Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

2007-01-25 06:31:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have this guy friend, who has a girlfriend. His girlfriend does things with other guys (sexual things) but she wont even let him talk to other girls. And this makes him feel really bad. He is afraid to talk to her about these things becuase she has an odd way of responding, like getting really mad, and crying. he also doesnt want to tell her because if she does get really mad or starts to cry, it will make him feel even worse then he already does. Should he try and talk to her about it? or just end the relationship?

2007-01-25 06:30:26 · 5 answers · asked by ImLost 2 in Singles & Dating

I hear girls always talking about how they like tall guys and such but I always see them with people the same height as themselves.

I was just curious if there was a height where they become too tall.

I am 6'3" btw, lol

2007-01-25 06:29:14 · 1 answers · asked by Rob S. 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:28:52 · 11 answers · asked by cutelady 1 in Singles & Dating

He claims he hadn't cheated on me since we weren't together. (He had broken up with me, OVER THE PHONE, during vacation.) When he came back, I found out that he had made out with some girl from my school. Him and I are back together, but of course, I'm still iffy about a lot of things. What's your opinion on the matter? Trust him, or no?

2007-01-25 06:28:39 · 26 answers · asked by cree siempre 2 in Singles & Dating

i got rejected... twice... don't know, don't really care. I'm not angsty, or anything... is this normal? should i really care?

2007-01-25 06:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by Nancy M 1 in Singles & Dating

i mean really,besides marriage kids?

2007-01-25 06:27:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tomarrow i'm hanging out with my boyfriend, can anyone give me any tips for when i hang out with my boyfriend tomarrow, on stuff like how should i act, what stuff should i talk about to him, what stuff i should do with him etc etc?

2007-01-25 06:27:34 · 6 answers · asked by US 2 in Singles & Dating

certain family members of mine think that because when i was a baby they helped take care of me and my brothers and yet we owe them our lives when all they do is treat us like their personal slaves.

2007-01-25 06:27:23 · 8 answers · asked by ber-ber21 2 in Family

2007-01-25 06:27:09 · 22 answers · asked by Janelle M 1 in Family

how do guys manage to keep their feelings aside unlike girls?

2007-01-25 06:26:49 · 17 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

Ok I am upset with a friend(M) of mine, so today I've been asking almost everyone if they've seen my friend, nobody has I guess.

Anyway I talked to my other friend(C) and she said to leave (M) alone or people will start thinking I'm stalking her.

Well I don't have a stalking tendancy and I don't stalk people, I haven't really talked with her much and I don't force myself on people.

So is my friend(C) right? She's not very bright though.

2007-01-25 06:26:09 · 9 answers · asked by thegetgo291 1 in Friends

you see my life used to be empty. i used to get up go to school,come home and go to bed. i had nothing. but since i met my friend who i think i fell for from the moment i met her my life has changed. i think i actually have a purpose in life. she gives me belief,courage,strength - without her i am nothing. she makes me feel so many feelings that i didnt even know exsisted.

my regret though is haunting me,killing me slowly and painfully inside,so much that i wish to die. my regret is the fact that we are not together. i believe that she used to love me but i couldnt tell her how i felt before it was to late. she still doesnt know that i love her but i am going to tell her. but i feel that she will tell me that she used to love me but doesnt now. if so than i cannot live any more. i will simply die inside.knowing that i could have had this girl of my dreams but cannot now as i simply couldnt tell her '' i love you '' before it was too late.

im on the verge of doing something stupid

2007-01-25 06:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:24:33 · 32 answers · asked by tiffany f 1 in Singles & Dating

I broke up with my girlfriend but we still talk... her friends are all jerks and she is sick and tired of them... she is sad and depressed that we broke up but were still friends and i want to help her cuz im the only person she feels she can talk to... i guess... i think she might be suicidal...

2007-01-25 06:24:09 · 20 answers · asked by my spill canvas 2 in Singles & Dating

I put a previous post about this. This past Sunday night he made a movie date with me for this wednesday. I said, yes, we said goodnight, and he said would call me the next day. He didnt call me at all for our date until Wed night, and he said.

"Im sorry I havent been able to talk the past few days, its been real crazy here. My cell reception wasnt working so I threw it against the wall, and it broke."

That was pretty much it, and I had to end the call. He didnt mention the fact we were supposed to meet up that day. Is this guy playing with my mind?

2007-01-25 06:24:01 · 18 answers · asked by confusedbrowngirl 2 in Singles & Dating

My new boyfriend (only official for about 3 weeks now) wants to take his ex-girlfriend out as a "Thank You" for giving him a schoolbook for college. Saving him about $90. I have already told him I'm not ok with this. But he insists that they are only friends. Trust me, I am putting my foot down on this one, but I want to hear your thoughts on this. And what good is it, if he pays for dinner cause then he isn't saving $90. Hello!!

2007-01-25 06:23:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have been with my husband for 4 years now, married almost a year of that! We have lived together for the whole time we were dating though and our relationship has been GREAT up until about a month ago, well right after the new year I would say! I love him an dall, but I feel so disconnected from him, I find myself going to bed before him so I don't have to have sex with him and I feel myself not sitting by him anymore, I don't feel that spark when we kiss anymore, I don't understand, we have been best of friends since i was 9 years old, about 11 years ago and now all the sudden I feel like I can't stand him anymore, I haven't cheated and he hasn't cheated, we both work all the time and barely get any time together, maybe that could be it but we have always worked hard! I have told him I want to move out and work on things like that but he thinks it will make us farther apart! What should I do?

2007-01-25 06:22:54 · 11 answers · asked by Heather M 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 06:22:28 · 23 answers · asked by She She 1 in Singles & Dating

i really dont do it much, but i would like to see what you guys say!

2007-01-25 06:22:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

When is it too late to get away from an abusive man?
Is it before you live together or after?
Some people say that it depends on how long you've
been with him? I am leaving an abusive relationship,
and we never lived together. He's been gone for months
now,& I think he's for sure going to stay away now.
He use to say cruel things to me,and his abuse gradually
got worse over time. He wanted me to live with him and
move away from all my family & friends but I left before
he could get me to do that cause he bit me in my sleep
and called me stupid. Do you all think he'll leave me alone
for good this time?

2007-01-25 06:21:53 · 3 answers · asked by Dyannah 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:21:37 · 27 answers · asked by Parris Island 1 in Singles & Dating

I live in the next county over from him. Times are usually pretty spread out between seeing him. Would you call this a boyfriend, or maybe just a really good friend with benefits? I do really like him and would love to be with him alot more, but the distance and the ways we work and I have a small child make things a little tight to see each other as much as we would like. I ran into a guy I used to date a few days ago, things happened, should I tell him. I do really need some serious advice. I do care alot for him but I am tired of being alone and wish I had someone there to share my time with and that would be there for me if I needed them. What should I do? I think I should tell him. I wonder what he will say, and if he will even care. But as I said before in past talks, I go to him, and times he goes long periods of time before he calls me, and yet when Im around him he seems as though he missed me. Don't know what to do. Please help. I have been married once, and for seven years.

2007-01-25 06:20:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend knew that I slept with her friend (before we started dating). I however didn't know she knew this. I swore secrecy because her friend is with someone and doesn't want him to find out cuz they are getting married and she loves him and never meant to be with me. Her boyfriend is one of my best friends. I regret getting drunk and hooking up with her. She is a good friend of mine too. My girlfriend says she doesn't care because she wasn't with me at the time, but when she confronted me I lied then fessed up when I knew she knew. She is deeply hurt about the lie and already has trust issues because her last boyfriend cheated on her. I don't know why I lied. I felt scared I would lose her I guess. I love her very much though and begged her for forgiveness. She did not leave me over this, but I want to show her I love her and make it right. Is there anything I can do to let her know that I would never lie to her ever again and prove to her how much she means to me?

2007-01-25 06:20:02 · 6 answers · asked by stupidictomy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Dad recently out of jail about being gone for 10 yrs - has maintained phone contact with daughter for last 5 yrs. Dad out of jail almost 2 mos now, and they have spent some time together - I am confortable with him for the most part, do you think it is okay for me to ask for a basic outline of what they plan on doing while together or where going. Also he has a new girlfriend now - do you think it is okay tht I request he does not introduce this women yet and instead take the 24 hrs with his daughter alone since he has been gone 10 yrs. I know we still have feeling for each other and I really don't want her to meet the girlfriend.
Me and her dad have a love/hate relationship - passionate but painful, and one that cannot be , but I don't think he needs to introduce the new girlfriend yet. advice ....

2007-01-25 06:19:54 · 3 answers · asked by XXXFAIRY 1 in Family

2007-01-25 06:19:45 · 5 answers · asked by Audrinalynn 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i need to start again.so i have been seeing this guy for a year and a half.im a single mom and he has always tried to hang out with the kids as well.he cuddles with me, holds my hand on occasions, kisses are great.sex of course is good too.calls me all the time, asks about how work was, wants to know how my family is doing.just recently got custody of his son, and brings him with us.he would do anything i ask him, and whenever i say lets get together he seems really excited and happy.he has never broken a date, and i feel he really loves me.the problem is, we worked together a few years ago and became really good best friends first.we havent had the realtionship talk.i tried to bring it up the other night and he acted like he didnt know what i was trying to say.does he love me?or am i just being stupid and we are just friends with a little extra?please help, and how do we get passed that

2007-01-25 06:18:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do they just not want to take the time to give helpful advice? Or is it for the points?

2007-01-25 06:18:48 · 25 answers · asked by mvas800 3 in Marriage & Divorce

5' 0 100 lbs. blck hair / blue eyes/$$$/light skin/ phat a$zz/ yup

2007-01-25 06:18:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

only girls may answer. can some one tell me that how do u feel when boy who is a good friend of yours for a long time, comes and propose u one day. is it ok with u or do u feel bad about it.
Secondly what would be ur reaction if u dont feel the same for that boy, would u stop talking to him or would u remain freinds for ever. I am asking this because i want to propose one of my friend whom i have been liking since an year. so please send me ur thoughts on this and if possible also suggest me what i should do next PLEASE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 06:18:19 · 21 answers · asked by yudi k 1 in Singles & Dating