Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

ok on the day before thanksgiving my sister was killed in a car accident on her way to work she left behind two kids the oldest child is 5 yyrs and the other 3yrs do you think it was ok for them not to go to there mother funeral and how to tell them there mother is dead they know but they dont understand the father is incarerated and basically they dont have know parents

2007-01-25 08:01:48 · 2 answers · asked by miss23red 1 in Family

There is this guy and I have known him for two years and liked him for two years the trouble is he isn't allowed to have a girl friend (we are well over 10 years old) Also there is a girl who just decided to like him this month and he puts his arm around her and tells her he likes HER!!! by the way did i tell you she has a boyfriend of her own! well today in school we where playing with this dough stuff and i had decided to give up and try to let him go but i had some of the dough and there was plenty of dough in the room but he wanted mine so he traped me in a corner and i turned around and he put his arms around me and i swear we stayed there for like 10 sec. and he kept flirting with me all day.

Do you have any advice what to do?

HELP!!!

2007-01-25 08:01:47 · 9 answers · asked by The one 2 in Singles & Dating

Today i Just found out that my boyfriend was in a gang but he tells my friend first before he tells me wat should i do?

2007-01-25 08:01:42 · 13 answers · asked by ~~Sexy Lady14~~ 1 in Singles & Dating

So, I have this friend, we have only been friends for about 4 months, but grew really close in that time, I confided in her that A friend that I have had for over 5 years and I were seriously talking about beginning a romantic relationship and asked her for advice on what I should do, I told her I was interested in the guy, was worried about our friendship, blah blah that kind of thing, Her advice was to go for it because he is a great guy, very handsome, has his life put together blah blah, about a week after I tell her this, she hooks up with him behind my back and then starts dating him. they both have apologized and would like to continue our friendship, but I feel they both have betrayed me, and thinking about them together makes me sick to my stomach. am I being immature, or am I justified in not forgiving them?

2007-01-25 08:01:12 · 43 answers · asked by braindeadbrilliance 2 in Friends

2007-01-25 08:00:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 08:00:26 · 49 answers · asked by tulip 4 in Singles & Dating

i really want to get noticed in school, exept the only problem is that, there are no cute guys in my school.....i do eveyrthing right, i joined three clubs at my school, and i even dress nice. clealry nobody gets turned on by a cute brunette.. what should i do......or am i going to far??

2007-01-25 07:59:51 · 4 answers · asked by kiwi 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a girl i realy like but she has a boyfriend and I get nervus when me and her talk what do I do?

2007-01-25 07:59:30 · 27 answers · asked by Royal_red_guard 1 in Singles & Dating

I think I like my step brother, I really like his personality and his look's but I know I shouln't be feeling like this because I am a good friend of his girlfriend and I am god mother of his daughter :s ..... and me feeling like this makes me feel so guilty for them two reasons. Plus I really think he likes me aswell :( ..... I dunno how I should feel about me feeling like this... what do you think?

By the way he is not really my step brother he is my dad's girlfriend's son.

2007-01-25 07:59:14 · 18 answers · asked by Dee 2 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that bothers me. And I don't really want to hurt her feelings.

2007-01-25 07:59:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How do you let go of something you loved with all of yourself and start over where you left off ehn it all began?
How do you fiond yourself again when you've losst that part of yourself that became that persons?

Can this kind of love happen more than once in a lifetime???

Please reflect as you see fit. . .please give as much of your own heart to your answer as possible.

Fory

2007-01-25 07:58:22 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I love when I hear all these people say "are you having kids"

Well I'll tell you all this:

1. firstly, mind your damn business
2. is your life so boring you worry about others lives
3. will you pay all my bills once the kid arrives
4. stop pretending kids will "make you happy" this simply isn't true at all.
5. don't preach to people about what to do with their lives.
6. misery loves company right?

thanks folks for some good responses.

2007-01-25 07:58:09 · 7 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:57:46 · 11 answers · asked by Fake Your Death 3 in Singles & Dating

im not ugly ...many ppl tell me to b a model ..so y cnt i get a boy. all my friends have them and have gone so far alrede nd ive done nothing ..im kinda shy nd im scared to talk to hopt guys b.c i think they will hate me nd think im ugly ...HELPPP!

2007-01-25 07:57:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boss is nasty and disgusting. Whenever one of his employees is late or calls off or doesn't something that he doesn't care for he puts a small amount of doo doo in with his pay check. Serveral employees have complained numerous times about this disgusting behavior but it falls on deaf ears. Management thinks that this is a good motivator to keep office morale up. This has never happened to me but several of my coworkers have opened up their pay checks only to be greated with a doo doo surprise. Is this right? Should my boss be allowed to put doo doo in our paychecks?? Help please!

2007-01-25 07:57:33 · 33 answers · asked by mamabag06 2 in Friends

i think she likes another dude that she always is talking to when we are on the phone and she always calls the idiotic freak of nature before she calls me. the guy propsed to her once but we're all only 13 and he is 14. the guy is a retard and he likes my girl and i think she likes him because, every time i say "i love you" to her she just goes "uh" but when he says it she says "i love you too". So what should i do.

2007-01-25 07:57:30 · 34 answers · asked by delta3835 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a question for the guys and girls of the ages15 to 30 only. What is the youngest/oldest person you ever dated?

2007-01-25 07:57:21 · 9 answers · asked by Yahoo Fanboy 1 in Singles & Dating

Do men really like it better when women play hard to get? For example when they don't call, when they end the conversation first, when they don't often return your calls and when they do return the phone calls they always end the conversation first? Another example is always being busy and acting indifferent when they do call, as if they could care less if the man calls them. Why do they like this so much, what makes the woman more attracive to the man when she does this? Do they really like the chase that much?

2007-01-25 07:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by Lady K 4 in Singles & Dating

I just recieved a RHW sex swing I had bought on eBay. If some one else has one. Where do you have it hanging?
My boyfriend will be stopping by tonight I would like to have it hung, and be in it. As a surprise.
I already bought the beer, got some good lighting. And the swing is the best thing I have ever seen. It is my first swing. And looks so comfortable. I can not wait. It looks so much better than the pictures they have on eBay.
I just do not know where to hang it. I only want to put one hole in my ceiling for the eyebolt.

2007-01-25 07:56:35 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

The floor fell out from under my feet when after two years of what I thought was a good relationship my boyfriend told me that he was seeing my close girlfriend ( I believe he put it as a “midlife” crisis). It suddenly made sense why she had been asking me so many questions about Bob and our relationship. Bob is forty-eight and she is thirty-six, which in his own words an ego-trip for him. I am Bob’s age and have no trouble being dateable if that would be what I want but ….. Cindy, who I have tried to mentor in the past, has had a drug issue and numerous affairs with men and as a result has a sexually transmitted disease (which makes it impossible in Bob’s eyes for there to be anything physical between them – and knowing Bob’s character, I believe him). She is getting help and told my boyfriend that she just wanted a “friend/maybe someday lover relationship”.
After not seeing each other for a period of time, Bob told me he loved me and couldn’t forget me but wanted to be emotionally supportive of her. So, I accepted their friendship for awhile even though needless to say, she and I have lost our friendship.

. But after time I came to be aware that I love him way too much and hurt over the fact that he continues to tell me that he wants us to be old together but still has the “attraction that he doesn’t understand for her”. She thinks that we are not seeing each other and because of the “friendship circle” of all of our friends that don’t support my continuing to let Bob hurt me, Bob and I agreed to keep our relationship a secret from the world until we knew exactly what we wanted (why hear the “I told you so”s?) Bob continues to lie to me and to her (because as he says -he doesn’t want to hurt either one of us and feels caught in between a cat fight). I know that the whole situation is very unhealthy and I ask myself why I still love him, but inexplicably I have fallen hard.

I finally told him that I couldn’t hurt any longer and that by making his choices he has made mine. He asked me for a week’s grace period for him to have time to tell her that he is still in love with me. I told him that after that time, if he didn’t tell her I would. The reason? I feel resentment toward them both…Her because of the deception and the fact that she tells Bob all the reasons why I’m bad for him. Him because I know in my heart he loves me but not enough. I know Bob won’t “ step-up”, the relationship is over. I need closure. She has told Bob that if he sees me it will be over with her. I hurt so much…. why should I let him be able to still look good in her eyes. I know it’s immature of me to want to strike back To have her hurt like I was when she went behind my back and asked him out in the first place?

Should I let it go and walk away?

2007-01-25 07:55:55 · 22 answers · asked by roxie 2 in Singles & Dating

Toooooo small

2007-01-25 07:55:47 · 13 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Friends

or maybe soulmates?

2007-01-25 07:55:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 07:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Singles & Dating

Why can't they just see what has to be done?
Why do women have to tell them what to do?
When they do not do the list at first why do they get mad when the list keeps getting longer and longer posted on the frig.

2007-01-25 07:54:43 · 8 answers · asked by jeeccentricx2 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am married to a wonderful man. I am very much in love but we have only been married a year. How do I keep from falling out of love and staying the way we are forever?

2007-01-25 07:54:34 · 13 answers · asked by mel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-25 07:54:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2 days ago i broke up with my boyfriend. and hes saying it was completely out of nowhere, but i gave some pretty strong hints for a week or so. then i regretted it and told him im rele rele sry..and he just told me to get a life and go to hell. and i apparently shouldnt plan on talking to me.
but like the thing is hes been talking like that about me and saying he hates me..but last summer when he broke up with me it was even more random and he gave absolutely no hints. like seriously..and all i ever did was ignore him!! i dont think he should be talking..rele. so now i dont wanna go back out with him. i just wanna be friends. what should i do if he doesnt even wanna talk to me..like uhh NICELYY???

2007-01-25 07:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 07:53:05 · 48 answers · asked by princess my 1 in Singles & Dating

My child has a birthday coming up and his father is in Mexico now. I would call him but I am afraid that his parents will answer and my Spanish is not the best unfortunately. I know some Spanish, I can pick up on some words but I can't speak it fluently. I sent him a letter written in Spanish ( translated via a computer program)a month ago and have not reiceved a letter back. He can speak English but I don't think he can write very well in it. Should I call him or should I write him a letter?

2007-01-25 07:52:59 · 5 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Family

perhaps you are more optomistic like I believe ... this... when a person is immature.. their tendencies may make them flee.. (age has nothing over the maturity of any man or woman.. ) do you truly believe a man or woman can mature.. when they finally find the right one.. and be faithful and worthy... as commit themselves to only one ..??

2007-01-25 07:52:58 · 13 answers · asked by ﺸÐïåMóñdÐôññåﺸ 5 in Singles & Dating