Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

my husband all of a sudden thinks that i am cheating on him hes asking me all these stupid questions as to what i do when hes at work checking our messages in our voicemail to see if any guy has called me.he'll call me from work and ask me who iv'e been talking to saying he has called me a number of times and that he gets the busy signal when i know this isn't true because even if i had been on the phone i would have niticed his call we have two lines.i love my husband with all my heart and on anything that is holly a swear i have never cheated on him .he is trippin he is 9 years older than me sometimes when we first got married he use to tell me that his only fear was since i was younger than him i would leave him for some one younger once he got older when i married him i knew everything about him incliding his age and i dont care how old he his i never have i love him with all my heart we have 2 kids together.what should i do

2007-01-25 07:22:37 · 10 answers · asked by jayjay 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:22:15 · 11 answers · asked by kole 1 in Friends

2007-01-25 07:21:22 · 3 answers · asked by MODel-08 1 in Friends

lot guys ask me out and we been together for 1 or 2 day and i dump them and i think i am lebio tell me.

2007-01-25 07:21:20 · 7 answers · asked by Joker 1 in Singles & Dating

my girl friend is a half asian girl, nice and smart, not dumb at all and does not fall in the category of a submissive person.
anyway shes sort of with this white dude from ..some town.
they mail each other every christmas, silly stuff like bears and books and food. one time his dad found out and he said "you should be careful of what you receive in the mail, they check it" and he had the audcity to tell her this and now shes very hurt.
anyway she lives across the universe from him, theyre both of the same age too (mid 20s).
i needed to ask this so she'll stop asking me, and i really have no idea what advise to give.
does his dad have issues w/ asian girls being w/ his son? lets just say shes from thailand (like a place where you easily get stereotyped). but he doesnt even have a job, and theyve known each other for half a decade.(purely platonic).

2007-01-25 07:20:49 · 6 answers · asked by tammy a 2 in Family

My guy and I were togther for a few weeks, then I had to move to Hawaii. I've been gone a month and have one more month till I go back. We haven't been able to talk very much lately. I want to keep our fun, flirtly connection. I will also be gone for Valentine's day. I don't know what to do rigth now (besides myspace)

2007-01-25 07:20:27 · 13 answers · asked by strwbryshortkook 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 07:20:05 · 10 answers · asked by ellee C 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bf who I've been with for about 5 years. Problem is, I don't think he will ever commit. I don't want to push him into it, but I think we have been through enough to actually be considered "married". He also treats me like some sort of "trophy" girl. Also, the fact that he would share me with other people makes me think that he is not with me for the right reasons. Don't get me wrong, I love the guy and all, I would just like an outside opinion. Another thing is--I have 2 children from a previous marriage that he has taken on as his own. Why do you think he is with me and should I stay in this and why?

2007-01-25 07:19:38 · 8 answers · asked by BRIDGIE74 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

as mine is the best cook

2007-01-25 07:19:38 · 10 answers · asked by Diddley 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

you date someone in the workplace? What I mean is I dated this guy for a few months over the summer,things didnt work out but we are still friendly.Then last week I went out with another guy I work with while we all work at the same place it is really big so they dont know eachother.By chance a few days later they were both at a bar and someone mentioned to the new guy that I had dated the other one.Now I have not heard from him all week, would this be enough reason to turn a guy off?I know we both had a great time that night & he had said he definatly wanted to see me again.

2007-01-25 07:19:35 · 4 answers · asked by nyc88m 1 in Singles & Dating

There is somethings not even my best friend from grade school knows about, and they're not bad things. I just don't like sharing things with people as much as other people do. I mean, there are some people who can tell you everything about themselves without hesitation and I am NOT even close to being like that. I don't think it's bad for me to be as secretive as I am, it's not like I am hiding anything dangerous. I just feel weird sharing so much with other people, it bugs me and then when I do share information about me with them I start drifting away from them. So do you think it's bad for me to be so secretive?

2007-01-25 07:19:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-25 07:17:19 · 24 answers · asked by Ginagee 2 in Family

ok, i just broke up w/ my bf 2day. now hes telling everyone that he dumped me, that he was happy, (hes not, i saw his face, he looked like he was about to cry, and about to beat the crap out of me) and that crap. what are your sayings that would help me through this, and about finding another guy? stuff like that...?

2007-01-25 07:17:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need tips on this one.

2007-01-25 07:17:08 · 6 answers · asked by Baby Doll 3 in Singles & Dating

I just laid a fat terd that looks exactly like the space shuttle....should I call Nasa or Ripleys ????

2007-01-25 07:16:52 · 7 answers · asked by Turc 2 1 in Singles & Dating

About 3 months ago my wife talked me into a 3 some with her and her friend ( it didn't take alot of persuading), after a few drinks at our place we became intimate, due to our intoxicated state we did not use protection, now both my wife and her friend are pregnant, I take full responsability for my actions and want to provide for my children, however my wife is filling for a divorce and wants nothing to do with her friend or her friends baby, I believe that it was all 3 of us who willingly went into this encounter and we should deal with it as a team.
Do you think I should divorce my wife and marry her friend, we are campatable and I think it could work.
Or do you think that I should not grant my wife a divorce and make her face the reality of the situation she helped create.
either way I will do my best to be a father to my yet unborn children

2007-01-25 07:16:48 · 35 answers · asked by maxexposure2003 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex sort of broke-up with me thru text last Christmas. I sort of saw it coming and sort of set the stage for it. I cried, I mourned, didnt answer his calls or messages, but a couple of days ago he ym-ed me and we talked. The following day we decided to meet up to make our break-up formal. The break-up sex was the best sex I ever had with him. We again talked the following day (which is today). We act as if we're still together we say we still love each other but when I remind him that he broke up with me, he confirms it and somehow it kind of hurts cuz he isnt taking it back. He wants us to be friends but I dont know if im ok with that. I dunno if we should be friends.. I still hate him for breaking up with me although I know I would've... I've always felt he didnt love me enough... Now that he's more open than ever, now I realize his sincerity and his love (before)... but he's not my boyfriend anymore... Should I stay friends with him? Should we still communicate?

2007-01-25 07:16:15 · 27 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 07:16:06 · 1 answers · asked by Rayslittlegurl 3 in Family

I have been married 12 years and me and my husband dont communicate and his step kids dont treat me very nice. He is verbably abuseive. But Im to kind hearted to know what is right to do. I want honesty from you all please my heart needs it.

2007-01-25 07:15:26 · 2 answers · asked by lori 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:15:07 · 13 answers · asked by Ginagee 2 in Family

2007-01-25 07:14:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This person was not attracted (preferred others) to me for many years, now they say he says he is. Do I believe him?

2007-01-25 07:14:01 · 7 answers · asked by Cheryl F 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am PMS-ing today and as a result I feel lonely and insecure. Could someone say something to me that would cheer me up a little bit? Please?

2007-01-25 07:13:11 · 12 answers · asked by Elzbieta Trzeciak 1 in Friends

I have dark blonde hair, hazel eyes. I go to church 3 times a week. But I can't find a guy that will love me for who I am.

2007-01-25 07:12:47 · 64 answers · asked by Chas 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok,,, so i grew up always getting everything i wanted and now I am having problems because I expect the same thing from my boyfriend of a year. If everything doesn't go my way, he pays for it majorly. Does anyone have any suggestions on how can i stop being like this? or can anyone relate?

2007-01-25 07:12:45 · 85 answers · asked by SweetP~ 1 in Singles & Dating

Obviously, it's embarassing, especiallywhen I bring girls over. I mean, he'll try to cover himself when he sees someone else in the house, but regardless it's fairly uncomfortable

2007-01-25 07:12:41 · 27 answers · asked by Beastmaster 1 in Family

Well, I woke up to find I was being attacked by a fist!! It kept hitting me in my nose and poking me in the tongue, when I managed to focus my eyes properly, I realised that the hand was attached to my own arm!! It was me punching myself, I knew it was my hand because of the big hairy wart on my finger and the strong stench of kippers. Anyway i went downstairs to tell mother and she said i had a rare disease called involuntary wristitis and she called an ambulance straight away. Im in hospital at the moment and for some strange reason they have re-named me to ' Nil - By - Mouth ' !!!!! I can see it at the end of the bed.Whats wrong with rachel heather fletcher? Anway has anyone else had this disease? sent

2007-01-25 07:12:31 · 23 answers · asked by fletch 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do not want him back, he was no good for me.. total LOOSER! But when we kissed ..OMG I felt something I never felt before, and SEX.....WOW..spank me choke me pull my hair! He knew what to do! How do I replace that..never met anyone that could make me feel the way he did! Was it love? Please help......!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-25 07:11:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you see i am adopted and i was abused and i get asked the same stupid questions all the time.. like, Where are your birth-parents?, Do you do drugs?, and Where you abused?, Did your parents do durgs?
well i have always answered them with no's or yes's or i don' know's
i don't know what else to say
help

2007-01-25 07:11:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been custodial parent for my son since age 3. I provided sole care, medical, dental, etc. He graduated HS in May 2006, at which time his mother quit paying child support. As he lives with me(age 18) I still pay medical, dental, college tuition, car ins. and provide him room and board. The ex says her son is an adult and she isn't paying for anything outside of half his tuition. Can she just stop paying her child support if he is a full time student still living with me? She makes (and always made)a lot more money than me and paid WAY under the usual child support as I had an inexpensive lawyer at the time and she still lived in the same state. She moved to TX a year after the divorce and I and my son still live in MO.

2007-01-25 07:10:11 · 12 answers · asked by mdoddinkc 1 in Marriage & Divorce