There is a girl i realy like but she has a boyfriend and I get nervus when me and her talk what do I do?
2007-01-25 07:59:30 · 27 answers · asked by Royal_red_guard 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And this girl knows I like her.
2007-01-25 08:05:53 · update #1
forget her, she already in a relationship,dont disturb!!!!!!!!!
2007-01-25 08:05:21 · answer #1 · answered by amgad s 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all does she feel the same way you do about her? Are you guys pretty good friends? Btw don't be nervous talking to her although it is really cute when a guy does that. If she feels the same way about you she will come to her senses and if she flirts w/you she most likely likes you back. Even if she doesn't flirt theres still something in the way that she talks or looks at you that you can tell. If you really think you can't handle holding it in anymore tell her how you feel again if you have already. Explain to her that you really like her alot and that it's getting to the point where it's hard to be friends w/her. If that doesn't do anything then i'm sorry. I tried.
2007-01-25 16:15:16 · answer #2 · answered by amber_woodland2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls love honest guys. The fact that she has a boyfriend, means you need to back off a bit, and never cross the line with her or disrespect her unintentionally. now, do you know how long they have been dating? or if its serious? the best thing for you to do, is approach her, call her, text her, aim her, email her, whatever feels the most comfortable for you, and tell her that you respect the fact that she is in a relationship, but at the same time, you cant help but to feel the the feelings you have for her. tell her, that you want her to be happy and that you just felt like if you didnt tell her how you felt, you were just going to burst or something.
depending on her age and mature she is, she will really respect that alot about you...your not trying to break them up immaturally, but rather you are giving her the heads up: HEY I LIKE YOU!
ya never know what will happen after that ;)
the important thing is not to be tooo nervous, i know its easier said than done, but maybe you should email her instead, that way you can think about everything you want to say, without feeling nervous or mistaken in words.
good luck hun! :)
2007-01-25 16:08:25 · answer #3 · answered by SassyGirl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I don't think I have to tell you that it is only natural to be nervous around someone that you're attracted to. Maybe you should try taking deep breaths before you talk to her. Try talking to her about something that you two have in common, classes and stuff. That way you can develop a friendship and she can see how wonderful you are. Good luck sweetie!
2007-01-25 18:19:35 · answer #4 · answered by April 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, dude, you had same trouble i had before. But let me tell you this, this girl is now my ex gf. Well... i think it depend on if she likes you or not, and also if she is looking for a new boyfriend. Maybe you should consentrate more on yourself, be really nice to her sometime, be cold to her some other time. Try to raise your confidence level up, and by the way... good luck.
2007-01-25 16:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by spidey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she has a bf then just wait, be friends with her and get her to like you but don't force her. Wait til they break up and be there to comfort her but don't be to much of a friend and have her think of you only as a friend
2007-01-25 16:06:08 · answer #6 · answered by Shortie<3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
similar situation for me just play it cool stay friendly not too friendly build a fire small one create some tension she eventually will leave her boyfriend and the attack if she dosent leave her boyfriend attack any way worth a shot
2007-01-25 16:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by ice13water 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
see if she wants to hang out sometime but just as friend..you cant really interfear with her and her bf's relationship try to be friedns first hey u never knoew when them tow will break up and then u have ur chance!
2007-01-25 16:05:38 · answer #8 · answered by danielle r 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she has boyfirend what are you doing? she knows you like her? what are you doing? go away and find someone that cares for you i mean hey you are a human and you need to find your own way not someone elses its not good and apparently shes not that good or she'd be interesting in one only she is bad news.
2007-01-31 21:56:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget she has a boyfriend and talk to her like she is one of your best friends.
2007-01-25 16:04:12 · answer #10 · answered by Krupkake 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Dude, just talk to her.. She has a boyfriend already.. What's the worste that could happen?
2007-01-25 16:05:45 · answer #11 · answered by crazgrss 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋