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ok, my bf and i work at the same place. and everyone knows we're together. why do the guys i work with still hit on me? 4 of the guys were in the shop and i had to go get a serial number to order a new part for our core drill anyways, when i went out there one of the guys was like "go change your clothes, you work here with 9 other guys and you know better than to wear that around us guys, next time just come out in a bikini" i was wearing a tee shirt and jeans with a zip up hoodie over it. i guess my question is why do our co-workers hit on me when they know i have a bf? and they know him at that.

2007-01-25 07:46:33 · 6 answers · asked by Back*To*Me 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

well, it's not just co-workers though, my bf's friends do it too. like one of our friends stopped by today to pick something up from our boss (which is his best friends mom) and was hitting on me too. and he knows i'm with my bf.

2007-01-25 08:10:45 · update #1

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some guys are jerks and don't care about relationships...
it could be a test . your b/f is trying to find out how faithful and trusting you really are.

2007-01-25 07:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0 0

He was probably trying to show off for the other guys, what a d**k. Very grade school of him. I take it that he used a sarcastic tone when he said this. Boys will be boys, unfortunately. Try to ignore them. You're the only woman so they're competing for your attention and are most probably jealous of your boyfriend. Technically, I'll bet that a lot of what they say (including this comment) fall under the definition of sexual harassment. They're making you feel uncomfortable. I'd talk to my boss so he can call off the horn dogs.

2007-01-25 16:14:26 · answer #2 · answered by Loki 3 · 0 0

Its called sexual harassment. This is your job not your home; you get paid to do work not to entertain the guys. Tell you boss about what happened so that it doesn't continue in the future.

2007-01-25 15:56:01 · answer #3 · answered by Michael K 4 · 1 0

I hope you know that's sexual harassment and you should do soemthing about that. Talk to your manager/boss and file a complaint. Unless you actually like it, or something?

2007-01-25 16:06:38 · answer #4 · answered by kate 2 · 0 0

well hun most of us guys are just dogs! we can't help it!
i';m not making light of the issue, i'm just being honest

2007-01-25 15:56:21 · answer #5 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0 0

they do it because they know it makes you mad!! they find it funny to push your buttons sugar tell them to leave you alone or you'll get them fired!! that should have them leave you alone.
Wild Texas Cowgirl

2007-01-25 15:56:00 · answer #6 · answered by Fighting Irish Lass 3 · 0 0

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