Family & Relationships - 29 January 2007

My friend sammi showed me an email that said some really mean things about me. How do I tell her that i know what she said without letting her know my friend showedme. My friend was just being a good friend!!! I am glad that she showed me.

2007-01-29 10:01:49 · 5 answers · asked by . 3 in Friends

We hardly ever go out. We've been "talking" for about a month, and have only been out on 2 dates. He is the sweetest, most caring guy i've ever met, but i'm really about to say F it cuz i'm just tired of always waiting for him to suggest we do something. I really wanna know just what his freakin deal is. This is so frustrating. He tells me everyday how much he likes me and i'm girlfriend material and all this crap, but he never wants to spend any quality time with me. I can't take this, i'm really losing my patience. I just need some suggestions on what to do...

2007-01-29 10:00:49 · 18 answers · asked by Ms. Tesi 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 10:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by ardenrocks9 1 in Friends

Me and my wife are going through this family matter from last 10 yrs (over my parents siste etc..). On my wife's family side thee are no issu es and it never makes a big deal. Recently my wife's mom visited us and we had a fight over same issue and her mom started to take her side and I outbursted. My wife hadn't been behaving normaly with me since that day on ever after my apologies. Everytime we tried to make-up on this, it ended up in fiest fights as usual. She thinks that she has given up a lot for me and I think and I can't leave my family more than I already did. She also thinks that I talk to my family memebers about her and I can sware on anyone that I don't. She has left me alone and gone to her parents with my littleones.I think that atleast my littleones are not suffering as my in laws takes good care of my wife and my kids. My wife has been asking foir divorce and she always blames me for everything. I don't know what to do How to accept the things that I dont do. any help?

2007-01-29 10:00:02 · 15 answers · asked by pranavmony 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 09:59:33 · 38 answers · asked by blockbusterpugblue 1 in Singles & Dating

Ive suddenly lost some interest in playing it

2007-01-29 09:59:25 · 8 answers · asked by Casey 5 in Singles & Dating

I live in Houston Texas and hate it here. The only option I have is to give my kids to their father who cannot support them. I have the opportunity for marriage and moving to Africa where my boyfriend's company has sent him. His response is that he will put them on Medicaid and everyother state assistance program, even though I have provided him with years of education to make something out of himself. He works at Home Depot as a stock boy at night and he is 50 years old. I feel trapped between staying back with the kids and then taking myself where my heart wants to go. My boyfriend has offered to pay my ex "child support". If I can work in another country I too will contribute.

2007-01-29 09:59:23 · 17 answers · asked by Deborah S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

lots of ppl call me that... n my best friend told me i was depending on what mood im in...i dont wanna ask ne1 what it means cuz they willl call me stupid...so what exactly is a stuck up??

2007-01-29 09:58:03 · 20 answers · asked by cool chic 2no 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 09:57:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

like big party nights out where we can all meet up and say hi...dont you think it would be a good idea???.....

2007-01-29 09:57:25 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there is so much going on in my life and im just going crazy. I smoke and it really don't work so,HELP!

2007-01-29 09:57:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need something to do with my time. Any suggestions on hobbies or anything else that may be useful. I need something to make the time go by faster until my husband gets home from Iraq. I worry about him too much and i need something to get my mind off of him. My daughter is a year old and ive never had a job or been away from her for more than a night. Im just so stressed out and bored, i will go crazy without something to do!!! HELP!

2007-01-29 09:55:41 · 11 answers · asked by kimmie214 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 09:53:25 · 26 answers · asked by ~~~lonelygurl~~~ 1 in Friends

how can u tell dat u'r best friend,who happens to b a boy has a crush on u????help!!!!???

2007-01-29 09:52:52 · 6 answers · asked by samy 1 in Singles & Dating

but how do spell it?
it's Caitlin, Kaitlin, Katelin, Kateline.....anyways it is the same name that sounds the same as the chick from the O.C. Does anyone know?

2007-01-29 09:51:57 · 7 answers · asked by beachgirl90 7 in Family

2007-01-29 09:51:10 · 14 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay I have a friend who has been acting really weird latly. She knows I like this guy and she wrote a love note to him and sighned my name to it. Actually she been doing that with every note she writes. She has been haging out with a really mean girl Danica Wilcox. And every time Gabby is around her she acts like a spoiled llittle brat. Every time I try to stop being friends with her she does something to make me friends with her again. And this is the best part she is spreading rumors about me. So does any one know what I should do?

2007-01-29 09:51:06 · 43 answers · asked by Em 3 in Friends

he can go for weeks and months with no sex and hardly initiates. if i complain he does effort but that is it. i feel i am less and less attracted to him. i am very sexual person and fatasize about a man who can't get enough of me. I have discussed this him and he we have sex each time I talk to him about this. I feel like going out of my marriage and live a normal sex life atleast for sometimes. My husband is very affectionate in all other ways. i don;t knwo what to do.

2007-01-29 09:50:49 · 23 answers · asked by wonder 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im having trouble finding any girls to talk to me and i just want to talk about stuff concerning me and my life will anyone talk to me

2007-01-29 09:50:49 · 4 answers · asked by michael t 1 in Singles & Dating

is it ok to have the wedding, say in December, and the wedding reception (banquet) in April?? This is mostly due to airfare restrictions and peak/off-peak season. The wedding and reception will be in different countries.

2007-01-29 09:50:12 · 13 answers · asked by pshao01 1 in Weddings

Iam 24 years old and been on and off prosac and seroxat since i was 17 years old. Iam now not taking any tablets and trying to help myself and iam happy for it but.. As i was little my dad left me when i was two, don't remember him but my mum has told me the bad things he use to do to me and her. I dont want to meet him but i would like him to answer just some of my questions. My mum was only 19 when she had me and there where hard times and my nan + grandad use to take me on holiday and i stayed there at weekends. My mum use to hit me and be really nasty to me if i did things. She then met this man who liked his ale and they had the most horrible fights and i use to be in the middle if i said anything wrong my mum would turn on me and i got a beaten. When my little sis came along she too got the beatens she had a broken leg and she was only 1 years old. Theres things i would want to forget and i cant. Ive asked for councelling but how will i feel towards my mum as i do blame her?

2007-01-29 09:50:04 · 9 answers · asked by janine e 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my boyfriend so much. He is the sweetest person ever and my mom doesnt like him because he is 20. I am 16 and it is legal in south carolina. My mom told him its ok to see my at church but I can go anywhere else with him. i love him so so so much, we even have eachothers name tattooed on oursleves. He said he couldnt take losing me and I know I couldnt take losing him. My mama tries to break us up by always telling me she see's him with anotha gurl all the time but I knos she is lying because the lady she is talking about is married with two kids and goes to my church and when she says he is with her little does she know i am with him. I love him but how can i let her know that? and i have a clear bookbag with his npic in it and she told me to take it out before she throws it in the trash.

2007-01-29 09:49:59 · 2 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend for over 5 years recently has been givin me the vibe that she is jelous of me or something. my best friend lets call her Anna, has always wanted to be skinny. Myself i have always been average. This past year i lost over 12 lbs and now im skinny. She is always bribing me with food and trying to make me fat. She brings me food all the time telling me i should eat when im not hungry. Anyway i got a job a couple days ago and now all she talks about is how much hw we have and how she is not gonna have time to do it. Basically saying but in other words, how are you gonna work and keep up your grades.. i dont know what to do... any sugg? or am i just the retard?

2007-01-29 09:49:43 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay so I have a boyfriend named Chris. And I really really really really like him...so much and I never ever wanna lose him....you see what I'm trying to say right? Well, anyway, I think I'm giving him too much attention. He's the most popular guy in the whole grade, which it isn't everything everyone thinks it is to go out with a popular kid.. Any way, I've just been hanging out with him for a while in the morning before class starts, then we hug goodbye, and I sometimes wave at him in the hallways, and sometimes I write him notes, and we see eachother at the skating rink. And bairly ever after school is over. But I think he might need some space, but if I give him too much space then he might think I don't like him any more and that I'm just ignoring him. I really don't wanna lose him. We've only been going out for about two weeks, so maybe I'm expecting too much attention. But I still don't know. Today we bairly talked and I didnt even get one hug from him. Please help!!!

2007-01-29 09:49:31 · 13 answers · asked by Melody C 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend so much. He is the sweetest person ever and my mom doesnt like him because he is 20. I am 16 and it is legal in south carolina. My mom told him its ok to see my at church but I can go anywhere else with him. i love him so so so much, we even have eachothers name tattooed on oursleves. He said he couldnt take losing me and I know I couldnt take losing him. My mama tries to break us up by always telling me she see's him with anotha gurl all the time but I knos she is lying because the lady she is talking about is married with two kids and goes to my church and when she says he is with her little does she know i am with him. I love him but how can i let her know that? and i have a clear bookbag with his npic in it and she told me to take it out before she throws it in the trash.

2007-01-29 09:49:30 · 15 answers · asked by Hello!!!! 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-29 09:49:02 · 8 answers · asked by Curious 1 in Singles & Dating

Lost a bet now I going to be forced to dress as a woman. Tell me what color panties bra ect i must wear. and what i need to tell the salewoman when iam buying evertthing. tell size style color

2007-01-29 09:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-29 09:48:16 · 45 answers · asked by sundae icecream 1 in Singles & Dating

My mothers step-daughter is 14 years old and is constantly breaking any and all rules that are established...There have been rules such as taking off her door and taking away "some" technology...the kid has done everything from tried to kill my mother by being consistantly stupid such as putting a plastic container on a lit stove top! It needs to be stopped and now the girl has gone to far...now she is trying to break my mother and her new husband up who have been together for more than 5 years so please help by giving me some very good and harsh punishments that will really get to her head and make her believe that they arent messing around anymore!!!!!!!

2007-01-29 09:48:01 · 13 answers · asked by Sarah 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a very out spoken person when it comes to my opion. I say what's on my mind reguardless if it's nice or not. My husban sees this as a problem because I am not the kind of women that is controled. If he tries to tell me to do some thing I just laugh at him. He is embarrassed cause some of his other married friends tell there wives what to do and they lisen and to my husand's friends I am out of control because I don't take orders. To my husand this makes him feel less of a man infront of his friends. Should I let my husband be "the man" in our relationship or should I continue to "wear the pants" in our marrage???

2007-01-29 09:47:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce