Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

My boyfriend has been living with me for the past year, I thought everything would be fine, but the truth is we fight almost everyday, I have tried to deal with it but i can't any longer. I have tried to break up with him so many times but every time I do this,He cries to me and tries to hurt himself ,he tells me that if I leave him He doesn't know what's going to happen to him. He scares me He's hurt himself twice before. The first time he hit himself with a flower vase over the head I had to take him to the hospital for stiches. I don't know what to do. I feel this is affecting me more than it is him. I want to get him help but what should i do? Please help.

2007-01-25 06:56:31 · 7 answers · asked by HELP ME 1 1 in Singles & Dating

we always have a great time together, but i admit that i hate when i sit there, laughing at what they say, hardly ever contributing my own comments bc im really shy. I would really like to be outgoing, funny, and loveable like them.. any tips?

ps im 17 if that helps at all..

2007-01-25 06:56:27 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

we seperated last february, i had nowhere to live but have recently brought a small studio flat and moved in.,she now says she is entitled to claim half because the divorce is not quite finished. its about 2 weeks away from completion of the decree absolute

2007-01-25 06:55:02 · 18 answers · asked by jayebird 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I live in uk and I have familly in palestine ( they live in bad stuation my mum and tow of my brother and they are so young ) I have familly here me and my husbend and my doughter I look for job for long time but I cant found beacouse I speak Arabic , and I want to help my familly to send them some money but I can't , I cry most of days I look thought the internet to found any job but I can't found , so please tell me what I do ?

2007-01-25 06:54:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

most men go after the "prepy" girls instead of the "Smart" girls???
how come all most guys do is if they are in highschool or college all they want with us Smart girls is to copy off our paper's! why can't men take us smart girls seriously??? I mean since I get streight A's and B's guys just see me as a way to get out of they're homework!!!! is there any guy around that likes "BOOKWORMS"?
I am a good looking bookworm! I just don't like the way most men treat me!
Wild Texas Cowgirl

2007-01-25 06:54:31 · 23 answers · asked by Fighting Irish Lass 3 in Singles & Dating

When a person is there any way that you can get back at them or are they just really that cold hearted?

2007-01-25 06:53:54 · 12 answers · asked by Princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I was just wondering, because it seems to me that these people have a major character flaw and I'm somewhat skeptical about their willingness or ability to change.

2007-01-25 06:53:51 · 12 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

Or do we all have little clowns inside our heads? Mine just fell out of my ear. He's now making me a balloon animal and I'm getting ready for a face painting. This is soooo cool!! I never even knew he was in there!! How many of you already knew about this and didn't tell me???

2007-01-25 06:52:55 · 9 answers · asked by DoubleD 1 in Singles & Dating

Some people say that there sex life goes down hill after marriage, give me some ideas to keep it spicy, be explicit if you must but try to keep it clean.

2007-01-25 06:51:52 · 7 answers · asked by Todd 1 in Singles & Dating

Im not a desperate freak. But I Really Like this guy and I have since year 5 (4 years). Anyway Im really shy and I can't talk to him, I do occasionally ask him about erm.. The score of a match hes just played in But hes well shy and kinda mumbles stuff really quietly back. I always catch his eye and things but does that mean anything??? My Bezzie always ses that she sees Him looking at me!? I really want to talk to him but as ive never spoken to him Ive known him since year 4 at school so I cant just walk up and say Hi! I really love or fancy this guy and i dunno what to do!!! yas x

2007-01-25 06:51:19 · 10 answers · asked by yasra02 1 in Singles & Dating

I've never had the opportunity to travel in my past but he has and doesn't care much for it now

2007-01-25 06:51:02 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I have tried to be separated, but he spends a lot of time at the house. He is here about 5 times a week and spends the night a few times. When I am mad at him, or fed up, I send him back to his apartment. But when he is not around, I am worried and want him to call.

He was supposed to come over the other day after work, and he called to say he wouldn't be home. Then yesterday, he was supposed to be here after his doctor's appointment. I called him this morning and he was in his car. He said that his cell phone didn't work and that's why he didn't call me last night to say he wouldn't be there.

I just don't understand what is happening. Somedays he is here and I want him to be. Those days we think we can work it out. Then the next day, he's not showing up or I don't want him around. What should I do?

Should I ask him to move back so we can work on it? Or should we just get divorced? Or should I let him have some freedom?

2007-01-25 06:50:59 · 49 answers · asked by blue eyes 2 in Marriage & Divorce

How long in a relationship can you appropriately throw sex into the mix and actually talk about it or start it up?

2007-01-25 06:50:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The sex is good, I do enjoy it, but even when it does last for a long time, I don't orgasm. Is it me? Is it him? We tried MANY different poitions, and still nothing. I've been with a couple of other guys, but they havent been able to do it for me either. HELP!

2007-01-25 06:49:21 · 5 answers · asked by Amerz 1 in Singles & Dating

how do you generate feelings in them..coz most of them are like robots .

2007-01-25 06:49:13 · 1 answers · asked by spin spin sunshine 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:48:59 · 5 answers · asked by Tatevik 1 in Singles & Dating

Just curious!

For me...

Italian, dark brown hair, dark eyes, average weight (body isn't much of a concern for me, as long as they're not over-weight) around 5 ft 7 is a good height.

Personality- CAN MAKE ME LAUGH (which isn't hard to do!), fun, caring, sincere, honest, trustworthy, passionate about something (i.e. his job, music, dogs, etc...), good around the house... I could go on...

2007-01-25 06:48:19 · 34 answers · asked by :-) 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a four year old, 17 month old, and a 4 month old and they are all boys.

2007-01-25 06:48:17 · 65 answers · asked by psbarnes82 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Am I abnormal? I still feel sorry for him and feel guilty about the whole thing 5 years later. I don't take a dime from him in cs and he sees the kids often, him and I are good friends, just wonder why I can't shake this guilt feeling. We both were at fault.

2007-01-25 06:47:54 · 12 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 06:46:33 · 22 answers · asked by Parris Island 1 in Singles & Dating

just a question, is canada up from grand rapids or down

2007-01-25 06:46:26 · 4 answers · asked by Jaylynn's mommy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

..I should be working... ! HA!

2007-01-25 06:46:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I would like to end this relationship but I am afraid of his anger and hurting him. He throws temper tantrums and last week called my son a lazy *** for not shovling the snow the way he wantedHe has not apologised to my son, in his eyes I got everything I deserve and he blames me or my son for his temper...My son is 14. I could write a book on the things he has done to hurt me and the ways he has mistreated him, now he wants me to go to Mexico with him as he bought me a ticket but I dont want to go. What should I do??

2007-01-25 06:46:12 · 4 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

give them a Happy Birthday wish or greeting?

Our daughter will celebrate her birthday (last teenage one) next week away from her without her family there for the first time ever.

In this year she has,

lost her childhood pet
seen her childhood home be sold
had her family move to a totally new state
been diagnosed with a life long incurable, but hopefully manageble, disease, yet still
goes out of her way daily to try and make others lives (total strangers) a little bit cherrier and happier.

Would you, a total stranger, send her a Happy Birthday wish or greeting?

Thanks to you with my most motherly gratitude!

2007-01-25 06:46:10 · 7 answers · asked by ? 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

should i send this guy i like a valentines card even though i have never really spoken to him? hes gorgeous! he works next door to my workplace.???

2007-01-25 06:45:47 · 14 answers · asked by jo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:45:41 · 10 answers · asked by Angel Eve 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-25 06:45:02 · 27 answers · asked by 6th Finger 2 in Family

I think I over did things, now I just can’t hold my self up it hurts so much, I was very careful never to hurt her feelings and always was there for her I respected her and love3d her more than my own dam self and always thought she was the same but every day she hurts me she knows that she is killing me yet she docent seem to be bothered why did mi love her this much how am I to get over her why docent tears help…………………

2007-01-25 06:44:20 · 5 answers · asked by Gentleman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:44:11 · 4 answers · asked by lesliesgirl05 1 in Family

A childhood friend whom I 've grown up with since 12, I'm now 26, keeps saying crazy things to me, for instance she asked me "ISn't it hard to be sexy" then she text messaged me saying"I want some ice cream" then there was another occasion where we conversating, and out the blue, she says, oh gosh I'm getting turned on when you say the word"come" and it's really irritating the hell oughta me any suggestions or thougts

2007-01-25 06:43:48 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends