He's this amazing guy... we've been friends for a little more than a year, but we've been really tight off and on. He gets mad at me for saying the smallest things, but makes me happy when i'm with him. We've gotten in two big fights, one last February (when we broke up) and one just a week ago. He got really mad at me this time for being "stupid/blonde" and that's when i just blew up. I said something a shouldn't have but i apologized a few times, and he doesn't seem to be forgiving! I really want to stay friends with him, but how?
2007-01-29 08:00:48 · 10 answers · asked by I am Sunshine 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
OH MY.... Just drop him period! What kind of enemies do you have if this is what you consider a friend? You sound like you are in your young teens - there will be THOUSANDS of men after this jerk and I bet by the time you are 16 you will forget this loser's name!
2007-01-29 08:06:48 · answer #1 · answered by Gemma H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he is going to hold a grudge, it isn't worth being his friend. Sooner or later, your resentment will build to a point that you will have another blow-up.
You broke up. That makes this difficult to deal with. Guys often have trouble staying friends with girls after a break-up, because they still want the affection without the hassles of the relationship.
Personally, I'd find another person to be close to, or just leave him alone until he cools off.
2007-01-29 08:06:27 · answer #2 · answered by Garylian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its better to find these things out sooner than later. Just think about 10 years down the road, where do you see yourself. That will give you the answer that you need.
2007-01-29 08:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
adult adult males extremely like ladies that snort at each and everything. it ought to help if whenever you stated them to praise them and resources them a hug. this can allure to you in the route of guy acquaintances. also once you observe them interior the halls only say hi. and in case you strike up a small friendship be particular to invite him to loaf round or some thing to get to understand him more desirable and to capture up with.
2016-10-16 06:37:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not a true friend if he keeps calling you names and picking fights with you. So forget him and move on with your life.
2007-01-29 08:09:12 · answer #5 · answered by shay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend will not let you be yourself, or you can not let him be himself; you need to let it go. Date other people and learn and grow, everything will work itself out in due time.
2007-01-29 08:08:58 · answer #6 · answered by whatevit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i say tell him that it just came out and u didn't mean to say it. tell him u r srry a bunch of times and that u still want to be friends.
2007-01-29 08:07:42 · answer #7 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that doesn't sound like a friend to me. Move on
2007-01-29 08:07:44 · answer #8 · answered by James S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He called you a stupid blonde AND YOU APOLOGIZED TO HIM???
2007-01-29 08:06:43 · answer #9 · answered by jim 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes gay!!
2007-01-29 08:04:54 · answer #10 · answered by suelove813 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋