My best friend has been happily married 16 yrs to a great guy but she is so naive she thinks just cause her husband is hopelessly in love with her and she is his whole life that means he would never cheat on her..I told her never say never...anybody agree with that.
2007-01-29 08:13:06 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Never said all men cheat..Now did i.
2007-01-29 08:30:10 · update #1
Husband? lol..NOT married
2007-01-29 08:35:26 · update #2
I am happily married again and never does not mean never,notice I said again.
2007-01-29 08:30:47 · answer #1 · answered by DESTINY 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello, maybe they communicate, trust respect, Love , & Honesty in their marriage . Are there signs that he has done something wrong or have you by chance been the mistress? If you know anything for postively you need too tell her & show her you are her best friend & on the other hand if you are the mistress then you are no best friend at all . I do agree that a womans intution is usally right but it can also be wrong to. Please, if you know hes done something wrong you being her best friend should tell her or tell him you know & tell him either he tells her or you will .
In any relationship anything can happen; but when you enter a marriage you ussally hope & pray that the Love , honesty respect, communication, & so on stays but marriage is work liek a job, you have too work at & on it everyday too make it work . Life its what we make it & its always our choices too make right or wrong theirs no in between . Same thing sorta of like if you have ever heard the saying nothing is free in life well its not the choices that we make always comes with a price ( price is not the correct word I was looking for but been up since 1:00 A. M. & Its now 3:34 P.M. ) Sorry, I know this might not be the answer you was looking for .
Good Luck & Best Wishes
May GOD Bless You & Yours
2007-01-29 08:37:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweettexasangel12001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm hoping this is a joke because if it is not it is so very sad. 16 years and a great guy so what is the issue. Here's the real naivete'........... women who go around and make the assumption that all men are dogs. They give off that vibe and men who are serious and caring can smell that attitude a mile away. These women constantly wonder where all of the good guys are instead of realizing that it is THEM....... a lack of what makes the basis of a relationship..... trust. Without that a relationship doesn't even get off the ground.
Sure we all have been hurt but then you move on. Not be a spoiler in somebody elses relationship because you cant understand or have a good one yourself.
2007-01-29 08:32:48 · answer #3 · answered by jackson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the "never say never" approach, but I feel that one can't be stressing about something that might or might not happen. I operate on an assumption that my husband will be around for some time, but I really have no way of knowing of course whether he will get a wild hair and leave me in a year, or if he will get hit by a bus tomorrow, or if he dies from a brain tumor in six months. I would not exclude any of these possibilities (and more), but I don't sit around thinking about it; I simply assume for the moment that we're planning to be married for an indefinite period of time.
2007-01-29 08:23:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I feel bye you telling her this, which you are not a very good friend how do you know that he will ever cheat on her, “YOU DON’T” you do not know what happens behind close doors so don’t judge him! I had a so-called friend that said the very same thing to me once I have been happily married for 26 years now; she is still single with two children, and two different fathers. I am so happy that I never listened to any of her advice!
2007-01-29 08:26:59 · answer #5 · answered by Ms Pollyanna 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Why are you questioning her husband's fidelity? Are you one of those women who have screwed around with a married man or have been cheated on and want to justify those actions by stating "all men cheat". Leave her and her husband alone. Why are you trying to start trouble? Sounds like you are jealous because she has a man who really loves her, and are miserable and want company. 50% of men cheat. That means 50% of the men don't.
2007-01-29 08:27:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why do you say she's naive? If you have firm proof or reason to believe he is cheating, you should share it with her. If you don't, get off her back! 16 years is a pretty good track record. Why can't you be happy for her instead of posing worst-case scenarios? Get a life!
2007-01-30 04:05:38 · answer #7 · answered by gafpromise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
quit trying to break these two people up and quit being jealous of your friend, if your husband cheated on you, and that sounds what has happened....i could be wrong, but if i had to guess, a guy has cheated on you and you want everone to know it....i have been married for 12 years and not once have i thought of another woman in the bed with me.........so, back off your buddy......or are you after her hubby maybe? and this is a way to get him, to break up a happy marriage? be ashamed that you have dishonored yourself in trying to get between these two happy people
2007-01-29 08:33:42 · answer #8 · answered by phishsports 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree NEVER SAY NEVER. My husband says that he never has or never will cheat on me, But define "cheating". Looking at other womens breast or wacking of in the bathroom, cause he does not find you attractive anymore. To me is cheating.
2007-01-29 13:17:10 · answer #9 · answered by dingbat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a Devta, an angel until eventually now marriage. he's a prince, having means even to talk Obama without delay inspite of none appointment...this type of close man or woman to the international leaders until eventually now marriage. He sees her, she additionally sees him. All went incorrect after marriage. She married a incorrect man or woman, he too.
2016-09-28 03:59:50 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Albeit cynical. You are right...never say never. One can hope, but one can't predict someone else's actions, regardless of what they say or do.
I always give my significant other the benefit of the doubt...but deep down I don't set my hopes too high. Which I keep inside, I never let them know that I think that they will cheat. That way if they do, I'm not all that surprised.
2007-01-29 08:26:42 · answer #11 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋