even though i look and act in a more mature way than my age.....most people think i am 24 or 25..... but still is it wrong to go out with a girl who is 5 years older?
2007-01-29 08:11:05 · 26 answers · asked by ? 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Okay I have one question for you would it be wrong for a 16 year old to date someone that's lets say 21? Yes technically it is illeagal and I'm not saying that ur the 16 year old and she it the 21 year old, just okay in one's person point of yeah it's wrong but nobody can decide who you can an cannot date.You are an adult and ultimately have to chose for yourself! Do you like this girl maybe love her then no it's not wrong.Nothing you chose for yourself is wrong.Some decsions you make are mistakes that were mean to be taken but that doesn't make them wrong.This 24 year old women maybe be the one girl for you.So now one can really decide who is right for you and who is wrong for you just by age.Age doesn't really define that person.What define's a person is what you see in them and believe in them that no one else does.What gets you to just want to call them up and tell them hey.What makes your day brighter just by there smile or there presence. And so you have to ask yourself this question does she do that for you does she just make you feel relaxed like there's that one person that you can listen to and she'll listen to you.Also what makes you intrested in her defines her.So no liking someone just cause there 5 years older then you isn't wrong but not everyone will see it that way.Just know what you want and what you like about here and that's all you need to know.Nobody other's acceptance of the relationship or liking her counts.Yes it does help but doesn't count only your opion counts.Hoped I helped
2007-01-29 08:26:19 · answer #1 · answered by Gretchen 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you're of legal age and mature enough for it I don't see a problem with it my little brother is married to an older woman my older brother is too. I'm with a man 10 years older than me have been since I was 18 and I think my brother was 19 or 20 when he got with his wife.
2007-01-29 16:17:54 · answer #2 · answered by crzyluci2000 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's not wrong age shouldn't matter, if you both feel comfortable than that's all that counts, age is only a number, don't let the little things come between something or someone that makes you happy.
2007-01-29 16:15:02 · answer #3 · answered by fallen_angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as the girl as Ronaldinho or Zidane in football it doesnt matter!
No its not, maybe you can teach her a few special things special one. Many girls dont like younger men usually though but for you Im sure they would make an exception.
2007-01-29 16:58:44 · answer #4 · answered by Cules 4 life: ASHKON IS BACK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would it be wrong?...as long as she is single. What is important, age or relationships? Except in the case of adults with minors...the whole age thing is up to you to decide.
Does your relationship work? If yes.. who is to judge you
2007-01-29 16:17:34 · answer #5 · answered by Friend 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. It's not illegal or anything. Those five years will barely make a difference (if they do at all) between you two. It's perfectly appropriate.
2007-01-29 16:15:22 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, i don't think so, if it isn't a problem for you or her than it shouldn't be a problem for anyone else. You're both over 18 so do whatever makes you happy.
2007-01-29 16:14:42 · answer #7 · answered by NIcole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nah it's not wrong. If you really like the girl, then you should go out with her!
2007-01-29 16:15:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely nothing wrong with it. You are both adults. Enjoy your life and don't listen to negative opinions.
2007-01-29 16:14:10 · answer #9 · answered by The It Girl ∆☻乐 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are mature for your age I think it's OK.
2007-01-29 16:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by Raven 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋