ok Im 20yrs, i have two girlfriends, the first one is my first true love we beeing together for 2 yr. she is so romantic and cares for me so much. on bed shes shy and im a wild animal so is not as good as i would like it to be. on the other hand the other girl is not as romantic but on bed is a FREAK!!! and i love that. both of them are attractive, same age(19), height, weigth, color, both are college students there is so much on common that i have a hard time deciding which one i should stay with. I need HELP romantic or sexual...why????
2007-01-29 08:11:45 · 20 answers · asked by superman 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Introduce them to each other, maybe they'll share some tips and who knows, maybe rock your world in a 3some!
2007-01-29 08:19:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Near same situation. More like my girlfriend is a dying fish in bed, and there is one close friend that would be a freak in bed if I could get her to like me that way.
Now your choice is the romantic or sexual one. Are either one willing to stay with you for the rest of your life? Take that into considuration if that is your plan. Which one would make a good mother, please your family, someone who would support you, etc.?
Personally I would go for the romantic, just cause she is shy now doesnt mean she will always be and will open up more as she trusts you and wants you to be happy. Mine has started that.
As for wanting sex, yeah the other girl sounds fun to have sex with because of things she has said she likes. But there is probably no chance of me having sex with her.
2007-01-29 08:52:38 · answer #2 · answered by rezruf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Shame on you for having 2 girlfriends, but with that being said, have you tried to show or tell (gently) your romantic gal what you would like. You certainly shouldn't say "You aren't doing this right", but more like "There is something I would really like to try" or "I would like it if you/we could....whatever". Also, make sure she knows you find her attractive and that it turns you one to see her enjoy herself. She is young and it may be embarassing for her. She would probably enjoy loosening up a bit too. It would be a shame to leave your "first true love" for someone who you only comment on in a sexual way. You are young too though, so don't dismiss the idea that you aren't really ready to be in a "forever" kind of relationship. Some people need to sew their wild oats. If this is you, let Ms. Romantic off the hook and make sure the sexy gal knows that is what you want also.
2007-01-29 08:20:14 · answer #3 · answered by SG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, you're cheating on both of them, so you better hope they don't find out because I'm sure you'd have NO girlfriends then.
I'd recommend dumping both of them and finding someone that you have a romantic and sexual connection with. Why choose between the two if you don't have to?
Also, a REAL man would never cheat....let alone on his "true love." You need to grow up!
2007-01-29 08:16:58 · answer #4 · answered by atxtallchick 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should both wake up and dump you!
You are way too young to be in any relationship and you need to learn a thing or two about women first.
explore whats out there you are obviously not ready for any relationship at this point. you will know when you find the right one. in the mean time I hope you tell your girlfriend of two years that you need to break up. Because if you really care about her you won't waste any more of her time!
2007-01-29 08:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go for the romantic one, I would say. By the way you re talking, it sounds like you re only with the sexual one so because you want to have sex with her, while it sounds like you actually love the romantic one. If you dumped the romantic one for the sexual one, I m fairly sure things are going to turn out bad.
2015-07-10 13:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely the true love. If you're picking someone to stay with, you want someone you're going to be compatible with in more ways than just sexually. Besides, you can always "teach" the first to be freakier in bed. You can't exactly teach the second one to be romantic and care about you, that doesn't work.
2007-01-29 08:17:21 · answer #7 · answered by sarai_kristi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is our decision but since you asked I would say whichever you think is more important to you-i dont want you cheating on the romantic girl because she doesnt give you what you need/want?? sexually and vice versa I dont want you cheating on the freaky girl because romance is not her thing
you need to figure out which is more important to you-kinda like the old analogy if you were shipwrecked which would you rather be with-my guess is the romantic girl but my guess isnt as important as the real deal
2007-01-29 08:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I AM TAKING THE SEXUAL FREAK. Although the strong bond is important, I need the re-awakening of exotic stimulation more times than not.
2007-01-29 08:19:06 · answer #9 · answered by whatevit 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why do guys divide sex from love. the wild one can be love also, you know, wild love,i wouldn't make this division,
I would better think weather you have being honest with both of them, tell them you are seeing the other one, try with this thing first, be HONEST
Maybe they surprise you
2007-01-29 08:17:16 · answer #10 · answered by monis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋