How do u know if your relationship is about to end?

Question

me and my boyfriend been goin out for 5 months and u use to call me every five min cuz to visit all the time and everything i really felt love now he never hardly calls he doesnt visit as much as he use to and if we break up ima gonna feel really bad cuz i let him take my virginity

Answer 1

I find the relationship ends with someone not being where they are suppose to be.


If he's not with you then who is he with, and he is a bastard because he took something precious and had no intention of returning. Don't cry over this bastard!

Answer 2

Guys always try harder in the beginning, once we've landed you the pressures off so the effort slips. Doesn't mean he wants to break up. Whenever i've had a relationship end, its gotten to the point where I just cant stand the site of the other person anymore. I tend to snap more cause everything they do bugs me, I get out of every activity I can. Its the difference between being lazy and pushing someone away. If hes trying hard to make you not like him its ending, if hes just not calling much but hes cool when you guys are together then its just him knowing hes got you

Answer 3

Baby girl, sorry to tell you but this relationship is going to end sooner or later. You sound pretty young, so I'll be gentle. From this point, I'm guessing you're about 15 or 16, until about the age of ... lets say 27 or so ... all men are thinking about is sex. Not because that's what they want to be thinking about ... they are called hormones and men cant help but to think about sex all the time. My suggestion would be to maybe find a boy that you're interested in, to talk to, to go to movies with, hang out, and all that stuff - but without the sex. Once they get what they want its pretty much over babe. Sorry you're having to go through this but all you can do is be strong and ask him out front : Do you want to be with me anymore? Things are different now and I just thought I should confront you about how I'm feeling. I want to know how you are feeling.

He's probably not gonna want to hear that but it would be good for you to know if you're wasting your time. And there is plenty of time for sex in your 20's and 30's ... unless you make the ultimate decision of waiting until you're married to do that again ... which is a choice I hope you can make and stick to. I sure wish I had!!!! Good Luck baby ... take care of you first before any man!!!!

Answer 4

It may be he is feeling a lot of pressure to continue calling you and visiting you all of the time. Could it be your fears of losing him is making you question him and doubting him? The pressure from all this is most likely making him feel resentful of you. Now, instead of it being fun to be with you, the pressure you have put upon him is taking the fun out of being with you. He is probably confused also as to why things have changed.OR, he felt lust for you and you mistook these feelings for being love. Once he got what he wanted, the excitement of the "chase" has worn off and now he is probably off to greener pastures. One way to know this is to ask yourself about what was the main reason of you two spending time together. Was the time spent just for sex? Was that the main focus of this relationship? You need to pull back from pressuring him into calling you and seeing you. Give room and space for him to be able to miss you. If and when he does call you, then suggest doing something together that does not involve just sex. After this, if he still does not want to call you and spend time with you, then I see it as a sign that he has lost interest and the relationship to him was just sexual. Hope I was able to help..

Answer 5

You, my dear, are out of the lovey-dovey phase. It happens to everyone. During the first few months of a relationship, people want to be together every waking second. Once that settles down, you need to learn how to balance your independence and your togetherness.
What you need to decide is whether he is out of the love phase, or if he has lost interest in this relationship. Only a good honest talk will give you the answers you seek. In the future, perhaps you should wait longer until you give yourself to someone. Some guys will use you for sex, and then discard you the moment they find someone else that interests them.
Good luck.

Answer 6

it is normal for things to slow down after a while, you both have your own life after all... or at least you should... this does not necessarily mean the relationship is about to end. Talk to him and find out! And if you do break up you're gonna feel hurt whether you sleep with him or not because breaking up hurts, that's just how it is. Hopefully you will have good memories of him to look back on as your "first".

Answer 7

that's how it is most of the time yea it sucks he took ur virginity i would be pissed but thats what some guys want the sex and then the relationship aint the same and he leaves so break up with him and find someone whos gonna be real and not only take u cause he wants sex.

Answer 8

I'ld say ur r'ship is about to end, it's most likely on the rocks...........it seems like he's pushing u away in the hope that u'll break up with him, which is slack as, but nothing's really fair when it comes to relationships, it's a hard lesson learned.

Answer 9

Did he stop calling you right after you gave up your virginity? If so, it's very possible he just used you for it.

Have you tried calling him and asking why hasn't he been calling you lately? Hope he has a decent excuse. (That doesn't seem like a lie)

Answer 10

thats really tuff... maybe he's just giving the relationship some space.. you know you can't really be up on someone all through the relationship. give it time and see where things go as far as his actions when he's with you.. and lil mama never give it up unless you REALLY love the dude otherwise your going to have regrets when you break-up.