Okay so I have a boyfriend named Chris. And I really really really really like him...so much and I never ever wanna lose him....you see what I'm trying to say right? Well, anyway, I think I'm giving him too much attention. He's the most popular guy in the whole grade, which it isn't everything everyone thinks it is to go out with a popular kid.. Any way, I've just been hanging out with him for a while in the morning before class starts, then we hug goodbye, and I sometimes wave at him in the hallways, and sometimes I write him notes, and we see eachother at the skating rink. And bairly ever after school is over. But I think he might need some space, but if I give him too much space then he might think I don't like him any more and that I'm just ignoring him. I really don't wanna lose him. We've only been going out for about two weeks, so maybe I'm expecting too much attention. But I still don't know. Today we bairly talked and I didnt even get one hug from him. Please help!!!
2007-01-29 09:49:31 · 13 answers · asked by Melody C 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be straight up with him and say you really like hanging out with him but you know that everyone needs to have some space. Tell him your going to try and find the balance between giving him some space and hanging out with him as much as you can. So assure him that your not going cold on him. Then ask him what he feels comfortable with.
Make sure you have other pass times/hobbies that are not Chris!
:)
2007-01-29 09:58:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how about instead of worrying about a guy who will probable mean nothing to you by the time summer starts worry about school, grades and things like that. because i am telling you honey what you have right now is not love it is infatuation. You need to worry about school which will affect your future he will not. Trust me i thought when i was in school all that matters in being popular and all that jazz but after high school was over i never saw half those people again. it doesn't matter once it is over no one will remember that you had the popular boy but when they see you working at McDonald's because you didn't get the grades they will remember you! Trust me! Just let the relationship form naturally don't stress over it. if you stress then you make things worst.
2007-01-29 18:00:24 · answer #2 · answered by pmktabbycat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok obviously you guys are still in middle school. What you should do is wait until high school before you start dating someone, because doing this now you guys are too young to know what to do or how to react to one another, you guys are still young.
BD
2007-01-29 17:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Black Dragon 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to much attention is bad,spend about 1 day a week together after school, he has friends to...so do u. Plan dates etc to make it more interesting.
2007-01-29 17:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O my well Chris seems nice so just show you raffection to him GIveHIM hugs during school if you see him!
2007-01-29 17:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Victoria Isabella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just wait it out, if things dont change and its the 1 1/2 month, talk to him about it
2007-01-29 18:03:48 · answer #6 · answered by Mr_wall2005 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its early days yet, give it a bit more time, dnt bak off, carry on doing what u were doing, there is a danger of him assuming you aint interested, just see how it goes, and spend sum time together, grab a bite to eat or somthing, go on a date!
2007-01-29 17:53:53 · answer #7 · answered by *â??*à Æ?Æ?Ÿ*â??* 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Be honest about how you feel to him---don't play games with each other. Make sure he does his part to have time with you and care about you. If he doesnt let him go.
2007-01-29 17:56:17 · answer #8 · answered by OneWhoRuns 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well here in brasil we have a saying that goes like this: If you care about someone they will step on and ignore you, if you ignore someone they will care for you. but its up to you to deside what to do, we are just somepeople with nothing to do .
2007-01-29 17:55:15 · answer #9 · answered by Mr.X 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop thinking and focus on studies.
wait and watch is the best Method to follow.
2007-01-29 17:54:16 · answer #10 · answered by Naren 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋