2007-01-29 09:48:16 · 45 answers · asked by sundae icecream 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You should refrain until you are old enough to get married, but it is your choice if you want to be used or not...
2007-01-29 09:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
OK, listen, First of all how old are you? Sex is a great thing and it is definitely "in" these days. It is every where to include television. Bottom line is sex sells and more and more younger people r getting introduced to it. I am not your father but I will say this. In life we make decisions and there are consequences for our actions. In your case you have to decide whether or not you trust this person enough to give him your body.Also there are many ST D's out there. Know your partners sex history. Trust plays a major role in this.
2007-01-29 10:15:41 · answer #2 · answered by dogcomeup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you are in love. Having sex just because you are curious will make it not worth it! You want someone when it is your first time to love you and be caring enough to think about your feelings!! It's a big step in life and if it doesn't involve love, it won't be worth it and you will regret it in the long run. And it can also be dangerous, there are too many diseases you can get and the risk of pregnancy is always there!!
My advice is wait!!!
2007-01-29 09:51:53 · answer #3 · answered by Sandy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming you are under age. If you are, I'm sure your not looking for an older persons view. BUT take it from me, been around the block a few times. One of a few things that I regret is giving myself to a boy just because it was the thing to do at the time, looking for approval, curious.....you get the picture.
I advise you just this.......stop and think about it before you do it. Give yourself some time. If this boy is special, he will still be there. and if he isn't, you'll be glad you waited.
And PROTECT yourself...because no one else is going to!
Be smart.....be respectful to yourself...that will be your deciding factor.
Good luck.
2007-01-29 10:00:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so first, the question is does that guy want to do it with you??? and the second ? is if the boy likes you too, is your relationship up to that level yet? 3rd is are you old enough. i mean you can't really do it if you're only like 12. the major biggie here is protection. i'm guessing you don't really want a baby. and i hope you know that condoms are only 85% effective. make sure to consider all this info and make a safe decision-oh and talk it out with ur loverboy. if u still want to do it, go to victoria's secret and spend spend spend!
2007-01-29 09:55:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen up, okay how old are you because there is no need to rush these things, it should only be done in the moment when you and him feel it is the right time, not like oh i am ready lets do it, it aint like that, and if ever in doubt and your not sure and you ask other people about it your not ready, never do anything your not sure about okay, and hope that things work out the way they are suppose to for you.
2007-01-29 09:52:51 · answer #6 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well...let's see...would he make a good father...would he be willing to support you if you got pregnant...would he stick around...would you make a good mother...which one of you would be willing to stay up allllllllll night with the crying baby even though you feel so tired it is making you sick...and then again the next night...and then the next...If you don't have the answer to just these few questions (and there are many more!)...then you need to put sex on the back burner.
2007-01-29 09:54:34 · answer #7 · answered by ticklemeblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. if your still in middle school or your begining years of highschool, you should wait. you should probably wait utnil your in college really. does this guy like you back? are you sure that he really wants to do this with you or does he just want to use you so that he can go around and gloat to his friends that he screwed you like there was no tomorrow? you need to be sure about this cuz your virginity is something that you can never get back. make the right choice. if you have any other questions, you can e-mail me.
2007-01-29 09:55:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
According to the bible, sex is what binds a couple in marriage, so unless you want to be eternally binded to this dude, dont do it until you are married. If you are horny, use some other methods of releasing your hormones if you know what I mean.
2007-01-29 09:53:34 · answer #9 · answered by steven c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know everyone is going to tell weight until you get married.Well if you are curious about sex ask your parents about some question in your mind.If you can try and weight until your old enough so you wont get in trouble.
2007-01-29 09:52:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay curious and do nothing, if you're not ready yet. I made the mistake of pushing myself with a girl that I liked and felt miserable afterwards.
2007-01-29 09:52:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋