let loose and open up and moan as loud as he wants to.
2007-01-29 07:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People change. If you don't like how he has changed, then you should move on. Personally, I think you are luckier than you realize. One day, when you grow up about these things, you will see just what you lost (and you will lose him). You want to PLAY. He wants to LOVE. Too bad they can't be combined by both of you, but I don't think HE has the problem.
2007-01-29 08:00:14 · answer #1 · answered by lcamel2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-03 05:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Sounds like there is nothing here on yahoo answers for you..this is something that he is going to have to open up about all within himself
2007-01-29 07:59:04 · answer #3 · answered by Simple1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no because i do the same thing and it is not i used to think that to about me untill i wanted to be with a girl and when it came dont to it i really didnt want to be with her but to this day i still sit at home and dicuss girls with my brothers
2007-01-29 07:58:16 · answer #4 · answered by cooper2cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make it rough for him... you could always use bondage and tie him down... then really get him going wild...
bring in a friend and you two get hot and sweaty while he can only watch and occassionally get touched by the two of you... :D
any other ideas, just let me know... ;)
2007-01-29 08:00:31 · answer #5 · answered by Forlorn Hope 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him what to do,, grab his hair too guys love that when woman takes charge,, wack it a bit,, like you see in the movies,, he will love it if you pull them or slightly hurt them, not bad, ,just alittle
2007-01-29 07:58:55 · answer #6 · answered by rich2481 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let him know how you feel dont hold back anything especially if you love him like you say you do
good luck sweetie
2007-01-29 09:42:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
why try to make him emotional? thats for the woman and a man is less emotional becase thats what he is supposed to do as a man. now if you want him to get more into it in the bed room, tell him what you like talk dirty during sex. men like to please their women he'll do what you ask in the heat of passion
2007-01-29 07:59:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
smack him and call him a pig...if you start with the rough stuff he will probably follow suit
2007-01-29 07:57:20 · answer #9 · answered by kerfitz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you two are not sexually compatible. It does happen.
2007-01-29 07:57:50 · answer #10 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋