I'm going with this boy that wants to be my husband when i get out of school but then there another boy that i have feeling for to and i can't. The boy i'm with now we went together for 2 months and 1day then broke up 5months and on his birthday got back together and it been 1 month and 12 days and this other boy is just all i want and so is the other one!!!!!!! HELP!!!!!
2007-01-29 07:22:22 · 20 answers · asked by sexysingle_2010 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok try like really talking to them like sit down and have a serious conversation with the one your with. ask him things that would matter to you. then do the same with the other guy whose ever answers best compare with the answers you wish the perfect guy would give chose that one
2007-01-29 07:28:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a break from both-for a couple of weeks to a month-and then have them agree they can date you (both) individually, and no (taking one or the other) until later in the school year. You are young enough to take this break, and not only date these two guys, but allow yourself time to date other guys too-in high school, and after. What if you go to college or a really good job-and you meet someone else? Give yourself time. Take care.
2007-01-29 07:30:01 · answer #2 · answered by SAK 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really feel for you honey!i went through the same problem just a few months ago and answers really helped me too!you have to be really careful not to hurt anyone in these kind of problems and that includes yourself!i think you should follow your heart and no you cant have both no matter how much you want both of them you have to choose!if your still young then maybe you should play the field for a little while and not think too seriously about marraige yet!good luck xx
2007-01-29 07:29:25 · answer #3 · answered by lil Miss Irish 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Whew! Grow up!
If you're this fickle now, that poor boy that wants to be your husband should know about it.
The other boy should know you're stringing along someone who actually wants to marry you...presumably "just in case" things don't work out with him.
It doesn't sound like you're mature enough to be in any relationships right now. Relationships are about commitment and fidelity - not playing spin the bottle.
Best wishes to you though....
2007-01-29 07:35:31 · answer #4 · answered by CassandraM 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First I think that deciding on marriage when you are so young isn't the right thing to do. You don't sound like you are ready to get married if you can't chose between two guys. Second, you need to decide who you want to be with because, if you don't, you will find yourself alone because they both will walk away.
2007-01-29 07:27:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are too young to be thinking about marriage. You have a lifetime ahead of you. Go to college! Marriage is a very serious matter and should not be taken lightly. Marriage should be a lifetime commitment. Are you ready to spend a lifetime with this person? Are there things about either of them that tend to bother you? Be honest with yourself. I am sure that there is. Can you deal with it for the rest of your life? Think real hard.
2007-01-29 07:28:52 · answer #6 · answered by catfish 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first off, you've been dating a guy for 3 months total, with a 5 month break in there, and he wants to marry you already??? hun, 3 months is nothing. i was with a guy for 5 years that i thought i was going to marry and it turned out i was so beyond wrong.
if you want to be with the other guy, then in the back of your head (and somewhere deep in your heart) you dont really want to be with the guy you're with now. i learned that the hard way. if you are with the guy you're supposed to be with, he's all you're going to want. you're young. date!! lots of guys!!! just remember to be respectful and treat your body with dignity. i'm not saying be a virgin forever, just dont open your legs for every guy that comes along. you'll have more fun and really learn to know what you want in a guy
2007-01-29 07:28:59 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Decide for yourself if its worth it,is the other guy just a flirt or someone you could marry,and if you really don't love the guy your dating now,chances are you wont in 5 or 10 years,marriage is for life,and if you are going to go out with the other guy,be honest and dump your b/f first. ps no regrets.
2007-01-29 07:28:12 · answer #8 · answered by klr_kevin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't make this any more difficult than it is.
You need to get a DEGREE first and kill all of this PUPPY LOVE crap!
Can any of your boyfriends pay rent/mortage, car note, gas, electric, water, phone, auto fuel, auto insurance, and groceries and hold it down financially--probably not.
So all these feelings don't matter if he can't support you (and the baby you may have -- should you get knocked up).
Flip a coin and choose one and WAIT until you have a DEGREE in your hands!
2007-01-29 07:29:41 · answer #9 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to end up divorced with two kids living by yourself and trying to pay the bills on what you can make on minimum wage. Stay with the one you've got.But if you want something that's going to last.Back off of the idea of marriage and give the relationship TIME to develop.
2007-01-29 07:29:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋