Gone too far?

Question

All my friends r guys (not a guy here!) we have lost of fun but most of em p preverts (bad pervs) im usualy ok with it cause i can crack a joke or two.(im not too perverted) but im gettin a lil scared cause 1 of them likes me and he the worst perv of them all (not good!!!) and i get hit in tha boob alot bi my two best friends (usin diff names) bob and fred and they lately have called my things like s*ut (*=L) and fat les( i got no idea y) i dont act like a s*ut im just comfturble wit who i am (maily cause guys dont talk about if their weight and stuff in a neg way that much like girls do ) their bothe my friends ........best friends but how far is to far ...i dont no wether 2 call this sexual harasment or just go wit it im usto it bi now its just rele painful (4 u guys its like gettin kicked in da balls) and a lil werid im getting tired of it and scared 2 c wut my friend that likes me is gonna do i dont want to get them in trouble i dont no wut 2 do.

i dont no if i stated that but their my best friends their tha only ppl that can make me lafgh and ive known then too long to get them in trouble plus i can whoop and guys *** thats trys me its a benifit 2 haiv guy friends

ok i have 2 add more in my scholl im a social outcast basicaly no girl wout ever hang out with me and ive allready told the guy that likes me that i dont like him and it probly wont change

ALL THE GUYS I NO R PERVERTS

Answer 1

First of all, you're their friend, right? And friends can say anything right? Well, tell them that when they hit you in the breast, it hurts. Ask them to kick them in the nuts to see how it feels like. Ask them to stop doing it because it hurts. As for the name calling, straight up tell them to stop. Say it in a firm voice, but don't yell. The message will definitely get through to them.
Stand your ground and don't give up until you know for sure they understand.
It appears they treat you as a boy/man.
Sure, you can turn it in as sexual harassment, but I don't know how far it will get.
If they are your friends, they should stop by your request. If they don't, then they aren't worth your friendship.

Answer 2

Do not accept that treatment. Pull the two that are harassing you to the side (maybe seperately) and let them know how their rude comments are affecting you. If they continue to do it, tell your parents, or better yet, tell thier parents! And if you're scared honey, then you should probably stay away from hangin with those guys while you're alone. A bunch of boys can over power just one girl pretty easily ... be careful!!! And take care! Good Luck!

Answer 3

Obviously there are other guys out there that are not pervs , if you feel more comfortable with having guy friends, you can always find others.

If not, then you must look at the picture here, If you know they are perv s , and yet you STILL like being around them, then you , wether you admit it or not, enjoy it.

Answer 4

Did you speak with them? If you talk to them and it stays the same or gets worse, you'll have to report them to the authorities and cut them out completely. And as for the one that says he likes you, let him down gently. If he still doesn't get it, invest in a microphone. That qualifies as sexual harrassment.

Answer 5

you definately don't want to be treated like this.
in a way it is sexual harassment. i'd tell them to stop, and if the boy really likes you, he'll stop when you ask him too

Answer 6

i would not be there friends you never know if they'll ever rape you or something try getting girl friends(friends that are girls) these guys, you don't need to be there Friends, especially if they are perverts.