Help????????

Question

I think the reason guys dont like me is

Im short
I have brown hair
brown eyes


am i not pretty, just because in not blonde?

Answer 1

No, people like all sorts of people, what you might think is not attractive someone else will. I've liked guys for their smile or the way they talk and they weren't GQ models. I used to think like you and that just led to me sleeping with every guy who payed attention to me, because then I felt I was pretty enough for someone to like me. Mistake. I had low self esteem, always wanted to look like someone else. I didn't know how to get self esteem until finally I accepted that it's ok to be me. I finally learned just be who you are. If you worry about not being attractive you will look insecure and that's what'll turn people off, not what you look like. The most popular & well liked girl in my highschool was overweight and no beauty queen, she just had a great personality. Do the best with what you've got but you can't beat yourself up for not looking like some other girl because you never will look like someone else. I worried so much about what I looked like that when I didn't feel pretty I thought everyone was looking at me and that they would criticize me. That's a waste of time and energy and you'll only bring yourself down. Like what you are!

Answer 2

Short is relative and as far as brown hair and brown eyes are concerned I don't see what the problem is. Don't compare yourself to anyone but yourself. I would like to the 6' 2" and have a sick pack and hard abs and even though I work out at a gym, it just is not going to happen. It is the cards we are dealt and we have to find the inner beauty in ourselves and then show it off in how we carry ourselves and greet the world with a smile and an attractiveness that make heads turn. It will happen to you.

Answer 3

No thats not it at all! Your crazy to think that nobody likes you! Just think if you looked like most of the people do today, than you are just one more person that makes the world today boring! You should be proud of who you are and how you look. And if no guy likes you for the way you are then you don't deserve him! And just think maybe in a couple of months just say you are the most prettiest thing that walked the streets and all the guys that didn't like you liked you? They will learn. And you can just strut the street and laugh and make them miss what they could've had!

Answer 4

I'm a blonde.. and if it helps, I changed my hair color to a darker color. . Blonde isn't the BEST you know..

There are tons of girls with brown hair and brown eyes and I'm sure there are even tons of short ones.. so . . don't think just because you have those qualities that you aren't pretty. . if that were true.. there would be a lot of single, lonely women around here . .

Answer 5

I know you don't believe that for a minute.
You are discribing half the female population including me, and let me tell you something in my teenage years I have broken quite a few hearts. Now I am married and can only break my husbands heart but just be happy with who you are and love yourself believe it or not, how you feel about yourself reflects onto people.
Love yourself honey. Be happy of what you have and short with brown hair and brown eyes already tell me, you are adorable.

Answer 6

No..that has nothing to do with it. Maybe you do not have a lot of self confidence. That could be unattractive to guys. Be proud of your brown hair and eyes. And if a person really likes you, they dont wind up loving you because of the color of your hair, they love you for the person you are.

Answer 7

not every guy is attracted to tall blondes.
guys who are smart will look for more than just those few things in a girl.
what's wrong with brown hair and brown eyes? nothing.
sometimes what we think of ourselves is projected to people, so you really need to decide that you are a really great girl Inside and out. be confident in that and soon guys will realize that you are a great person.

Answer 8

Honey, you need to forget about the blonde comnparrisons ok. You are who you are. You need to be accepting of yourself, for all that you are and acknowledge to yourself that your fullly capable of being loved. So lean to love yourself and your self confidence will blossom, and don't be affraid to approach guys.

By the way, I've always preferred brunettes or brown haired gals to blondes.

Answer 9

I use to feel just like you, because I am short, wear glasses, and have small breast, but I got the hell over because if they don't want me for me then **** them, but once I started getting that mentality, the men were coming to me left and right!! Now I have a boyfriend, and we have been together 4 31/2 years. So never think it's you, it's them

Answer 10

Actually you sound attractive to me, Blondes are not the only women who can be pretty. There is definately someone out there for you, you just need to be patient.