I have for the first time in my life fell in love. I love it but at same time scared to death. He is in love with me also. We broke up for 3 weeks and was the most miserable in our life. The day we got back together we realised we were in love for sure..no doubts.
I am scared to death...I have been married before and never felt like this...help!!!! What do I do?
2007-01-29 07:57:03 · 11 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes falling in love is a very scary thing bcause its new to u and u wouldnt know what to do or how to feel about it and in the back of ur mind u know that u could get hurt and u wouldnt want to love again
2007-01-29 08:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by cooper2cool 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Our biggest fear in relationships is letting down our guard and completely giving our selves to another person, exposing all of who we are. The fear is that the carpet will be pulled from right underneath just when you feel yo are on secure ground.
Don't know why you broke up, but think through that and make sure it is resolved. It will come up again if not. Whatever you sweep under the carpet now, will surely show up later, along with everything else you've been setting aside. Resolve as it happens. Find the root of the issues. You can't just say, "Ok, I won't get mad anymore". You have to know what made you mad, and why.
Life and Love are a roller coaster. Just make sure your seatbelt is on and you'll be OK.
2007-01-29 16:12:40 · answer #2 · answered by degroove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, falling in love can be quite scary.
I am currently dealing with the same issue. I hope for the results that you've gotten. My guy is amazing and thoughtful...so much so that I am awaiting to be woken up from this.
Go for it. Yes, its scary, but it sounds like it deserves a chance.
2007-01-29 16:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes its normal but just take it one day at a time and dont rush into anything. Let nature take its course. And be happy that u found luv.
2007-01-29 16:07:55 · answer #4 · answered by Cinco 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's normal to be scared, because you really don't know what the future holds for you. just relax and enjoy each other and don't think of the future what might happen. live for today .
2007-01-29 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by misty blue 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has happne to my once or twices you get over it in a mounth or two it is normal to be scared when you are really in love
2007-01-29 16:24:27 · answer #6 · answered by fionn hannon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes its normal. the new range of emotions is unfamiliar and it is hard to process your feelings. just take it slowly and see how it all works out.
2007-01-29 16:03:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit back and enjoy the feeling that it gives you.
2007-01-29 16:02:45 · answer #8 · answered by Miss J 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is scary but just relax, enjoy what you have!!!
2007-01-29 16:05:33 · answer #9 · answered by Weiners and Beans 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
TAKE IT ONE DAY AT A TIME AND BE HONEST WITH HIM
2007-01-29 16:01:07 · answer #10 · answered by tinaguhc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋