Me and my ex split up about 9months ago, we still talk and get on alright and we might get back in a yr or so when she gets back from travelling. She doesnt speak to her mum at all as she cheated on her dad. Recently me and her mum have been txtin each other talking and things and im going round there next week as we were pretty close to catch up n things. I am really atracted to her mum and i think we might have sex. Should i or not?
2007-01-25 06:34:15 · 51 answers · asked by simpleiwish 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely!! why are you even asking?
2007-01-25 06:38:31 · answer #1 · answered by bassmonkey1969 4 · 4⤊ 6⤋
If you don't want to get back together with her daughter, then of course you should sleep with her mom. That's an awesome opportunity that few people will ever get the chance to do, sleeping with both both a daughter and mother. It just is, if you're into life experiences and experiencing everything you can in life. Don't even hesitate; get over there and have at it. I see no reason to tell the daughter, even if you don't like her and never want to see her, it is fruitless to hurt someone for no reason. If you want to get back together with the daughter, you should probably avoid sleeping with the mother altogether; it just doesn't make any sense to complicate your chances of making it work with the daughter, unless of course she wouldn't care or better, if sleeping with her mom would actually help you win her back, which I highly doubt. If you want to risk sleeping with the mom and trying to go back out with the daughter, you have to ask yourself one thing: will the mom tell? Ask yourself: does the mother have any motive to hurt the daughter? If she is stable and okay with her cheating on her husband and okay with her daughter not talking to her, and okay with being a free spirit, then you might risk it. If this mother-daughter relationship is volatile in any way, if they're all messed up emotionally about each other, then you should probably just move on and not bang the mom.
2007-01-25 06:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by theobviousanswerman 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO NO NO NO!
A) If you want any chance of getting back with your ex when she gets back, you should stay the hell away from her Mum, especially if she and her Mum are estranged. and
B) If you do, you are liable to end up on the chavtastic voyeur fest which is "The Jeremy Kyle Show"....and I'm sure you have more dignity than that.
BTW, why are you in contact with her Mum when she herself isn't?
I'd walk away right now.
2007-01-25 06:40:55 · answer #3 · answered by lululaluau 5 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Not if you have any plans on getting back with your ex. Even if you don't have plans on getting back together, it is not a good idea, stick to someone close to your own age, after all how would your mother feel if you were sleeping with someone her age? More to the point, how would you feel if your mom was sleeping with someone your age?
2007-01-25 06:39:58 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Are you nuts? Unless you think you deserve castration i really think the answer is no. Do not even go round to 'catch up on things'; make an excuse and run for the hills.
2007-01-25 06:41:32 · answer #5 · answered by D B 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Don't do it, yeah you like her and she attractive but things can only go BAD in a situation like yours. There are more fish or "mums" in the sea. Look elsewhere you'll be happy to not have the stress.
2007-01-25 06:39:41 · answer #6 · answered by LamiaAngel 1 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you want to, go for it, but if you ever want to be with your ex again, i would'nt recommend it.
I also don't beleive in having sex with someone you do not genuinely care about so my opinion may not be coming from the same outlook.
2007-01-25 06:39:23 · answer #7 · answered by Rob S. 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Not if your thinking of getting back with your ex in the future.
2007-01-25 06:40:40 · answer #8 · answered by jeanimus 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
hellll nooo..especially if u think u nd ur ex might get bak together u kno howweird it would b to go c ur gf when shes wit her mom nd kno uve slept ur girls mom the woman that gave birth to her jeez that jus weird nd gross
2007-01-25 06:48:19 · answer #9 · answered by jackie<3 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The MILF hunter strikes again. I'd do it if you don't care about your ex. If you do care and plan on getting back with her then you should prolly hold off. Or say that her mom raped you. ;)
2007-01-25 06:41:50 · answer #10 · answered by xeroshogun 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well I'd say go for it if you weren't planning on getting back together w/your ex.
If she doesn't speak to her Mother b/c she cheated on Dad, then I reckon if she found out you two bumped that she's ever speak to you OR her mother ever again.
Your choice...is it worth it?
2007-01-25 06:39:39 · answer #11 · answered by Miz D 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋