My boyfriend of 13 years cheated on me how do i get over the hurt?

Question

we have a 12year old daughter a 9 year old daughter and a 6 month old son. he cheated and then i found out i was preg 2 weeks later. we stayed together and i am not sure how to ever get over it i actully caught them in the act and i lost my temper and beet the sh*t out of them both. she is married and i told her hubby she in turn convinced him and a few friends that i am exagerating and nothing happened (they were both naked as j-bird) what do i do
i do love him but he gets p*ssed off if i even mention it. i want to know why, how many times or how long it had been going on

some advice please

Answer 1

You have every right to know how many times it had happened and how long it had been going on. I have been in an unfaithful relationship and it was very hard for me to come to terms with everything. Luckily, we didn't have children and so I left. I really don't know how I would cope with something like that. I couldn't. Trust is a very hard thing to earn, and it's near impossible to get it back once you've lost it. I think you should feel free to piss him off every chance you get, you deserve that much. He has no reason to be pissed off. If anything, he should be trying to make it up to you by telling you everything that had happened. Personally, I would find that impossible to do...

Good Luck

Answer 2

What will you do if you find out the answers to those questions?? You will probably hate him. If you want to make this work you have to let it go...otherwise it will tear you apart. Good luck to you.