I was at my friends 16th birthday party yesterday. Her boyfriend was so mean to me! We were playing games and were on a team and he was being nice giving me high fives and stuff. Later he turns mean calling me special ed ( I'm not special education by the way) because I said something stupid. He is mean to me for no reason. He was like I'm going to call you that when I see you in the hall. Her boyfriend doesn't even know me that well! I told him this and he was like I kinda do because you talk to Alex at his locket ( Alex is my friend). Why is he mean to me?
2007-01-29 08:15:26 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Sorry I meant locker not locket
2007-01-29 08:15:58 · update #1
I only talked to him at the party. He is sometimes mean to his girlfriend too. I really dont like him because he is unessicarly rude. My friend asked him to cut it out and my other friend who didnt know about it had talked to Billy and Billy called me special ed.
2007-01-29 08:20:53 · update #2
They have been dating for about 2 weeks since shes liked him forever. She is aware that hes mean to him
2007-01-29 08:25:38 · update #3
She is aware he is mean to me*
2007-01-29 08:26:09 · update #4
I barely know him. I wasnt mean to him at all!
2007-01-29 08:27:18 · update #5
No honestly I dont like him at all. Hes mean and rude. I like nice boys
2007-01-29 08:41:34 · update #6
He's mean because he has feelings for you and he doesn't know how to handle it. Stay away from him.
2007-01-29 08:18:57 · answer #1 · answered by Slim Shady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I wouldn't worry about this really I mean all my best friends boyfriends always are mean to me and that's just there personality I'm a Sr. this year and might not know it all but all guys in one way or another are gonna be rude to there girlfriends friends BC there just like that they wanna be your friend two and are gonna pic on you its just a thing they do so if you joke back its all fun and games just something you have to get past..
2007-01-29 16:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Krista_Lynn_17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just because he called you special ed, he might of been playing, and maybe it was something you said. So now he got's jOKes. And if hes calling you that in the hall for everyone to hear call him something too. Something funny like air wick. Tell him ok air wick.Air wick is spray. All he doing is spraying to everyone and you that your special ed, for jOKes, so call him air wick.Girl think of something. In don't take it so personal. Its going to be ok.
2007-01-29 16:28:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you think he was really being mean to you or just teasing you? Most boys make fun of their friends. I know that me and my friends rip on each other all the time, it's just another way of showing that we like each other. It took me a long time to get used to it though and it used to hurt my feelings when i was younger. I eventually realized that you have to be able to laugh at yourself when you do something stupid. I really wouldn't sweat it. If he is really being malicious about it, then talk to your friend about it. If he is really hurting your feelings and she is really your friend then she'll ask him to stop. Maybe he just likes you? It's hard to say, he could just be an asshole and in that case just ignore him. he's a loser.
2007-01-29 16:24:06 · answer #4 · answered by NIcole 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont act like you dont know the dam guy likes you all that name calling in other words its flirting get with the program girl or if not just tell jhim off easy as that nothing much to stress about or maybe you like him to is there something you left out that you dont want us to know.
2007-01-29 16:38:49 · answer #5 · answered by hotty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that he is being mean to you and that you have the right to be respected as a person. Your friend needs to know and needs to take action. Maybe, [if your lucky] she'll break up with him. Because of the bestfriend code [girls before guys]
2007-01-29 16:22:50 · answer #6 · answered by BabyDancer 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you're being over-sensitive. He's probably trying to be funny, although you aren't laughing. He's just an immature guy who thinks name calling is fun, he most likely doesn't mean any harm by it.
If it really bugs you tell him.
2007-01-29 16:22:14 · answer #7 · answered by Nichole D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he's mad because he thinks you made your team lose the game. Just laugh at him if he harasses you at school and tell your mutual friend to get him to stop if he keeps acting mean to you.
2007-01-29 16:20:56 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This loser is jealous of you. This insecure twerp wants your friend to himself so he is trying to push you away so he can have more time with his girlfriend.
This makes me wonder what other ways is he trying to control her. Your friend may be in a bad situation. Be there for her and don't let him bully you away.
2007-01-29 16:22:23 · answer #9 · answered by thezaylady 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll feel better in about 3 years. Don't believe anything you feel until then. It is just your hormones causing you to hallucinate. Enjoy the ride. You'll look back and laugh.
2007-01-29 16:20:21 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋