Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

We are in our late 50's, together for 14 years (married 10) & deeply in love. All is not perfect though, and I'm wondering if it's my fault. Am I being too demanding? Selfish? Unreasonable? If you've been in a loving relationship for at least 10-15 years, I'd like your opinion.

My wife loves me dearly and I don't doubt that. Her libido has become almost zero while mine has stayed the same (a common complaint, I guess). Still, she gives me a climax several times a week. And yet I don't feel fulfilled, and don't know why. More importantly, neither does she.

I thought it was women who come to miss the passion and romance in their relationships, who want more touching, kissing, playfulness and caressing in their realtionships. But in our relationship, it is me. We have very little of those things despite our deep love for each other. Am I weird to want those things more than my wife? To feel bad when my advances are rebuffed?

Please share your thoughts, experiences, and advice.

2007-01-29 07:24:59 · 11 answers · asked by justasking 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently put my ex on blast for bveing a liar and cheater and warned others about him. And before you guys rip me apart this why: He did lie, he cheat, he pays not child support, he keeps calling me not just our son but me, he is a released felon, recovering addict and Alchie, and tries to make me feel sorry for him by saying he was going to commit suicide the weekend before.
I know it sounds mean but I just felt compelled and I didn't do right away but sometimes anger just slips up on me and I did it. I can take the posting down anytime but it looks funny to see it.
I know I shoudn't have done it but in a way I feel a little better. I'll take it down when I feel it is the right time and besides, if he don't pay child support, he will be on that site next and that one is very serious. He could go back to jail for that.

2007-01-29 07:24:42 · 4 answers · asked by ♦ Phoenix Rising♦ 6 in Singles & Dating

It's so frustrating.

2007-01-29 07:24:29 · 31 answers · asked by Fla 2 in Marriage & Divorce

OK I have a cowboy with shoulder length light brown hair, Blue eye's, And a fine body, he is kind, respectable, and love me for me. But last nite he called me and wanted to date me!!! I paniced!!! I mean he is like my best friend and all but I don't know what to do about this. Help me girls!!!! Should I go for it??? I mean I like him and all but I don't know if it will work I am more of the wild child and he is more laid back. but I wouldn't mind having him in my bed. But what do Y'all think I should do??
Kimimila

2007-01-29 07:24:19 · 10 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

if you are male and straight?

2007-01-29 07:24:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 07:23:51 · 11 answers · asked by James M 2 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl alot and i told her so i'm still baffled

2007-01-29 07:23:02 · 1 answers · asked by Dr.D 1 in Singles & Dating

What should i do i still like him but i want to know if he is mad at me!

2007-01-29 07:22:46 · 1 answers · asked by BCSC SuperLeader 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going with this boy that wants to be my husband when i get out of school but then there another boy that i have feeling for to and i can't. The boy i'm with now we went together for 2 months and 1day then broke up 5months and on his birthday got back together and it been 1 month and 12 days and this other boy is just all i want and so is the other one!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!

2007-01-29 07:22:22 · 20 answers · asked by sexysingle_2010 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I mutually decided to end our relationship about a month ago due to our families having an issue with our relationship. Outside of this we get along great except for the fact that I didn't see him as much as I wanted to because he is a business owner so he is always working. I love him dearly and in a way that I've never loved and he loves my 3 year old daughter. I've had time to think and I decided that I don't want to be without him. We still talk the same as if nothing ever happened and we are intimate. I decided that I am willing to be with him despite my family having an issue but he tries to avoid conflict. He tells me he misses me and is more attentive to me than usual. Is he still in love with me? Is there any chance the relationship can still work and if so what can I do to get him back? Mature answers only please

2007-01-29 07:21:38 · 3 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Singles & Dating

Last year i was really good friends with this girl from my town and one night me and her got really drunk and ended up do some stuff, After that we were unseperatble she would call every nite and we would talk for ever until my mom found out and she said i couldnt see her anymore so we stoped seeing each other. and we hadent talked since then until she IM me yesterday and started saying how she has feelings for me and she wants to be with me but i moved on and Now i am with a guy... I dont think that i was truly with her when we were "friends" and I like guys but she dosnt understand that and she tinks that I was just with her as a test and i dont kno if thats what it was or if I was attracted to her but I told her that i wanted to be with my boyfriend and that i love him and she just flipped out and said that I was a fake and A b*t*h I dont kno what to do. My boyfriend dosnt kno about her and what if she tells him because she knos who he is!!!

2007-01-29 07:20:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sexy Blonde 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm wondering if it's possible nowadays, because that's what I want and it's really difficult to find

2007-01-29 07:20:43 · 7 answers · asked by carol s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

roleplay online? does it interest you? do you with both sexes?

2007-01-29 07:20:32 · 3 answers · asked by sd_andrea86 2 in Singles & Dating

I once fell in love with him,and since we split years ago we have been really close,but every time we try to be just friends we end up developing feelings again,and i'm not sure they ever disppeared-they say your first love never dies anyway.We keep getting flung back together,but recently i did something and we fell out.he refused to talk to me until the other day.I just know i can't live without him...i dont want him as a lover,i have a guy fo that and he's amazing.i need him in some way,i cant have nothing,i know that much.can we ever have a normal friendship?why do we always end up falling for eachother again?

2007-01-29 07:19:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-29 07:18:55 · 22 answers · asked by Emily 1 in Friends

is it ok, and safe to do???

2007-01-29 07:18:43 · 7 answers · asked by diddles 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you are on a back road and the speed limit is like 45m.p.h. then do you tipically drive that speed or do you go over by 5, 10, 20 miles over etc... Just wandering.

2007-01-29 07:18:06 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My friend started hating me. I still love him tho and I told him that I did. Can I give him any LOOKS or...something? to make him feel guilty, or regretful, or anything?

2007-01-29 07:17:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that is true but what are other reasons?

2007-01-29 07:16:33 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when you listen to it? I love "Relax, take it easy" by Mika or "Call on Me" by Eric Prydz. What's yours?

2007-01-29 07:16:31 · 10 answers · asked by AMBER D 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 07:16:27 · 19 answers · asked by Water Dog 2 in Singles & Dating

he was a muslim he told me he is 32 and he is married he is living saperate wd his wife frm 2 years his wife is 6 years older then him he loves his wife bt he is living alone because of some problem ...he used to chat wd me as a friend later i came to know
he has 2 kids and he is 34 and his wife is 41.i suggaest him 2 be wd his family then he told me he has an affair wd a girl so he wanna marry wd her i was suggeating him to be wd his wife he is not ready 4 it ..he did not told truth 1st after so many days i came 2 know about him ..that day we had a fight i told him i will not be ur friend any more is my decission right or should i continue my friendship wd him ..wt 2 do is he a good man or bad man.. can i believe anybody on net....and i forgot 2 say im happly married ..should i continue my friend ship on net or not...pls suggest ..wt 2 do?

2007-01-29 07:16:25 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We are using protection to avoid pregnancy. Both of us know the veiw point of society. We are consenting adults and have a great relationship. We need space and time. You Christians, er, religious types can butt out. How do we get more time, isolation, can we get married under assumed names?

2007-01-29 07:16:12 · 5 answers · asked by hoodwink 2 in Singles & Dating

i know i qualitiy is honesty,but wut else??

2007-01-29 07:15:44 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-29 07:15:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do you have someone in your past that you are still curious about??
not necessarily someone that you want to BE with, just that one person that you will always wonder about, ya know??

how do you deal with it?? do you just not think about them or do you secretly wonder about them and sometimes call to see how they are???

just curious!!! thanks!

2007-01-29 07:15:35 · 33 answers · asked by joey322 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

hi my gf finished with me after a silly argument at work 2 weeks ago. I was with her for 7 weeks. now when I ask her if she wants to get back with me she says she likes, me fancies me and has got feelings for but for now she can only give me friendship. what do I do? do I stand by her cos I like her. she got with me after leaving her ex, who she was with for 4 years. last nite she text me saying "she is having sum friends around and I cud *** if I wanna" I replied saying no cos ur best mate dnt like me and if she said nefin to me I'd loose it. she then replied saying "I should come and her best won't say nefin and if she did then it wud be me who wud loose it, cos whatever happens between me and u is our business" I used to txt and ring her a lot, and now I have started delaying in replying and in some cases not replied. so she then txts me asking why I didn't reply to her message. what can I do 2 get her back.....I love the girl. do u think I could get her back? what shoud i do ??

2007-01-29 07:15:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what it is?

2007-01-29 07:14:45 · 9 answers · asked by victoria M 2 in Family

We went out last weekend to a bar and both times I came back from the bathroom she was talking to guys. She claims it wasn't anything, but it made me uncomfortable and I don't think she understands why. We have a history of trust issues. Am I just insecure and jealous?

2007-01-29 07:14:00 · 43 answers · asked by nhresident 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 07:13:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating