Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My friend would like your advice. What would you do?! She has been w/her commonlaw husband for 6 years & they have two young boys. They have been seperated now for the last 10 mths. While being seperated, she met a new friend. Throughout their friendship, this guy has tried to sway her feelings for him & wants to have a serious relationship. She likes him but she doesn't want another commitment after ending this previous one for 6 years. New Guy does everything that Kids's Dad hasn't done for their family in a very long time. She knows her kids really like this guy & enjoy his company. It really makes her sad that Kids' Dad doesn't/can't go out of his way like New Guy does so she has put an end to that because she's the provider of everything for her & her boys. Her family is not very happy w/her decision & are boycotting her relationship w/New Guy. They think she needs to stick w/Kids' Dad. Recently, New Guy has been getting frustrated & has disrespected her.

2007-01-29 08:57:24 · 27 answers · asked by Ashley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

a woman is goin through so hard tymes with her spouse n she needs tyme off

2007-01-29 08:57:15 · 12 answers · asked by el shark 1 in Singles & Dating

he pushed me during lunch and smile at me and he always looks at me and trys to sit with me to poke my tummy then calls me a loser then looked at me and walked away

2007-01-29 08:56:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this new kid in my class, and I never though he was so fine! All these girls like him and I think he doesn't like it. He hangs out with me the most, and when I got a detention he voleentered to sit with me at detention. I don't want to come on too strong. He looks at me like he likes me sometimes, you know that sexy stare. He has even walked me to the bus. Does he like me? Does he want me just as a friend?

2007-01-29 08:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by Hunnie 2 in Singles & Dating

is it by offering more jobs ?
or by learning our kids more and more about love !!
or by letting others be others !!! instead of forcing them to be what we want them to be ????
or ??

2007-01-29 08:56:40 · 5 answers · asked by horras 5 in Friends

I just want to make some friends who live in my local area. Someone who I have things in common with. Someone who I can maybe go clubbing with.

2007-01-29 08:56:36 · 2 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Singles & Dating

but you don't have sex because of a medical prob that has not been fixed yet. i keep asking for something to get resolveld. this has been the case since we started dating. we talked to doctors but nothing has changed. i dont know what to do, i cant take it anymore. this has been going on for 3 years. i know it hurts her during sex and it makes me not enjoy it any more. what can i do. i have told her i wanted a divorce. what would you do?

2007-01-29 08:56:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i need to know wat to do i dont want him to think im a jealous gf but i dont want no other women always on him thats my job

2007-01-29 08:56:14 · 6 answers · asked by taylor a 1 in Singles & Dating

a snapping punani or no gag reflex in a gf, what you'd like best.

2007-01-29 08:56:13 · 2 answers · asked by i say what i feel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:56:07 · 1 answers · asked by Julia 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:56:05 · 9 answers · asked by James C 1 in Marriage & Divorce

pretty self explanatory but i don't know hw so i just wanted to know if any body else could explain please????

2007-01-29 08:54:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dwayne and I have been friends since he moved here in 2002. We went out every year since he been here. 5th grade, 6th grade, 7th grade, 8th grade, but not 9th grade. He moved here because his mother is a teacher. He moved here from Hambrug which is 30 mins from where I live in Hipton. He stilled lived in Hambrug he just went to school in Hipton. He moved back to Hambrug this year which is our 10th grade year. Everytime we went out it only lasted about a week. We also never kissed. We never really had a seriously relationship. We always became friends after we broke up. That just how we were. We were friends.


Now here is my problem. We started going 3 weeks ago. We talk on the phone every night. We just saw each other this past weekend. We hung out and we finally had our first kissed together. Which was the best! Tonight he lefted me a voice mail saying I love you. I told him I didnt want to tell him I love him until I meant it. Which he understands, but I want to tell him really bad! How do I know I really love him though? For some reason I think I do, but I’m not sure. So how do I know?

2007-01-29 08:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Singles & Dating

i asked how to find someones social earlier and someone reported me well i have you to know i was only trying to find my ex husbands wifes info because she is around my kids and she lost seven of her kids and i want to know why

2007-01-29 08:54:29 · 3 answers · asked by jessica b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband works out of town ...around chrismas i found condums when washing his stuff..he only comes home one night a week and all we do is fight, would getting a divorce be the best thing or sticking it out , becouse he is gone all week and the bills are getting paid...

2007-01-29 08:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by dtdbeasley 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 08:53:37 · 13 answers · asked by joanna m 1 in Singles & Dating

i was going out with this guy adn out of no where he dumped me. i thought we were gettin on great and we were happy but then he dumped me. the sad thing i can't seem to get over him and i think about him everyday and it hurts i think i still cry about him at least once a week which i no is pathetic but i can help it :( i lyked this guy so much i cant put it into words

2007-01-29 08:53:24 · 9 answers · asked by jackie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not talking financial regrets, but I'm curious to know if anyone just "knew" and wasn't too terribly upset w/ the decision to get divorced? Do you think you can just get to the point of being numb, so to speak, and just have the ability to walk away??

2007-01-29 08:52:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

whenever im at he gym these guys will stare and stare and when u catch them the look away or smile but they wont say nothing and it annoys the hell out of me im 16 maybe they know im 16 and the yjust not trying to get in any trouble i dont know what yall think

2007-01-29 08:52:24 · 4 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

what's the difference between love and lust?

2007-01-29 08:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by Brian F 1 in Singles & Dating

Since my wedding is really close to Christmas (Dec 22/2007) and it might be a hard-to-attend-date for many people, I would like to get an approximation of the number of people that would be attending. I'll be sending out Save the Date cards very soon and I'll be sinding invitatons later...so my question is....should I ask people to do like a tentative RSVP on the save the date cards just to have a ballpark figure of how many guests will be attending? Is this usually done? Or should I just go ahead and wait for them to RSVP when I send out the real invitations?

2007-01-29 08:51:40 · 15 answers · asked by bbchichita 3 in Weddings

I recently started chatting with, and now talking over the phone with a gentleman that I've met on the internet. All of our conversations have been great. The best thing is that he is a listener, and a great person overall. We have alot in common about our upbringing and personal values. We have talked alot about past relationships, and never have we even talked about the possibility of he and I "hooking up". However he has mentioned the possibility of us meeting, and his excitement for that day, (if I ever become comfortable with the idea). The problem that im now having is that I can feel myself being nterested in him more and more. Is this usual? I'm new to the whole idea of meeting someone in person that I "met" online.

2007-01-29 08:51:24 · 2 answers · asked by 'Chelle 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:50:27 · 48 answers · asked by paul h 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 08:49:38 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:49:31 · 10 answers · asked by hegimony1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 08:48:29 · 28 answers · asked by babyash 2 in Singles & Dating

i am currently 17 years old and i am going out with someone who is in the marines and he is 20 years old. we've been going out for month and he is going to get sent to iraq. i love himbut i don't if to break up with him or keep our relationship. i am scared that something might happen to him.

2007-01-29 08:48:14 · 23 answers · asked by zurita_caligirl_fbi 1 in Singles & Dating

well you know just help me out here thanks

2007-01-29 08:47:30 · 8 answers · asked by JuSt CaLl Me CuRiOsA 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy about a year ago and we really hit it off,problem was,I had a boyfriend and he had a girlfirend. My boyfriend at the time found out we were talking and got really angry.we stopped talking after that(that was in May).In November I called him and he was VERY happy to hear from me, we both just got out of our relationships and started hanging out.Well,it got serious too quickly,we started hanging out everyday, we went away for the weekend together, but I could tell this was scaring him,so I backed off.He pulled me aside one day and told me how much he liked me and he wanted to be with me,but he was scared and I intimidated him. He started acting really weird and blew me off one day so I told him to stop calling me. That was on Friday,Jan 19.He called me on the next Tuesday,I didnt pick up,then he texted me saying "sorry".He called me again on Thursday,I didnt pick up. Then he called me again this last Saturday and i briefly spoke to him.What should i think of this?

2007-01-29 08:46:54 · 10 answers · asked by kimmy_717 1 in Singles & Dating

he spends most of his time going to basketball games....girls b-ball games. he even rides the bus with them. i'm 15 and he's almost 15. his cousin is on the team though. he doesn't think anything's wrong and he just thinks i'm tired. everybody knows about him doing this. how do i show him i'm mad?

2007-01-29 08:46:32 · 14 answers · asked by tadpole 2 in Singles & Dating