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you see my life used to be empty. i used to get up go to school,come home and go to bed. i had nothing. but since i met my friend who i think i fell for from the moment i met her my life has changed. i think i actually have a purpose in life. she gives me belief,courage,strength - without her i am nothing. she makes me feel so many feelings that i didnt even know exsisted.

my regret though is haunting me,killing me slowly and painfully inside,so much that i wish to die. my regret is the fact that we are not together. i believe that she used to love me but i couldnt tell her how i felt before it was to late. she still doesnt know that i love her but i am going to tell her. but i feel that she will tell me that she used to love me but doesnt now. if so than i cannot live any more. i will simply die inside.knowing that i could have had this girl of my dreams but cannot now as i simply couldnt tell her '' i love you '' before it was too late.

im on the verge of doing something stupid

2007-01-25 06:25:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

ok first you need to tell her how you feel....and there is no person in this world worth taking your own life over because they don't want to be with you....things happen for a reason , if she says no it wasn't meant to be she's not the one . God has a plan for everyone he gives us lil test everyday some or bigger than others . There is someone out there for you weather its her or the girl at the coffee shop. Don't do anything stupid. Just talk to her and tell her how you feel

Good Luck

2007-01-25 06:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by " Dixieland Delight " 3 · 1 0

stop right there. do not do anything stupid. go and get some form of counseling. just because she may have moved on doesn't mean that she has found someone but if she has then that still doesn't mean that you two can't still be good friends. even if the two mentioned above does not work out for some reason that is still not a reason to do something that is going to harm or kill you. that is no reason and nothing is worth killing yourself over. you have got to learn how to move on and make yourself a better life. some kind of life is better than none at all. if she is already taken then there is a lot of other good people out there that your could have a relationship with but you have to seriously look they just will not come to you. get the stupid things out of your mind. get some help and get your life back together. you may not think it will benefit you now but trust me down the road in the future you will be glad you made the decision to get some help and didn't do anything that you can't take back. hang in there. thing will work out for the better. you just have to have hope and faith. that is what keeps me going when i get down and out. hope this helps. i'm serious about going and getting help. good luck.

2007-01-25 06:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Back the truck up, Mac! Your purpose in life is not tied to any other person liking, disliking, loving or hating you. You must find your purpose in life yourself; Your purpose is usually found in a spiritual search. Another person can aid you, but you must never think that your life is NOTHING without so-in-so. That IS giving your life and purpose away! Rather, think of life as a journey and your life's purpose is out there somewhere on that journey. You will meet lots of girls on that journey. Perhaps one is for you. But, your life is not dependent on anyone else.

I've been at your place and wished someone could have explained it to me just this simply. My life goes on and has purpose and meaning even if the "Love of MY Life" rejects me. Value yourself! Believe in yourself; believe in your worth. That is the foundation for love to happen. The way you are approaching it in your question is from a position of weakness, no strength. You are approaching love with her from "Needy" and dependent rather than from a position of independence and wholeness as a person.

2007-01-25 06:56:18 · answer #3 · answered by shari w 2 · 1 0

Super-

Don't even think about hurting yourself. It sounds like you're doing an ok job of this already.

Life is full of regret...love lost, broken promises, and silly mistakes. You don't know how she feels and you've already predicted the worse.

I think you need to try to forgive yourself first. You made a mistake, and its not the end of the world.

I know this sounds hard to believe, but something tells me you're a smart guy.

Be prepared to move on without her, and heap all of this love on the next girl you deem worthy.

I do say go for it with the love of your life girl first. Anything worth having is worth working hard for.

Good Luck to You!!

2007-01-25 06:39:43 · answer #4 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 0 0

Take it easy!
Relax!!!!!!!!
What the **** is wrong with you?!?!?!
Do you have any Idea how she would feel if you went ahead and did something stupid.
If you can't see the pain she would feel then, You really don't care for her. Suicidal Tendancies are for the weak minded.Stop thinking selfishly!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 06:39:01 · answer #5 · answered by Gatumadre!! 1 · 0 0

okkk slow down.
it is good that you are going to tell her. you say she might not like you anymore...but what if she does? and if she doesn't, then there are so many girls out there for you that will really like you.
don't do anything stupid.

2007-01-25 06:35:41 · answer #6 · answered by KATiE 1 · 0 0

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