Okay I have a friend who has been acting really weird latly. She knows I like this guy and she wrote a love note to him and sighned my name to it. Actually she been doing that with every note she writes. She has been haging out with a really mean girl Danica Wilcox. And every time Gabby is around her she acts like a spoiled llittle brat. Every time I try to stop being friends with her she does something to make me friends with her again. And this is the best part she is spreading rumors about me. So does any one know what I should do?
2007-01-29 09:51:06 · 43 answers · asked by Em 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
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2007-01-29 09:52:19 · update #1
and she is my best friend forever
2007-01-29 09:56:40 · update #2
I do.
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2007-01-29 09:53:35 · answer #1 · answered by USMCstingray 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Dump this girl as your friend, no real friend would ever treat you this way, Shw is clearly trying to impress the cool crowd by doing thses things. You don't need people like this around you, your better than that an above them. I hope you find a real friend soon that treats you better. I have been there myself an yes it hurts but youneed to move on an ignore everything they do they will soon get bored. Anf you no what if they don't stand up for yourself an tell then that they are idiots an making fools of themselves an the person who is doing the laughing here is you and it's at them!!!
Take care good luck sweetie
2007-01-29 09:58:45 · answer #2 · answered by hotbritgirl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should altogether stop being her friend she doesn't deserve you as a friend especially if she is acting like a spoiled brat towards other people...this new friend has changed her and if you don't like it you don't have to deal with it so don't...
I have had a lot of backstabbing friends especially on sports teams they tell you stuff to "make you better" when really it makes you worse and all they want to do is have more playing time than you and also other friends that I have had...
I used to be really popular in school but then i just decided to stop being popular because it was making people hate me more than they liked me just because of the people i was hanging around with because they all talk about you behind your back and they say crap about you just so you have a bad reputation its crap and backstabbers suck and they just do it to be more popular or to be better liked by someone else and they don't see that they are hurting you
2007-01-29 09:58:23 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha.. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay well sounds like your friend has gotten a big head hangin with other people and she is having fun at yuor expence, you need to talk wiht her and tell her what she is doing is not on and she wants to keep doing that she will have to find another friend there is no good having a friend like her because she will use your most weakest moments against you, you are better off without her, she may not even listen to you but after that just ignore her do not take her back on because it seems like you have given her more than 1 chance to stop, find someone else to hang around and ignore her, may piss her off too if you do that...
2007-01-29 10:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by innocentkitty2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just say to her "we are done. I am so tired of this, and it isnt fair."
And then just walk away and no matter what she does just say no, and the say to your self "remember what she put me through?" and then go find new friends. If she is spreading rumors about you and acting different around you when she is with other people, she can't possibly be a true friend!!! And my friend is saying mean stuff about my other friend (hanna) and she was crying, so dont let it get to you, k well Hope it works out!! Good luck.
2007-01-29 09:58:13 · answer #5 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kick her butt! There were these bunch of girls in high school that started a really nasty rumor about me saying that I was telling everyone that my best friend (at that time) was gay. Of course, these girls had nothing better to do than talk crap and it ultimately cost me and best friend our friendship. I would get the crank calls at home and the glares at school so one day, I was just so fed up with them and their attitudes, I took on 4 of them during lunch recess. We all got suspended for 3 days but on the weekend, I caught them outside of school and now that I look back on it, the fight was pretty nasty but when it was all over with, I made them say infront of our classmates that the rumor wasn't true and they made it up...the whole school was talking about it when we returned but it still didn't fix the hurt between me and my friend.
2007-01-29 10:02:33 · answer #6 · answered by mauinei34 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anyone who has a heart hates back stabbers! Well if she signed your name to the note, and you like the guy, then she really didn't stab you in the back, she was just letting it be known that you like him. To of back stabbed you she would of went after the guy herself, saying she likes him, not you. Personality conflicts among friends is a hard subject, what are you willing to put up with? That's what it all comes down too.
2007-01-29 10:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by K_Seeks4Answers 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All you fellows who have someone and you really care, yeah, yeah
Then it's all of you fellows who better beware, yeah yeah
Somebody's out to get your lady
A few of your buddies they sure look shady
Blades are long, clenched tight in their fist
Aimin' straight at your back
And I don't think they'll miss
I keep gettin' all these visits from my friends, yeah,
They come to my house again and again and again and again, yeah
So are they there to see my woman
I don't even be home but they just keep on comin'
What can I do to get on the right track
I wish they'd take some of these knives off my back
They smile in your face
All the time they want to take your place
2007-01-29 09:58:00 · answer #8 · answered by sivracious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think all of us have been guilty of backstabbing at least one time in our lives... the best thing to do about it is to behave in a way that will make you feel good about who you are and the decisions you make.. we don't have control over the way other people behave.. the only control we have is over the way we behave... and I know for sure that in life.. what we choose to do will come back to us... I know that how they are treating you does hurt you.. take a lesson from Martin Luther King, Jr... treat your enemies with love... eventually they will stop
2007-01-29 10:01:00 · answer #9 · answered by trehugr4life 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand them. The worst part about them is they try to win your trust and once you are vulnerable, they hurt you. Have an honest talk with your friend if possible and challenge her character/integrity. If that doesn't work, stay FAR AWAY.
2007-01-29 09:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by Oh Suhnny Day 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ugh i know how you feel gurl.....i've been through that...know what i did? i just keept on ignoring her...soon she'll come around
but i have a question.... have you been hanging with her ALL the time?
once i did that and my friend got bored of me..she started making rumors but then she'll act all nice to me....ugh i just ignored her and now i realized that she's not a good friend after all...
2007-01-29 09:57:26 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋