Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

Older women. What makes you like older women? Or what is it that makes you not attracted to girls your age?

2007-01-29 08:46:14 · 6 answers · asked by l'il mama 5 in Singles & Dating

If a woman tells you they need a little breather from everything after 6 dates or so, what does it mean?

2007-01-29 08:45:50 · 5 answers · asked by Chris 2 in Singles & Dating

okay i've been on birth control for like seven months. its so horrible and i hate it. it makes me sick to my stomach all the time, sleepy and moody. my personality has totally changed since i've been on it. but see, it good that i'm on it cause me and my boyfriend um....have sex like alot. and we've had so many pregnancy scares that's why i'm on it. the birth control is doing its job but i hate the side effects. i've talked to him about this and he ultimately says "do what you want" but he strongly urged me to reconsider it. he's scared of having a baby right now and so am i. i just dont know what to do. Any suggestions?

2007-01-29 08:44:44 · 11 answers · asked by texastreasure 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i get turned by naked women, i like watching girls have s#x...but at the very same time i'm enjoying sleeping with my boyfriend too much to xplain. i've even thought of hiring a gal to sleep with , mabye i'm just curious on how it feels like.do think the hiring part is a gud idea?

2007-01-29 08:43:30 · 20 answers · asked by angelic_234 2 in Singles & Dating

hey well basically i have loved this man for quite a while,we met one night and stayed in touch.i seen him again last month and i think i was a bit too forward with him but i couldn't help it.i told him as he was in my arms that i loved him.now since then i haven't heard from him.i think i may have scared him off,he is a busy man with the job that he does however i thought he would have been in touch.
shall i email him and explain that maybe i was a bit forward and if he doesnt like me that way then i would be happy just being his friend? He really is a lovely man.help.

2007-01-29 08:43:22 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am set on a photo wedding theme. I thought of decorating the church with his photos on the right wall and my photos on the left wall to represent the side. In the middle having our photos from our relationship. Would this seem completly tacky? The cake is going to have 3 layers, one of me, one of him, and then the top being us. Will this be too much?

2007-01-29 08:42:34 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

me and my boyfriend been goin out for 5 months and u use to call me every five min cuz to visit all the time and everything i really felt love now he never hardly calls he doesnt visit as much as he use to and if we break up ima gonna feel really bad cuz i let him take my virginity

2007-01-29 08:41:14 · 13 answers · asked by da_baddest_chic_4u 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:40:55 · 12 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Singles & Dating

I know I had to break with my boyfriend of 11mo. It was an emotionally abusive relationship. He was bad for me in many ways. We were good friends and lovers at times, which kept things a float. I remain strong in the decision it is best for me to move on. Now I am living alone for the first time, in the apt we got together 2mo ago (lived together 6mo). I am surrounded by stuff that is his or was once ours. Which I will be modifing soon. Last night was my first night there, stayed with my parents for a week prior till he left. We do not talk civil. We have debt together in which I am going to wash in order to avoid him.

I am having a hard time shutting my mind off with this situation. Although I know it is for the "best".... I can't sleep, I am eating everything, my mind is going "crazy"...

Any suggestions or ideas on coping mechanisms in order to move on from this situation in a healthy manner?

2007-01-29 08:40:54 · 3 answers · asked by LifeIsPassion 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I like him but if he would not have asked me to do I prolly would not have done it at all. What do u think

2007-01-29 08:40:10 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Get married, what song are you considering? I guess this goes for the more traditional types of weddings..... Basically, what song was playing during the ceremony, when you went to stand with husband-to-be? :*-)

2007-01-29 08:40:03 · 19 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Weddings

Did you ever fall in love with some one who was completely wrong for you in every since but unable to forget about them fully? Even after years apart, & relationships later, what do you do... or will I ever be able to move on completely ?

2007-01-29 08:39:10 · 2 answers · asked by Ivory 2 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating this guy for 1 year and 5 months and he cheated on me the whole year how do i tell if he is doing it again?

2007-01-29 08:38:22 · 25 answers · asked by thankgodhe'smine 2 in Singles & Dating

My X g/f and I dated for 7 months and lived together for 3. We got pregnant and had a miscarriage and now she has moved home with her parents. She found out that I cheated on her back before we got pregnant. We had a nasty break up and I called and tried to tell her I was moving on. She has since called me everyday, drove 5 hours to finish some school stuff and stayed the night at my house despite her family telling her not to see me. I have apologized over and over again and I am trying to become a better man for her. I told her last night I want to marry her and have kids with her. I am hurting so bad for doing bad things to her. She says she can not come back because she is angry and doesn't want to sacrifice her feelings. What does that mean? If she loved me then we can work it out, right? She says she knows I am changed and she knows how sorry I am, she says I want something that is not coming back. If she ever loved me,she would want to start fresh.right? i am confused

2007-01-29 08:38:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi

2007-01-29 08:38:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She is married to a man is the army who is currently being deployed. We live in California, she is in North Carolina. This deadbeat hasn't paid a dime! Will the military help since she receives his check? Also she is running a daycare out of her home? How can we collect what the children deserve?

2007-01-29 08:38:11 · 13 answers · asked by Amira H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was at a club with a female friend and she told me she loves it when a guy will without hesitation make direct eye contact. She said she may get nervous or whatever and turn away but she'll peek back and if he's still direct she gets very turned on and gets kind of flushed/ embaressed or starts to fumble with something. She did say that it wasnt a perverted leer but a confident lock and that he not turn away. I have always made quick eye contact and then turned away to not make it look like I was staring at her but she said I need to hold it longer, almost uncomfortably long for my own standards. Any truth in this, do you girls feel the same way as my friend and make the same reactions?

2007-01-29 08:37:55 · 27 answers · asked by menagainstamazoniammasterhood 3 in Singles & Dating

Roses are red vilots are blue you are fine and i love u you are so sweet sweeter than candy........ can some on add on please

2007-01-29 08:37:40 · 15 answers · asked by bigmatrixmaster 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:37:13 · 12 answers · asked by geeza 1 in Singles & Dating

What signs do guys look for to know if a woman is going to be wifey, girlfriend, booty call, money tree, etc.? Is it true that after a few minutes of meeting a girl, a guy already has her catagorized in his mind?

2007-01-29 08:37:08 · 3 answers · asked by stella 2 in Singles & Dating

There's this guy I like who is so cute and funny. He's popular, sorta my friend, and has a lot of girls drooling over him. the problem is that now that some loudmouth told him that I like him, i feel so uncomftorable around him. What do I do???

2007-01-29 08:36:50 · 3 answers · asked by STrawberry 3 in Singles & Dating

its only going to be close friends and family, so im trying to keep it as simple as can be.

2007-01-29 08:35:57 · 14 answers · asked by ツ eileen's mommy; 2 in Weddings

ok, so me and my best friend dated over the summer and it was bad...well i was bad! I really treated him poorly, and i'm not sure why. I think i was just scared that something great might actually work out for me...i tend to not have that happen! Anyways, last week i asked him for a second chance some day and he said no! So i was like, ok, move on, we're still friends... Then he shows up on sunday morning at 3am (he lives an hour away by the way) and tells me he loves me and will give me a second chance...only it was a now or never situation. he wanted my decision right then, but I said i dont even have time to be a good gf cuze i work 2 jobs, i'm in school, play basketball, and coach basketball...i have no time for a relationship (i didnt think it was fair to him cuze he deserves better). So am I being a complete idiot, cuze for some reason i just didn't think it was the right idea! HELP!

2007-01-29 08:35:40 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been with this guy for almost 2 years we are getting married in may but i am confused. See I was with this guy named mike before my new guy eric. Eric was with his now ex ashley which they had a kid together Kaden. When mike and i broke up because he was cheating on me with ashley. i was destoyed. He was my first love and I lost "it' to him. Mike and Ashley had a kid and now have a nother one on the way. Me and eric got together and i just found out we are going to have our first child togetherbut for some reason I still have felling for mike. Even thought he was abusive and put me in the hospital 4 times. Is it wrong for me to still care about him? Should I not be with eric just so I dont have to be any where near mike? what should i do... I am just confuse??? But I really don't want to have feeling for mike I want to hate him! Why can't I? If someone could please give me some advice I would love it and thank you.

2007-01-29 08:35:17 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok yea i never had a bf before in my life and im going to the High School next year! i really want one to and the guy i like is always flirting w/ me but when some one askes him if he likes me he said no. so is it?

2007-01-29 08:35:16 · 15 answers · asked by allexcheer247 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i sorta have a boyfriend i like this guy that totaly gets me but hes 19 and iam 15 then theres this other guy that likes me but i only like him as afriend

2007-01-29 08:34:55 · 25 answers · asked by xoxbabexoxox 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:34:46 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do guys always like bothering girls so much............
cuz their is this guy at my school that wont leve me alon and wont stop getting so close to me.

2007-01-29 08:34:17 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-29 08:33:33 · 17 answers · asked by rainaquaocean 1 in Weddings

How do you find the man you want to spend the rest of your life with

2007-01-29 08:33:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships