Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I'm seeing a guy (long-distant) we're not officially in a relationship cuz of the distance i.e. we haven't discussed monogamy. He told me he's slept with a woman, not once, but twice. He said he's done this cuz he thinks cuz of my 'high sex drive' that I'm sleeping around also. What's so funny bout the whole thing is that he wants a relationship. Is he trying to make me think about this other girl sleeping with him, so I am more inclined to secure a relationship with him?! I told him last night, that if she wants to f**k him again, then she's gonna have to ask me for permission, he said "I will do that and asked since when did you become boss?!". Is he taking this seriously? what do you think I should do? I don't want to end it with him.

2007-01-25 06:43:39 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to keep up with a YALF girl?

2007-01-25 06:43:31 · 22 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I MADE HIM LET ME HAVE 3 SOMES AND SEX WITH HIS FRIEND THEN I TREATED HIM LIKE DIRT AND HE LEFT ME AND NOW HE WILL NOT TALK TO ME. I THINK HE GAVE IN TO EASY AND THATS WHY I TREATED HIM DO BAD. HOW DO I GET HIM BACK

2007-01-25 06:42:59 · 14 answers · asked by latonya m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i need tips of giving the best blow jobs and hand jobs to my man. what are some good, unexpected places to give a handjob and what are some great tips. and plz i just need to know what are the dos and don'ts.

i am sorry to ask in this way, but i seriously need tips. our sex life is getting boring..plzz help me...if u don't want to answer, then don't...

2007-01-25 06:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Dear All,
Im 18 M MUMBAI, marathi. I have a friend (18 F marathi) from my college, she was studying with me for some days, but now I'm in diff. class and she continued where she was.
Though our schedules dont match we meet often. The problem starts here, my tendency about friends is to be always in touch with them and to always remeber them. so I sent a romantic Shyaari to her, and she misscalled me and started shouting badly on me, I felt extermly bad, she thought that soon Im going to prapose her and thats why I was making that arrengment, whcih was not at all my thinking. I just wanted to share that pleasure of shayari with her, nothing else.
when I asked her, why she was so overeacting then she replied her brother or mom checks her mobile anytime and it could create problem for her, her mom is suffring from Asthama so I said nothing to her; I was so upset that I dashed my car to another on highway, but that is not a problem. I just want to know where did I go wrong?

2007-01-25 06:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by rishikesh.chindarkar 1 in Friends

my oldest son, whom is 5, only knows my ex husband as dad. he is not really his father but he has been there for my son since he was born. my ex and I had a baby (13 months old) but have decided to seperate. of course my ex comes around to visit the baby and my oldest son always calls him daddy.

is it wrong of me to allow him to keep calling him dad? or should i make him stop?

2007-01-25 06:41:53 · 20 answers · asked by Jacinda 2 in Family

I see so many questions about cheating here. My question is this, is it easier to blame the cheater (who is wrong) than take an honest and hard look at themselves to see if they might have contributed in some way to the other person's behavior? Wouldn't the person being cheated on be better served with some serious self inspection rather than taking the easy way out and assigning complete blame on the cheating spouse?

2007-01-25 06:41:03 · 19 answers · asked by Thunderman9 6 in Marriage & Divorce

for valentine's day. i'm gonna write him a poem and frame it up for him. along with framing "our" song lyrics. breakfast in bed. and dinner at his favorite restaurant. followed by a massage... because he gives me one everynight.

good? bad? other ideas?

2007-01-25 06:39:55 · 4 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:39:38 · 5 answers · asked by ara2680 2 in Friends

I am the happiest I have ever been now that I have come out. I have only told my mom and of course the woman I am seeing. I am so afraid cause my mom took it hard. She said she never wants to talk to me again, I do not think being gay is that big of a deal. I want to tell everyone, I have never felt this way and I want the world to know but I feel kind of like "brokeback mountain" not to meantion my ex is making my life hell. He is upset and hurt, as I understand, but he is trying to take my kids just because I am gay. I also work with him and he has turned the whole store against me. I now live a cocoon which is not fair. How do I tell everyone I am proud and let go of the crap that everyone is giving me?

2007-01-25 06:39:23 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think the reason guys dont like me is

Im short
I have brown hair
brown eyes


am i not pretty, just because in not blonde?

2007-01-25 06:38:45 · 29 answers · asked by Candy Coated 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:37:38 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

forbidden island what is the name?

2007-01-25 06:37:31 · 6 answers · asked by Kaleleonalani 1 in Marriage & Divorce

In college we met and hit it off great, He's 100% italian and I am West Indian/Venezuelian aka Black. His mom/dad/sister are okay with me, BUT the rest of his family can never know about me; which HURTS! Why is this so and if he loves me shouldn't care what extended family says. Right?

2007-01-25 06:37:31 · 15 answers · asked by LamiaAngel 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:36:27 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

even if there 100% wrong

2007-01-25 06:35:58 · 33 answers · asked by Tinkerbell 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in italy :20:33
byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!!
ciao america!!!!!!

2007-01-25 06:35:41 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we have a 12year old daughter a 9 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. he cheated and then i found out i was preg 2 weeks later. we stayed together and i am not sure how to ever get over it i actully caught them in the act and i lost my temper and beet the sh*t out of them both. she is married and i told her hubby she in turn convinced him and a few friends that i am exagerating and nothing happened (they were both naked as j-bird) what do i do
i do love him but he gets p*ssed off if i even mention it. i want to know why, how many times or how long it had been going on

2007-01-25 06:35:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently went out to the bar with a couple of friends of mine, I did tell my bf that I would be home by midnight. Well I wound up coming home at 2 am, we worked through everything and have moved on since then, but now he tells me if i ever go back out to the bar he'll break up with me and he also tells me that i need to drop one of my good friends because she should have had me home. Now that was my first time ever going to any bar, I don't hardly do it but sometimes I do wish that I could go out and have a little fun. What should I do? Break up with the boyfriend because he forbids me from going out or stick with him and abide by what he says?

2007-01-25 06:35:21 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have dated a few idiots in my time and now I have met the most wonderful man in the world. He always tells me that he loves me and that we are going to be together till the end, and that he would never break my heart, etc.. I want to believe him, but part of me is scared that he is to good to be true. Is this just my insecurity from past relations?

2007-01-25 06:35:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need someone who has subscribed to yahoo personals to help me out getting a message to someone. (I'm signed up, but I don't have credit card right now)
This would be a huge favor if anyone who is signed up would like to help me out

2007-01-25 06:34:43 · 1 answers · asked by smarty 2 in Singles & Dating

was with my wife for ten years and she walked out on me. leaving me with a five and a seven year old. now i sit in most nights alone when the kids are in bed. so i dont get to go out and meet people. if i did go out i would probably be to shy and quiet to speak to anyone. the life of a single parant hey. kids in the day and alone at night. is there any hope for me? x

2007-01-25 06:34:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've had so many bad relationships . My first boyfriend knocked me up at 16(I'd already left home, after being beaten by my moms husband) and said if I got rid of the baby he would leave me, and at that point I still loved him, he was best at saying "get me a beer b**tch" and going to the bar with his friends while I stayed home, and would grab my throat and slam me up against the wall if I complained. After 5 years in order to get him out of my life I had to let him take my son with him. He ignored our daughter. The next guy cheated on me, the next one cheated and was a closet crack head, the one after that is my youngest one's dad, and he slashed my tires and stole all my food and my coat when I was 8 months pregnant, one time he said he'd bring the baby back at 7, had to go to court to force him to, also got a credit card under my name and racked up 3500 debt for me, one slammed a door in my face and broke my nose, knocked me out so I could wake up and find myself covered in blood.

2007-01-25 06:34:21 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my ex split up about 9months ago, we still talk and get on alright and we might get back in a yr or so when she gets back from travelling. She doesnt speak to her mum at all as she cheated on her dad. Recently me and her mum have been txtin each other talking and things and im going round there next week as we were pretty close to catch up n things. I am really atracted to her mum and i think we might have sex. Should i or not?

2007-01-25 06:34:15 · 51 answers · asked by simpleiwish 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 06:34:08 · 11 answers · asked by aarti 2 in Weddings

this person can be family, friend, actor etc.

2007-01-25 06:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by Danielle 1 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend went on our first romantic weekend together to a charming cottage in the New Forest. On the second day we had finished showering and were getting dressed together. I forgot which pair of underwear I was wearing the day before so I picked up a pair and gave it a sniff to see if it was fresh. She saw me and to this day I've never seen such a horrified look on someone's face before. She said it was completely disgusting and then she wasn't quite herself for the rest of the weekend. My question is...don't all men do this to their underwear? And wasn't I just unlucky to get caught? (by the way, the ones I picked up were yesterdays...yuck!)

2007-01-25 06:33:38 · 51 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

Now, here's a description of me. If you like it, email me.
6ft tall, 190 lbs, tan, very fashionable glasses, light brown hair with blonde highlights, very funny, love to make people laugh, love giving back scratches and massages, and very importantly, I ain't the jealous type.

2007-01-25 06:33:08 · 8 answers · asked by djdjr01 3 in Singles & Dating

should i believe him when he said that he was looking on match for a friend from high school? We've been dating for a month and he told me that he wanted to be exclusive.

2007-01-25 06:31:49 · 20 answers · asked by Sammy 2 in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend new he broke my heart i cryed loads when he broke it off and he still wonted to c me as mates he has not ask 4 me back as he say he fill dif this time and wonts to go out more with mates but im afriad he mite , he wil get lonley and always wonts me bk, but all he has said to me is hope im ok and stay in conatct i have ignored him as this not wot i wont i did wont more but relaise he wont change.
wil he *** bk knowin i love him or wil he fink i broke her heart 2 times and she did say at begin of relationship she was arfiad of me breakin her heart but also he knows he said to me i wil alaways love u plz help.

2007-01-25 06:31:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships