Why am i so lonely???

Question

i dont know why im so damn lonely.i dont got a true friend in the world.
i am 13,sorta short,and indian(not native american!).i dont speak english with an accent.
is this cause i hang out with the wrong crowd,i listen to weird songs, or cause wat i eat?
PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!

Answer 1

try doing things that you enjoy doing such as volunteering, hobbies, extra-curricular, etc.. and you will meet people who share similar interests
then you have something to talk about
it really has nothing to do with height, weights, musical tastes, or the 'crowd'

Answer 2

hell no, it's just what happens sometimes to teens. your still finding out who you are, and when you learn more of who you are and what you want, you will have more friends. a lot of us don't have a true friend, doesn't mean it's you, just not the time yet for that best friend to come into your life. be who you are, listen to the music you like, dress the way you want to. life is short sweetheart, and you need to be free inside and when you do you will better. and to tell you the truth, true friend can backstab you just as a non true friend can do. there will be times where you are going to feel lonely all through your life at any age, that's normal. you are your own best friend, like who you are find things you like to do , and you will find others that like the same things you do. Be good and take care.

Answer 3

You don't really know you haven't got friends, what about the ones you hang around with?
No music is weird, everyone's taste is diferent, otherwise we would be boring.

Try joining a youth group, activity centre where you can meet people your age and you might even bump into someone with the same taste in music. You know, you are not alone out there.
Speak to an adult you can trust, tell them how you feel, sometimes the y do understand, in fact they may have been through the same feelings temselves, I know it is hard to believe but adults where young once. Fashions change but feelings don't. Please talk to someone you can trust. xx

Answer 4

Hang in there sweetie, it takes a little while to make a true friend. Right now everyone is just pals at school. Real friends are usually made IN the 8th grade or in high school.

Try talking to the school counselor or a trusted teacher, maybe they can help you with some of your difficulties making friends.

Answer 5

Its wat you eat.

Wrong. unless you eat your friends? any way listen at 13 you are just now learning how to be an adult. you will have many friends through-out school and life. You have to make a nose to be heard. People are kind and caring - most of them. Ignore the few that want to make you less than we all are. HUMANS. not indian - not white - not black. You are hanging out with the wrong crowd if they are doing anything illegal. Other than that Its your life. Surround yourself with love and that is what you will recieve.

Answer 6

Well first of all your at that awkward stage in your life when nothing feels right and that's normal so dont worry to much about that

and about the people you hang out with try to find people who are true to themselves like you not just because their popular

and it has nothing to do with who you are and what you eat
it's just that it feels like it but give it sometime and it will get better promise

OK good luck...

Answer 7

Being lonely is a big part of life,I am married with 3 kids and a house full of people all the time and I still used to feel lonely until I realized Jesus is allways there.The only thing that helps me is that I know the Lord Jesus and I talk to him in prayer,once you ask him in to your heart,it really helps fill that loneliness

Answer 8

you may feel alone but your not I've felt the same thing for 5 years but I'm not i have family friends and it doesn't feel like I'm alone anymore. and you need to realize you'll not alone. and for your crew if you and i mean you have a bad feeling about them then get out a soon as possible then you'll feel better. i was considered weird in my school too. I've learned to live with it and now I'm funny because I'm sooo weird. But if you need a friend ill be here

Answer 9

don't be lonely. or at least stop being sooooo sad.you are in control of your feelings. if you want to be happy then be happy. who cares if what makes you happy looks stupid. at least you'll be the one happy. and don't worry, one day you will have a real true friend and the real true love of your life, and when that day comes you will be the most happiest person alive. there will be no more lonely days for you , i promise. you just have to be patient.

Answer 10

awwww don be sad girl. i used to be lonely when da first time i came to live in USA. i don know much how to speak english, so da first place, i just don know how to talk with other pplz in my class. i just sit down and i feel that i liv in a lonely space. but when u get to liv in there longer and longer. i think u will find a true friendz one day. don be hopeless with this. and i think making friendz is too easy, just talk and smiling to each other. u see? how easy is that? just try to talk to them or ask them that( can i play with u ) .. u know? i think they will accepte ur request. and don worry. u got me . i'm right here... lolzzzzz.