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i need tips of giving the best blow jobs and hand jobs to my man. what are some good, unexpected places to give a handjob and what are some great tips. and plz i just need to know what are the dos and don'ts.

i am sorry to ask in this way, but i seriously need tips. our sex life is getting boring..plzz help me...if u don't want to answer, then don't...

2007-01-25 06:42:02 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

9 answers

Here are some tips to give your guy a ******* that he will brag about to his friends. As for unexpected places to give him a *******, anywhere other than the bedroom. I have given my boyfriend (now husband) a ******** while driving, while he talked on the phone, while he watched football, and in a park during the afternoon behind some bushes. The excitement of getting caught was amazing and thank God we didn't get caught. Don't flirt with him or tell him it's coming, just reach over and unzip his pants. Go for it!

The very first thing, and the very biggest thing, is to be into it. Sounds like you are so it shouldn't be a problem. Enjoy what you are doing, and be excited about it. Everyone wants to think that the things that turn them on turn other people on too. The wrong way would be to give the guy the idea that you don’t like to do it, then he feels like it is bad, or dirty, and no one likes that kind of judgment.

Just before you start, put on a fresh coat of lipstick, let your guy watch you do this. The anticipation kills him.

Get down on your knees in front of him, whether he is standing or sitting – unless you are in a car or something that would prevent that. Every guy LOVES seeing their girl on her knees for them.

Get him warmed up by rubbing him over and between your boobs, while you tell him how excited you are to be doing what you are doing and how much you are looking forward to what is coming next. You can also use your hair brushed lightly over him.

I start with his balls. Softly run your nails over them. Lick them, and suck one and then the other into your mouth and flick your tongue over it... once when you are getting started, and then later when you need to take a bit of a break from the “main event;” be gentle... Keep them cupped in your hand after you have moved on to other things, and softly kneed them, be gentle, and don’t tug.

I am sure that a soft tongue feels wonderful on a genital. Lick up and down, and make sure to lick the underside, and top of the tip... get everything nice and wet before it even goes inside your mouth.

When you are ready to take it inside the first time, close your lips softly, and push them against him so that he pushes your lips open around him as he slides inside. It reminds him of pushing in other lips.

As you get started on the main event, ask him to hold your hair out of your face. This serves two purposes – first it keeps your hair out of your face, and mouth (always a good thing) and it gives him permission to put his hands on your head and provide you with some guidance (which most guys are unfortunately too timid to provide without permission). Be prepared that he will start to guide your head with his hands – and that is a good thing, he knows what he likes best – and that as he becomes more and more excited, he will provide more and more guidance... follow his lead unless it gets painful for you. TRUST me – guys – all guys, even the ones who don’t want to, LOVE that.

When you take him into your mouth, hold him inside and hum softly while he is pressed into your throat.

Try to keep eye contact with your guy. It won’t be possible all of the time, but look up at him as much as is convenient for you.

There is always the question about should I swallow when he cums. Swallowing is the difference between a happy guy and a guy who brags to his friends. It is in your mouth already, it might as well slip down your throat. Personally that is my favorite part, it feels so sexy, warm, and so yummy – and guys LOVE it. Of course – they sometimes like to go other places as well – so be prepared for that, on your face, or boobs – but wherever it ends up smile, giggle and enjoy it. Remember to at least act like it is as exciting to you as it is for him. Nothing will ruin a good buzz like judgment, so don’t ruin it at this point after all this work.

Of course – like anything else make sure that you are playing safely. Use a condom if you don’t know that the guy is clean. On the plus side, there is NO way that you can get pregnant from it.

2007-01-26 05:31:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Be adventurous, try new things even if you're not all that crazy about it. Ask him what he likes and try to do that for him. Talk about your fantasies. He's the only that can tell you what works for him. My bf and I would go to the love stop type stores and just see what they have, if there was something that looked like fun we'd give it a try. Ohhh and body paints are fun. Get him to do the driving when you go out and give him a surprise blow while he's in the car with you, guaranteed he'll pull over and let you finish. Watch pornos together, lots of good tips in those. Ever read Cosmo? They always have tonnes of tips in their mag. Check it online: http://love.ivillage.com/
The both you just have to have fun with it, be open minded with each other.

2007-01-25 06:51:03 · answer #2 · answered by JD 6 · 0 0

Do it somewhere risky, like in a park or other public place. Keep things fresh, and don't do the same things in the same place over and over. Take him to a movie and while there, let your hands wander. The dressing room in a department store is always a good place.

2007-01-25 06:49:05 · answer #3 · answered by Rod Rod Go 6 · 0 0

first and foremost, dont drag your teeth. Guys do like the testicles to be played with very easily and sucked on. My guy likes his V area which is pretty much is groin area to be licked on and kissed on. When you giving him pleasure look up at him, run your hand up his chest, ask him very nicely if you can give him pleasure. Make sure you say please and add a few baby's in there . Make it like hes in charge of you and that he can tell you what to do. Also with hand jos, I use some lotion and rub it on the top of the head, they're very sensitive up there. Good Luck!

2007-01-25 06:48:38 · answer #4 · answered by jaide1108 2 · 1 0

try something different like give him a hand job while driving. Ask him his favourite fantasy and give it to him. Just go down on him when the mood hits you and swallow.

2007-01-25 07:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by dasalsman 2 · 0 0

I know for me that it's not just the act of oral sex, but the way she looks while doing it. The sexy innocent look that makes you just drool. Taking control of his member like he doesn't own it, but it's yours. Temperature, hot then cold. Such as lick and then blow on where you licked. Lay it on your tongue!

2007-01-25 06:51:37 · answer #6 · answered by chapman_red 2 · 0 0

Well....
I'll let you know what I love.....
When your toungue would go under the foreskin massaging the inside of the penis. A good old teabagging gives me chills also.

2007-01-25 06:47:22 · answer #7 · answered by Gatumadre!! 1 · 0 0

Manual Sex
Want to be more confident when you, er, take matters into your own hands? These "manual sex" techniques (my editor won't let me say hand job) will make him want to give you a round of applause - not to mention return the favor.
Pick Your Position

Are you left-handed or right-handed? Which is your "best" side? All too often, women try to deliver the goods in a position that feels uncomfortable or unnatural. You are allowed to move, you know! Simply roll over on top of him or straddle his lap, plant a long, slow, delicious kiss, then climb off to the side that suits you. Don't be scared to deviate from the usual side-by-side position either. Try him standing in front of you while you sit on the edge of a bed or lie on your back while he hovers above you straddling your tummy.
Use the Slippery Stuff

Women have (rather handy) built-in lubrication systems, but men don't. So when they masturbate, they use lubrication such as moisturizing lotion. A dry penis is a sensitive one; it likes gentle stroking. Sliding your hand up and down the shaft - the standard male masturbation technique - can feel more like a vicious yank than an erotic escapade when done without lube. Saliva is better than nothing, but clever girls come prepared with good-quality personal lubricant. He'll be pleased, not turned off, when he sees the tube, so don't feel remotely embarrassed squeezing some into your palm. But don't use too much; being too generous removes friction entirely.
Get a Grip

Sexperts worldwide dispense the same advice on this one: Women need to be touched softer and slower; men need to be touched harder and faster. Lots of women make the mistake of being scared of his most prized part. Holding it between finger and thumb like it's made of spun glass isn't sexy - it makes him think you don't really want to touch it. Instead, take a good, firm hold and move into a well-practiced, self-assured technique.
Practice Until You're a Pro

Simply read up about hand-job techniques, and you're liable to give up before you've even started - it sounds like reinventing the Rubik's Cube! Try some moves out, however, and you soon realize it's more like connecting the dots. Keen to impress but don't want to look like a twit in front of your new lover? Practice on a prop, such as a curtain rod or a carrot. This is the basic motion you need to master: slide up, circle, slide down the other side. More specifically, grasp your hand firmly around the base of the penis, and slide it upward until it reaches the head. Once you're there, pause - and rub your palm over the head in small, slow, sexy circles. Next, let your hand drop naturally down the other side of the penis, grasping the shaft until you're back to base camp again, but on the opposite side with your hand facing the opposite way. Do that 10 times, with each motion lasting 10 seconds, then add one quick, firm, up-and-down pump stroke. Repeat that cycle over and over, each time adding an extra up and down. But decrease the number of pumps if he's dangerously close to losing it (and you've got other plans on how to use that erection!).
Employ Backup

If you only use your hands, you risk having to dispense the longest hand job in the entire world due to overstimulation. No matter how deft and clever your handiwork, most men enjoy (often need) extra stimulation to intensify and speed up the process of orgasm. So while one hand is working on his penis, use the other to cradle his testicles or stroke a nipple. Use your tongue on his testicles or nibble his neck, the inside of his thighs and his nipples. Try holding one hand in an L position firmly at the base of his penis, pulling the skin back from the base (in the direction of his pelvis). Not only does it make him look bigger, but it also heightens sensitivity.
Use Props

If you and your guy are adventurous types (and even if you're not!), try using a small, cylindrical vibrator called a wand vibrator in addition to your hands. Hold it on his testicles or perineum (the smooth, hairless bit between his anus and testicles), or use it to play around the opening of his anus. Alternatively, grab a silk scarf or a strand of beads (make sure there aren't any rough edges first), wrap it around your hand or the shaft of his penis and slide it up and down the shaft and over the head.
Give Him the Finger

This one comes with a warning: Inserting a finger into his rectum during a hand job, usually just before orgasm, will either make him love you forever or decide you're completely crazy. How to find out his response ahead of time? Simply ask him if he'd like to try it, or start playing around the rim of his anus and gauge his reaction. If he seems nervous - and you feel brave - tell him he could be in for the orgasm of his life. Like the clitoris, the root of the penis extends a few inches into his body. Stimulating the perineum or anus massages the inner section - but the true pleasure spot lies about three inches in. This is the prostate gland - nicknamed the male G-spot. To find it (and map its position for future reference), get him to lie on his back as you gently insert your very well lubricated index finger, palm up, about three-quarters of the way in. Aim toward his navel, then curve your finger in a "come here" gesture.

2007-01-25 06:48:52 · answer #8 · answered by shae 6 · 0 0

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2007-01-25 06:50:58 · answer #9 · answered by nodumgys 7 · 0 0

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