my husband works out of town ...around chrismas i found condums when washing his stuff..he only comes home one night a week and all we do is fight, would getting a divorce be the best thing or sticking it out , becouse he is gone all week and the bills are getting paid...
2007-01-29 08:54:25 · 7 answers · asked by dtdbeasley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I say move on with your life and get rid of the loser. If he is gone all week and home only one night during that time that just isn't much of a relationship anyways. Have you confronted him about the condoms? If so, How did he react? I can tell that if someone is having an affair they will most likely get very angry and fly off the handle at just the mention or accusation of such a thing. In the event that there is no affair most generally the person will not be mad at all and not react in any sort of angry manner. They maybe hurt by such a thing, but usually they won't get angry about it.
2007-01-29 09:11:58 · answer #1 · answered by truckerman96 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make sure that you and him talk about the condoms first before anything decision is made. Then go on from there. Before a divorce decision is made and you and him are still fighting and everything, see a marriage counselor to help you out.
2007-01-29 17:19:55 · answer #2 · answered by Nicki R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You dont say if the condoms are used or new? Maybe he was going to use them as water balloons. Only you can answer your own question, Are you better off with or without him? If you can live under your current situation,then by all means stay put tilyou can no longer out up with it. Good luck
2007-01-29 17:02:18 · answer #3 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tuff one.. are you working at the moment and do you have enough education to support your self and children if you have any.. i only ask because some women do not have the education or the ability at first.. if you dont i would recommend going back to school .. if you do have the education and are not working i would recommend getting a job... then sit down and think about what you really want to do.. stay or leave and then make up your mind
2007-01-29 17:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have got to ask your self If this is a marriage worth saving even with the worst possibilities that he did cheat on you which still leads to deeper issues. MARRIAGE COUNSELING is a solution. If you guys are serious about saving your marriage then you could fit in time to work on the issues if not you have your clear answer
2007-01-29 17:08:42 · answer #5 · answered by jjjg222 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay for money there is an old saying you will earn every red cent. And it sure looks like you are working below minimum wage. I would surprise him with putting itching powder in his briefs and his luggage packed nicely at the curb.
2007-01-29 17:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
did you ask him about it? he's not going without!!
2007-01-29 16:57:44 · answer #7 · answered by abadcv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋