Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I have trouble staying focused when I'm in a conversation with my girlfriend. She just seems to go off a 1,000 miles an hour and I can't keep up with her. When she tells a story, she gives me ALL the details. As a result, I forget the main point sometimes because I'm busy trying to follow her lengthy explanation. As a result, she gets frustrated when I ask her something sometimes because she'll remind me how she already told me, etc, etc. Is there something wrong with me? I really want to listen to her and be receptive, but she sure doesn't make it very easy. Maybe, I'm being selfish. I don't know.

2007-01-25 07:52:28 · 6 answers · asked by Just 1 Good Guy 1 in Singles & Dating

If you think you know what is love, please tellme.

2007-01-25 07:51:32 · 4 answers · asked by Alexis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

in heaven the person they love or ti be a player? when i say dominant gene i mean are hot girls more important to them then the person they love lyk they act so? and if tht is true then why don't all of them just become like hugh hefenr? they're SOOO confusing...they wanna be playboys but they still settle...

is it cuz they want some1 to cook and clean for them or they just feel lonely...or they just want their cake and think they can eat it too?

and i've heard many guys say they'd cheat if the other 'slut' started it 1st? is it true or all guys? wud they all just have no self-control?

if all guys r like this why don't they just stop dating girls do they just wanna be hurtful ( i mean no girl wants to b w/ sum1 who dioesn't really want her is it just for sex they stay?

2007-01-25 07:51:01 · 1 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Singles & Dating

I just recieved a RHW sex swing I had bought on eBay. If some one else has one. Where do you have it hanging?
My boyfriend will be stopping by tonight I would like to have it hung, and be in it. As a surprise.
I already bought the beer, got some good lighting. And the swing is the best thing I have ever seen. It is my first swing. And looks so comfortable. I can not wait. It looks so much better than the pictures they have on eBay.
I just do not know where to hang it. I only want to put one hole in my ceiling for the eyebolt.

2007-01-25 07:50:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What were some of the unanticipated problems that you had to deal with? Your experiences working with Immigration and attorneys? Department of Homeland Security? Other?

2007-01-25 07:50:12 · 8 answers · asked by David C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im really a shy person and people mistake that for snobiness. im really not snoby i just find it hard to be myself around other people, because i dont want them to make fun of me. I need some tips on how to be more outgoing. Thanks everyone.

2007-01-25 07:50:09 · 10 answers · asked by morenita12162 2 in Friends

u mite seem that this is crazzyy but i just wanted to know how do u kiss your girlfriend neck with out makking marks for her parents to see? what if she doesn't like it see because it's my first time doing something like this hheellpp please. SO HOW TO KISS HER ON HER NECK WITHOUT LEAVING MARKS BE SPECIFIC PLEASE.

2007-01-25 07:49:51 · 11 answers · asked by dear tha unknown pt2 2 in Singles & Dating

i have only slept with 1 black guy so cant really say if they are better than the white fella's in bed or not but in my case {im white by the way}without doubt the best sex id ever had, and it wasnt just because he had a better body and was bigger downstairs than the white men ive been with { even though he was to be honest} but he had all the right moves too, just wondering if any of you have come to the same conclusion as me that once u go black u never go back?

2007-01-25 07:49:03 · 14 answers · asked by josephine_uk 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do men consider some women to be hot and some to be cute?

Which is better?

2007-01-25 07:48:54 · 12 answers · asked by sylvia62002 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend and my girlfriend are always laughing and grtting along. which is good, but my friend always flirts with her. He clearly dosent want us going out, and he has even told me that. i asked him to stop like, 3 times, but he wont listen. i got advice from my other friend, and he said i have to deal with it. and i know i should, and that i have to, but i cant. i need a good way to disiplene myself so i can learn not to care. plese help.

2007-01-25 07:48:49 · 3 answers · asked by jcscarlett10 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of three and a wife. I work 6 days a week, 10 hours each day. I cook dinner for us every night. Do all my household duties after work. On Friday nights, I like to unwind. I go to a local bar with a few friends, have drinks and shots and pretty much dance all night. Go home, sleep it off, and continue to be a mom and wife. All my bills are paid, my kids are well taken care of and life is good. I don't use drugs or get thrown in jail. Is it wrong for me to be un-winding like this every Friday night? Sometimes my husband tried to make me feel guilty.

2007-01-25 07:48:22 · 10 answers · asked by punky brewster 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Are you a witness that this is true because it is the case with you and your mom? If so, please share. I didn't know as a child this was me and my mom, but looking back it always has been. How do you deal with this? I used to go against my mom but I've learned it does no good, only causes more trouble.

2007-01-25 07:48:05 · 19 answers · asked by SuperSkinny 3 in Family

Guy in my class and church has made nasty sexual comments to me before, and some vulgar gestures. But I don't care if what he does toward me is perverted or not anymore. I want him to completely leave me alone no matter what. I don't want him talking to me, looking at me, anything - no communication whatsoever. I've tried to get him to understand this in the past, I've given him the silent treatment for over a year, ignored him, told him to stop (I even told him to get out of my life a couple of times). And sometimes he does stuff to get my attention, but I ignore him. He will stop at nothing. How can I get him to leave me alone for good and never communicate with me at all? Should I just tell him? I'm really tired of all his harassment!

2007-01-25 07:47:32 · 3 answers · asked by 77684 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and I are coming up on our three year anniversary and I want to give him a strip show because it is totally unlike me. I think it would be the perfect gift to him. Since we had our baby ten months ago we hardly ever make love and when we do its the same old quick thing because our daughter always interrupts. But one evening I'm going to get a sitter and have a sexy evening at home with him. The only problem is I think I'll feel stupid doing a strip tease for him because I feel like he'll be laughing in his head at me and not find it sexy but funny. But, I want him to desire me and not just think of me as the mother of his child. He tells me everyday how beautiful I am but I just can't seem to relax and let it all go when it comes to this. How do I seduce him and feel sexy and not stupid while doing it? I even bought a dvd on how to dance and even have music but I'm scared he'll be laughing and not find it sexy but funny! Any suggestions?

2007-01-25 07:47:13 · 4 answers · asked by LKJ 2 in Marriage & Divorce

in the struggle the man drop the nife, the kid who is also in the room pick up the nife and after year of getting abuse and seeing his mother get abuse. He decide to stab his farther he goes at him with the nife and the mother gets in the way and he kills her.would he go to jail or would the dad.

2007-01-25 07:46:38 · 10 answers · asked by carlos m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, my bf and i work at the same place. and everyone knows we're together. why do the guys i work with still hit on me? 4 of the guys were in the shop and i had to go get a serial number to order a new part for our core drill anyways, when i went out there one of the guys was like "go change your clothes, you work here with 9 other guys and you know better than to wear that around us guys, next time just come out in a bikini" i was wearing a tee shirt and jeans with a zip up hoodie over it. i guess my question is why do our co-workers hit on me when they know i have a bf? and they know him at that.

2007-01-25 07:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband and I dated for 4 yrs. before we got married - we always seemed to fight a lot. Now we have been married for 2 years and have a 1 year old son who we both adore. Anyhow, we are still fighting a lot. We are both over the age of 24. It seems like we have no respect for eachother. We call eachother awful names and yell sometimes in front of our son. Everytime we have a big fight, which is once or twice a week, one of us swears we are going to find someone else and get a divorce. I am constently trying to figure out where me and my son will live, how I will support him if I did leave, but I only think this way if we are fighting. We have done couseling and it just didn't work well. We always resort to how we have always fought - shouting, yelling, name calling, swearing - I hate it. What should I do? Leave for good? Please help!

2007-01-25 07:46:11 · 12 answers · asked by Hannah M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

He 'll come back on the next day instead. How do you feel if you were me, and with your neighbours look at you strangely, as if your husband doesn't love you anymore?

2007-01-25 07:46:10 · 5 answers · asked by lily on pool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:45:11 · 2 answers · asked by Blue eyed girl 2 in Singles & Dating

Its almost like a cult mentality!!! I've lived in Europe, Australia and Canada and people in those places have a "if it happens great, if not o'well". Here in America its like marriage/kids by 27 or all is lost. Why do Americans take marriage and procreation so seriously?

2007-01-25 07:45:04 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I just recieved a RHW sex swing I had bought on eBay. If some one else has one. Where do you have it hanging?
My boyfriend will be stopping by tonight I would like to have it hung, and be in it. As a surprise.
I already bought the beer, got some good lighting. And the swing is the best thing I have ever seen. It is my first swing. And looks so comfortable. I can not wait. It looks so much better than the pictures they have on eBay.
I just do not know where to hang it. I only want to put one hole in my ceiling for the eyebolt.

2007-01-25 07:43:44 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys like it when girls make the first move? should i ask him out first?

2007-01-25 07:42:17 · 4 answers · asked by Fake Your Death 3 in Singles & Dating

Little Dakota Fanning in a movie with her in a rape scene?
Do they not realize the pedephiles & rapists this will attract & possibly motivate to commit more acts against children or otherwise?? Sick!!

2007-01-25 07:42:10 · 3 answers · asked by COblonde 3 in Family

2007-01-25 07:41:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

was that the best thing to do or not?!?

2007-01-25 07:41:16 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he is so kind and i think he loves me. but i m not sure about myself.

2007-01-25 07:41:15 · 18 answers · asked by silver needs you 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a girlfriend, having problems with her husband, she hasn't confided in me yet but I think she is having an affair with a younger man, I met while her and I were at lunch. Her answer for everything is lets go have a drink and talk, but we do talk and it does no good at all. Need some good advice to give her. I have been her friend for 11 years but its tiring to try to help but nothing ever changes

2007-01-25 07:38:52 · 17 answers · asked by Cute Stuff 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:38:04 · 14 answers · asked by Alexis 1 in Singles & Dating

Im a 21 yr old female. I have a 3 year old daughter who i had at 18. I love my daughter but sometimes i regret that i made the choice of having her and i feel terrible for feeling that way. Her dad went to jail when she was 6 months and he will be there for 12 years. I am a secretary me and my bf just got an apt together. People tell me im beautiful but i know that im not anymore. I feel old and im often jealous of other girls my age that are in college and having fun. I try to tell myself that i made the choice to have a baby so i cant be mad at anyone but myself. I feel like my life was supposed to be so much better. I feel so old and done for. I mean my job is okay and i love my bf ( who is 23 with no child) he loves me very much but sometimes i feel like one day hes gonna wake up and realize he can do better and get a girl with no baggage. I use to be so confident i really dont know how this happen to me. What could have caused this.

2007-01-25 07:37:35 · 18 answers · asked by yesindeed 2 in Singles & Dating

when you were asked out by your girl or boyfriend, what was the question he or she asked you?

2007-01-25 07:37:09 · 17 answers · asked by zestful12 4 in Singles & Dating