Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

I'm getting married by the end of May and one of my friends in July. We will use the same church and the same decorators. Even the people we have invited are largely the same. Receptions will be held at different salons, though. The point is: comparations between the 2 weddings will be inevitable. Since I go first, I think I have the upper hand in some aspects. But I'm still trying to figure out how to make MY wedding memorable. I'm not talking about competition, because I believe every wedding has its own charm. But I do want my wedding to stand out.
Do you guys have any ideas of what can I do to have a very unique wedding? I'm talking about ideas for the ceremony, the reception, even decorations! I've found some neat ideas on the Internet that I'm planning to use, but I could use some more to choose from. Every advice will be greatly appreciated.

2007-01-29 09:35:01 · 18 answers · asked by TammyTammy 1 in Weddings

i am female 63 live in uk and have many interests

2007-01-29 09:34:46 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-29 09:34:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And yet in public she can maintain the normal civil presence that she always has. Why???

2007-01-29 09:34:23 · 17 answers · asked by Brent 6 in Marriage & Divorce

not just a sexual way .....just in general to let himno i love him....i just dont no how to say it

2007-01-29 09:34:11 · 8 answers · asked by olivia n 1 in Singles & Dating

not doing my job riticizes what i do saying that i don't do anything when i do but when someone else does nothing she says nothing and this woman is a nurse . why does she watch me when im doing my job and fusses and not get on to those that truthfully don't do anything. when i leave work she sits out in her vehicle and watching me leave. always critical of me. there is this man who also defends things she does even though it's wrong i don't even understand that and he is a nurse as well. i am the nursing assistant but they don't even work on my hall. am under another nurse so why the concern

2007-01-29 09:34:09 · 2 answers · asked by sills_paula 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What's wrong with just being honest? It's always the best policy.

Why not just say want equality in certain circumstances only?

Why not just say plainly, we want equal or superior treatment in some circumstances (e.g. jobs) but superior treatment in other circumstances?

Why not admit you want men to be treated better than a men - to stand while you sit, open your doors, withstand the cold so you can be warm (wearing his jacket), pay for your dates (at least the first few), and defer to you in many "chivalrous" ways.

The problems arise when (some women) say they want to be treated "equally", but won't admit that they mean equal in some situations and better in others.

There is nothing wrong with wanting it all.

Why not just admit it?

2007-01-29 09:34:09 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and I've met someone else but he lives like a half an hour drive away and he lives with his mum and im living with my bf iv'e been with for a year in a unit and if i move back to my parents it will be a 2 hour drive to see the new guy i like. And i wanna see him everyday, and im not sure whether i should stay with the guy im with or go with the other guy. They both realli nice.

2007-01-29 09:34:01 · 10 answers · asked by invaderzimsbestfriend 1 in Singles & Dating

I received custody of my son in Ms.my ex moved to Ark. when i applied for childsupport all records where transfered to Ark.WHY? I live in Ms shoudnt Ms be responsible for inforcing a support order and if yes how do I request a order be placed in effect in Ms . I think because Im a man im being discriminated against by both states .ive received less than 500 dollars in a year and my ex laughs that she doesnt pay and still has her lisence am I being unjustly treated and what do I do

2007-01-29 09:33:41 · 4 answers · asked by dad 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Divorce papers were filed in December 2006. Does that qualify us as legally seperated or do I have to file for seperation also?

2007-01-29 09:33:33 · 4 answers · asked by styling 2 in Marriage & Divorce

If I have a discharge? He likes it. It is sometimes thick, white and itches then it gets clear and stretchy and turns yellow and green and clumpy like cottage cheese and has a foul odor.

2007-01-29 09:32:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 09:31:48 · 18 answers · asked by karmin 1 in Singles & Dating

Well, Ive been married to an alcoholic & drugs user for a year now. We dated for 6 yrs b4. Its been real bad. He also broke my wrist by pushing me. There is no trust or integrity in our marriage. We have 2 young children together & I have a older child from a previous relationship that sees/hears all the fighting & pain of this. I want a divorce but just can't seem to do it. I keep hoping he'll stop. My church & bible tell me Im not allowed to get a divorce unless he cheats on me(I think thats what thier saying). I feel trapped & scared. Im a stay at home mom & dont really have a career. I feel like I married him for the sake of the kids(I thought it was the right thing to do) & now Im so hating life. I have no family and very few friends(they ALL moved away). The part Im leaving out is, 3 days ago the love of my LIFE asked me to think about "us". We broke up 7 years ago b'cuz he moved to Cali and havent talked since. We were 2gether 4 2 yrs. Ive always loved him. What do I do?

2007-01-29 09:31:36 · 14 answers · asked by fiona 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've tried everything. I iron his y-fronts just like his likes 'em. I put Monster Munch and Um Bongo in his lunchbox every morning. but he keeps going back to HER.

I want respect. i deserve it. But he is breaking my heart.
How can I make him leave his wife?

Dont tell me to forget him , I love him. He drives me Wild in bed. Every night is like an adventure.

2007-01-29 09:30:45 · 26 answers · asked by Chimera's Song 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 09:30:14 · 3 answers · asked by jay jay 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi
this is a first time for me on here. i dont really know where to start because this has basically just happened!
i have been with my partner for almost 11 years. we dont yet live together due to kids and elderly parents (his) but we wer building up to being together eventually... or so i thought.
he has just confessed to me that 8 years ago he cheated on me 5 times! oh my god i am in such a mess.
last summer i went through a load of counselling to sort out my jealousy because my ex had cheated on me loads of times, so i was finding hard to trust again. ( i know this is all a bit ironic now!) anyway, i got fixed!
for the 1st time in my life i was allowing myslef to relax, trust him and be happy.
he dropped this on me tonight and says he had been carrying the guilt around all of these years adn wanted to "come clean" so we could build a life!
oh my god, the absolute pig!
thing is, i feel that our relationship is now built on nothing. during the time he was sleeping around, i was in happy land thinking we were ok.
now i fell that it has all been built on lies.
i dont feel that i can ever trust again or allow myslef to.
please, please help me with this.
can i trust him?
should i try again with him?

hope you have some wise words out there
sarah x

2007-01-29 09:30:06 · 19 answers · asked by totally gutted 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Which one would turn your head and make you drool if you saw them walk in together??








Have to pick one!!











yep just one!!





1) 5'5".120lbs. She has long wavy medium brown hair, full lips, straight white teeth, clear olive skin, big blue-green-gray eyes, long dark thick eyelashes that touch her arch shaped eyebrows when she looks up, oval face, perky 34C chest, 25 inch waist, 36 inch hips and a bubble butt. Reminds you of Angelina Jolie face wise, and Jessica Alba's body in her curvier days..







2) 5'4". 128lbs. She is hourglass, has olive skin, full lips, long dark thick eyelashes, 34D breasts, a nice round butt, thin waist, long straight dark hair with blonde highlights around her face,big hazel eyes, she looks like the younger version of Monica Bellucci

2007-01-29 09:29:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

OK i have this boyfriend and i love him a lot and he told me that he wanted to be the boy i lost my v to but the told me he didnt want to rush into it but im ready to do it now but what i would like to no is...how it feels the first time to a girl? does it hurt....wat does it feel like???details people im curious

2007-01-29 09:28:55 · 10 answers · asked by indescribable.random.retro.love 2 in Singles & Dating

Every individual seems to have what he/she is looking for as a sign of genuine affection. This signs depends on personality and it is mostly something that the person cannot really say, it lies in the subconcious. Yet some people meet and both just give the expected signs to each other that it makes the whole idea of love so simple and beautiful while most people live their entire life never getting to feel that immense satisfaction derivred in finding one who will give them the sign they are looking for, and they reciprocate in a way that just makes things perfect... you know, start a beautiful love affair. Some people eventually find the one that gives them the sign they are looking for but they themselves find that they are unable to reciprocate so that the person that they have found does not feel the same. The love felt cannot be reciprocated.
Under this circumstances, what is the probability that the feeling could ever be mutual? Why does everything suddenly become elusive?

2007-01-29 09:26:59 · 4 answers · asked by agboola f 2 in Singles & Dating

ok its a given you would split the household bills..but what seems to have a differering view among my friends is wether you should also pay half the mortgage, even though its not in your name etc. I think yes as wherever you would be, you would at least be paying rent so whats the difference?!
My friend thinks as the mortgage isnt in her name then its not her responsibility and she would only pay her share if there was an agreement that it would be put into joint names after an agreed length of time.

What would others do?

2007-01-29 09:26:53 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been married for almost six months. My husband and I decided to wait until we were married to have sex, and I was looking forward to trying new things and basically getting crazy in the bedroom! My man is a naturally shy and easily embarrassed person, so I have found it difficult to get him to open up. We have only tried 2 different positions and when I joke about jumping his bones, sometimes he tells me to stop! We love each other a lot, and I want this part of our relationship to be good like the rest of it is... it's just not turning out the way I expected...Any ideas?

2007-01-29 09:25:41 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So about 3 months ago my bf broke up w/me. I lied and went on my bros messenger saying all this stuff to try for him to say want to get bake together. Nothing worked so that say he found out I was on my bros acting like my bro and he flipped out I said sorry, he just kept saying shut up ,shut up. I was so upset then the next say I said I wasn’t really showing you me it was what I though u wanted. He said be yourself and then well see but probably not. So I hang out w/his sis all the time 1st time I saw him he just said peace out, then 2nd time a nod, then a bye. What do you think he means? I want to hug him and talk but I am afraid he'll freak out! What should I do?

2007-01-29 09:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my friends r guys (not a guy here!) we have lost of fun but most of em p preverts (bad pervs) im usualy ok with it cause i can crack a joke or two.(im not too perverted) but im gettin a lil scared cause 1 of them likes me and he the worst perv of them all (not good!!!) and i get hit in tha boob alot bi my two best friends (usin diff names) bob and fred and they lately have called my things like s*ut (*=L) and fat les( i got no idea y) i dont act like a s*ut im just comfturble wit who i am (maily cause guys dont talk about if their weight and stuff in a neg way that much like girls do ) their bothe my friends ........best friends but how far is to far ...i dont no wether 2 call this sexual harasment or just go wit it im usto it bi now its just rele painful (4 u guys its like gettin kicked in da balls) and a lil werid im getting tired of it and scared 2 c wut my friend that likes me is gonna do i dont want to get them in trouble i dont no wut 2 do.

2007-01-29 09:25:32 · 6 answers · asked by blue_eyed_blue_jeans 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 09:25:23 · 13 answers · asked by fusillicandace 2 in Weddings

I'm curvy but it seems like guys only like super skinny supermodel type girls. So which do they like more?

2007-01-29 09:25:23 · 14 answers · asked by sugar & spice 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 09:25:11 · 23 answers · asked by muppet 4 in Singles & Dating

Everone Has Some Wish So What Ur Wish............? Expect Killing Me ;) ..................

2007-01-29 09:25:10 · 11 answers · asked by blueblood 3 in Singles & Dating

I live in London.

2007-01-29 09:24:59 · 10 answers · asked by Lavenderrose 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend told me that sometimes she wants to "be" with me and ither times she doesn't....she says she doesn't know what is going on...we have recently been having problems..such as argueing and things...but, i don't understand...i love her...what do i do?

2007-01-29 09:24:55 · 2 answers · asked by Jesse W 1 in Singles & Dating

also she already has a boyfriend but we ae sort of friends at a level that we talk in class. You can also email

2007-01-29 09:24:54 · 5 answers · asked by victorpacero 1 in Friends