ok so my bf and i took a break but we still acted like we were dating...the break was because of the distance between us and thats like an hour...all of the suden...he sends me a text saying that we need to talk...and i was like ok...about what...and he tells me that he is with somone else...Now before he started dating me he was with his ex for 3 years...she cheated on him more than once with his friends...and i told him that i would always be there for him and be by his side no matter what...and he told me that he wanted to love again and he could tell that i wanted to love him and be there for him...and he said thats what he wanted to...so i dont know what happen...and i told him " i guess i was just a REBOUND girl then"...and he said "YOU CANT BE A REBOUND IF IT WASNT SERIOUS" what the hell does that mean...........PLEASE help me understand what he is saying
2007-01-29 07:52:21 · 9 answers · asked by Hannah.Elise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hes a jerk and he didnt even care about you he just used you
2007-01-29 07:57:30 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♫§weetTart§amantha♫♥ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he was very honest with you when he told you he was with someone else and didn't lead you on. He did say he "wanted" to love you but guess that didn't happen for him...only you felt love. Sometimes girls push guys into saying stuff they don't really mean...they're just reacting in the moment. Now he says he was not serious about you so you both had different mindsets. Keep in touch with him as a friend if you want to but start dating other guys.
2007-01-29 16:01:50 · answer #2 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh oh. He wasn't as committed as you were in the relationship. It's not going to work out. Even if you get him back, the trust is shot and understandably so. Maybe he DID want to be there for you, but in the end, he couldn't be what you want and deserve. You deserve to be treated FAR BETTER than this. Heal your heart and move on. He's really not worth it.
Good luck and I'm sorry. Heartache sucks.
2007-01-29 16:00:01 · answer #3 · answered by roswell75 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Its not what he is saying your not hearing him . You would always be there for him and be by his side no matter what. Well he did what you said .Don;t say thinks to make him fell good that will hurt you .Now do you want to be his second choice { NOT} Don't think so .Maybe you should rethink this friendship. And replace him. He is not sincere with you . Best of luck
2007-01-29 16:22:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Apparently you saw the relationship as something serious. He saw it as something more casual. Which is unusual if you actually talked about it. Or was he just trying to make it sound better after his feelings for you changed or faded? The really tough part is that he could be just as confused about it as you are, but isn't willing to admit it.
2007-01-29 15:58:59 · answer #5 · answered by John D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what i take of this is that he wasnt serious about the relationship you and him had. dont try to understand what he means believe me i tried understanding and analyzing men and now i just gave up because truthfully they are so confusing i bet they dont understand themselves....keep your head up and move on and look for someone that knows what he wants trust me there are better things out there!!good luck
2007-01-29 16:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by *SIMPLY ME* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
the boy is a player. go with your first thought. if you felt as if he was treating you like a rebound girl then that's what you go with. don't let him tell you different.
2007-01-29 16:06:42 · answer #7 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he means that he was not serious about you.
2007-01-29 15:56:32 · answer #8 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He was playing you...............
2007-01-29 15:56:13 · answer #9 · answered by troble # one? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋