Dear All,
Im 18 M MUMBAI, marathi. I have a friend (18 F marathi) from my college, she was studying with me for some days, but now I'm in diff. class and she continued where she was.
Though our schedules dont match we meet often. The problem starts here, my tendency about friends is to be always in touch with them and to always remeber them. so I sent a romantic Shyaari to her, and she misscalled me and started shouting badly on me, I felt extermly bad, she thought that soon Im going to prapose her and thats why I was making that arrengment, whcih was not at all my thinking. I just wanted to share that pleasure of shayari with her, nothing else.
when I asked her, why she was so overeacting then she replied her brother or mom checks her mobile anytime and it could create problem for her, her mom is suffring from Asthama so I said nothing to her; I was so upset that I dashed my car to another on highway, but that is not a problem. I just want to know where did I go wrong?
2007-01-25 06:41:55 · 15 answers · asked by rishikesh.chindarkar 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Listen I know that girl overreact. But any girl have reacted in the same way. Once my friend also done the same thing n I talk to him very rudely. I said him sorry later but also explain my point of view to him.
Try to understand her. If any1 come to her room may b that person take that sms in a wrong way n even blame her to allow u to send her romantic message. May b her family is very strict. She may not really mean what she said to u becoz at that time may b she was very nervous n frightened.
U r not wrong. U didn't had any bad intentions but her point of view is also not wrong. Apologize to her, tell ur point of view to her n never repeat that mistake. OK.
2007-01-26 05:18:55 · answer #1 · answered by Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you did not do anything wrong dear...
but something happened unintentionally which has disturbed your friendship with this gal. dont blame yourself for nething...
because then u wont be of ne good...
incidents like this one happen once in a while...
just let ur dear friend know what u meant by those messages...
and if her mobile is checked then avoid yaar!! You could always read such messages to her or let her read them from ur mobile... Why create probs for her?
The best solution is talk to her. Let her know that u r feeling bad... ask her if you did wrong?
It was something you did when u were unaware of conditions at her home...
If u'll keep blaming urself or keep finding ur mistakes then u'll harm both of u...
Hope u'll understand...
take care
2007-01-25 15:06:41 · answer #2 · answered by Sweetheart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes girls dont know what they do and why they do ? Not because they are crazy or mad. But as U said that her mom is asthamatic. Girls usually pre-occupy themselves with petty things and react alike to all situations alike. JUST RELAX and contact her normally without shayari. Give her some space and respect it. If she at all loves you, U will get 2 know when its time. As of now enjoy her company / friendship.
2007-01-25 16:41:56 · answer #3 · answered by ndeepuachari 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how are you going to be sorry for some thing you probably did yet you do not recognize what that is. don't be stupid! To be really sorry, you should understand what you're sorry for. Ask her. If she received't allow you to recognize what's the count number, a minimum of you tried. the challenge lays consisting of her. Who is conscious, perhaps in some days or some weeks she will frame of mind you and jointly you'd be able to artwork issues out. provide it time.
2016-12-03 01:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by lemanski 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well my dear kid you are wrong from the bigening. You called her, your friend and don't know about her family even her likings. And what is shyaari. The correct word in Urdu language is Shayari and it means poetry in English. Shayari means to say or write shere ( what you called lion in Hindi ).Shayari could be of varity. It could be as deep as endless ocean and as cheap as you often read it on auto rixaw or tempo. Shayari is a hoby, a liking for us and for the person who are like us. It is not for every one going on the road. Shayari means Mirza Galib. Have you ever listen or read about Meer-taki-Meer. These are like Willium Shekspear in English and The Kalidas in Sanskrit.
Well what hapened so hapened now from here on you try to enlarge your immage by your serious efforts to improve your study and think seriously about your carrior and about your future. It is sear waste of your pracious time thinking about the other persons, why they are not according to your mood, according to your expectation. It is the time to make yourself so high that others will ask you what you like. See this share : Khudi ko kar buland itna, ki har tahareer se pahle, khuda bande se khud puchhe,bataa teri raja kya hai. Means do not asked any thing even from the God, but make your self so potant that God himself ask you about what you like. I tell you kid, once i was the master of this game. Well think what does "game" means here.
2007-01-25 09:20:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey u r not wrong in any way yaar & so is she. this just a petty problem. so don't break ur heads 4 such a small thing. she is probably upset now but will definately get it right when she is out of that "oh-mom-saw-my-msg" phase...just give a lil time she will only realize. these things r bound 2 happen b/w freinds & that's wat makes friendship strong!
p.s. i feel sad abt ur car thing dude, b calm, don't get so tensed.
2007-01-25 20:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by Angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she probably got freaked out cause it was romantic. maybe she just doesnt want to go there with u and didnt understand why u sent that to her. i would call her and tell her that u just wanted to let her know how good of a friend she is to u and u didnt mean to cause any trouble.
2007-01-25 07:53:08 · answer #7 · answered by Abby 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey u took anti advantage of friendship , so face the music
2007-01-25 06:47:21 · answer #8 · answered by man_red58 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you did nothin wrong. she seems like she was overreacting. she should tell her mom that you guys are just friend and nothing else.(this is how my dad and mom is, they like to check my phone but i tell them to chill cause they are just friends.) just try to talk with her and let her know that you didn't mean anything but friends.you seem like a pretty cool friend.
2007-01-25 07:07:47 · answer #9 · answered by petry 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girls are a bit sensitive and centimental. so she told u like this.
u have no fault in this case.
one solution is there that is from now tell the girl to be your friend *** sister
2007-01-25 17:36:44 · answer #10 · answered by RIMPS 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋