Dwayne and I have been friends since he moved here in 2002. We went out every year since he been here. 5th grade, 6th grade, 7th grade, 8th grade, but not 9th grade. He moved here because his mother is a teacher. He moved here from Hambrug which is 30 mins from where I live in Hipton. He stilled lived in Hambrug he just went to school in Hipton. He moved back to Hambrug this year which is our 10th grade year. Everytime we went out it only lasted about a week. We also never kissed. We never really had a seriously relationship. We always became friends after we broke up. That just how we were. We were friends.
Now here is my problem. We started going 3 weeks ago. We talk on the phone every night. We just saw each other this past weekend. We hung out and we finally had our first kissed together. Which was the best! Tonight he lefted me a voice mail saying I love you. I told him I didnt want to tell him I love him until I meant it. Which he understands, but I want to tell him really bad! How do I know I really love him though? For some reason I think I do, but I’m not sure. So how do I know?
2007-01-29 08:54:37 · 11 answers · asked by Mel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your not in love. You'll know when you are. It comes once in a lifetime. So when you do fall in love treat it like a billion dollar diamond!
2007-01-29 09:00:19 · answer #1 · answered by Hunnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
GIRL I THINK THAT U ARE IN LOVE BC NOBOBY WOULD DO THAT FOR ME. ANYWAYS LOOK U LOVE HIM SO JUST LET IT FLEW LET IT GO AND TELL THIS BOY THAT U LOVE HIM. U KNOW THAT HE IS GOIN TO LOVE U BACK BC IF A BOY IS THIS CAZY ABOUT U YALL R IN LOVE. SO JUST TELL HOW U FEEL AND HE'LL UNSTAND ALL BOYZ DO. AND DONT FORGET TO LISTEN TO UR HEART TOO. NOT JUST THIS ANSWERS AND UR MIND. BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY UR HEART. BC U DONT WANT TO MAKE A MISTAKE THAT U WILL REGRAET FOR THE REST OF YOUR LIFE
2007-01-29 17:07:19 · answer #2 · answered by LilTee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is a very overused word these days. And there are many types of love. I mean you could very well love him, but theres really no way of knowing when your "in love" with him.
Good luck and all the best.
2007-01-29 16:59:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is not a thought its a feeling, so if you feel like everything about him is right then it could be love. its a feeling like your willing to give up everything for him and do anything for that person. love is the best felling in the world. love is what everyone wants right before they die and its what a baby wants when its being born. love is love
2007-01-29 17:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Marianita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is the Longest answer i have ever ever ever given :
How to Know If You Are In Love
What, then, is this elusive thing called love that everyone so desperately needs? Sometimes, we sort of like this girl because she is beautiful ? Or the girl likes him because he is handsome? But this kind of "Cinderella Syndrome" when the girl is waiting on her Prince Charming, is not real love. It is better known as "infatuation", and there is a vast difference between it and real love. Here, we help you to differentiate and find out if you are really in love and not just infatuation.
Infatuation
Infatuation is a feeling; real love involves a commitment also. Infatuation is just love of emotion. Real love, though, is love of devotion. Only the emotions are affected in infatuation, but in real love both the emotions and the will are involved. Next, a person "fall into" infatuation, but "grows into" real love. Guys, have you ever seen a girl who was so beautiful that you thought you'd faint? This is infatuation! It is based totally on physical attraction; often you don't know much in-depth about the person you so-called love. Thus, infatuation is mostly biological. Also remember, never tell a girl you love her, unless you are willing to marry her.
Then, infatuation is basically selfish where real love is basically selfless . Infatuation is more interested in satisfying yourself and the "feeling" than it is in the other person. Real love is primarily interested in the other person. It seeks to give instead of get.. Love unselfishly seeks the highest good for the other person. Lastly, infatuation is weakened by time and separation where real love is strengthened by time and separation. This does not mean that there will be no pain in separation. On the contrary, there is great pain in separation if you are truly in love.
Love
Now you know what is infatuation, we will go on to discuss about the details of a true love.
Love is patient. The word translated "patient" means to wait patiently for the fulfillment of expectations. When you have diffculty dating this girl and she does not want to come out, if you truly love her, you will not complain and blame her, you must look at the situation from her point of view - maybe she is having some problems which prevented her from coming out. You must react to it with patience and understanding. Next, have you ever met someone you liked so much that you wanted to push the relationship and make it progress faster? Sure you have! Love, however, is willing to give a relationship time to grow at a natural pace. It does not push but is willing to wait for the relationship to grow at a rate that is satisfactory to both parties. Love is Kind. Love seeks to encourage and build up others. It respects the feelings and emotions of others.. It finds its greatest satisfaction in making others happy.
You can do the following:
Give one another things such as gifts and encouragment cards.
Compliment one another. Magnify the other party's strength.
Listen to one another. Pay close attention to what each of you has to say and make each other feel that what each says is important.
Treat one another special in public. Compliment and encourage one another sincerely in the presence of others.
Love is Not Jealous
Jealousy usually indicates an insecure and immature heart. Love wants the best for others, but jealousy is possessive. Jealous is reflected in the childish statement, "If he is going to talk to her, then he can just forget about me!" Often, one person wants to totally possess the other and to restrict her relationships with others.
Love is Not Brag
Love is not a windbag and is not anxious to impress. Often a guy will brag to a girl, trying to impress her so that she will like him. A truly great person, however, does not need to exalt himself! Others will exalt him.
Love is Not Arrogant
Love is not conceited, boastful, cocky, or stuck-up. Love, instead, is humble and has a servant attitude. Sometimes, a guy may come across to a girl with an "I can take you or leave you" attitude. His demeanour implies, "You ought to be thankful that somebody as neat as me is dating you." Of course, this is not love.
Love always covers
This word cover means to pass over in silence, to keep confidential. Love is patient with the faults of others. It doesn't critcise and broadcast to the world the faults of others. Love is there even when it knows the other is not perfect.
Love always Perseveres
Love always stands its ground and holds out. It will outlast anything. It will even love in the face of unreturned love.Real love will last though all sorts of trials, tribulations and stresses.
Love is Not Provoked
This means that love has a long fuse. It does not become irritated and angry. It is not easily offended. Love does not seek its own This is the heart of love. Love is other-centred rather than self-centred. Love says, "I love you, I want to give to you." Selfishness says, "I love you, I want you!"
Love does not act unbecomingly
This means that love does not behave disgracefully, dishourably or indecently. It does not embarrass others by its action. It is characterised by tact and sensitivity. This also means that love should have good manners. Be sure to do little things like opening doors for your girl, or offering her your arm when you walk together.
Love is forgiving
Lastly, this is a MUST for a successful love story. If a guy is not willing to forgive and forget when his girlfriend is one hour late, he is not exhibiting love. Love doesn't hold grudges when it has been wronged. It doesn't remain resentful. Remember this: Love forgets past failures and sins.
2007-01-29 17:03:05 · answer #5 · answered by lloydi_yeh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You will know when - if you aren't sure then you are not.
If you cringed at the thought of that then you are in love. Congratulations!
Sorry - a bit of reverse psychology there!
2007-01-29 16:59:31 · answer #6 · answered by the real swiss tony 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you known him for so long, and maybe have had more feelings than you relized. Just take it slow, and you will know the right time
2007-01-29 17:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly love isn't knowing its feeling
2007-01-29 16:58:46 · answer #8 · answered by lolabunny 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you see him do get this feeling in heart and try dont to blush and feel are fun all around you
2007-01-29 16:59:17 · answer #9 · answered by kate j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you don't know for sure but you feel it. when he comes around you feel something else :) you'll know for sure. just listen to yourself
2007-01-29 16:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Mizz Franchise 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋