2007-01-25 07:54:50 · 15 answers · asked by girl_is_depeche 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm within my weight for my height. I am 5'4" and weigh approximately, 110lbs. What I was told is that before me, he was used to being with someone that weighed a little more. I eat more than most people, but I just have a hard problem gaining weight. Believe me, I wish to gain a few more pounds but it's been hard for me. It's been something I had to deal with for quite some time.
2007-01-25 08:03:17 · update #1
Generally speaking, if your boyfriend is worried about you being too thin it is because you are, and he is genuinely worried about you.
I can only assume he cares about you, and wants you to be happy and healthy.
Is he the only person who has expressed such concerns?
2007-01-25 08:00:32 · answer #1 · answered by HP 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like he might be concerned about your health. Have you lost a lot of weight? Are you haveing a eating disorder? Do you compulsivly exercise? If you are just a thin person then you cant really do anything but if you have a problem there is help.
2007-01-25 16:02:20 · answer #2 · answered by elaeblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't think anything of it.
He probably is just worried about you.
Guys usually don't understand weight problems. How hard to gain or lose since usually it is easy for them.
The only reason why I can think he says that is a) he wants you to be healthy or b) (my guy friends have told me this) girls that are to skinny and are a bit boney can leave them sore after sex from hitting bone to bone (no pun intended)
2007-01-25 16:06:40 · answer #3 · answered by MassageGoddess 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing. Why bother worrying about it. Unless you are intentionally not eating to be thinner or are puking and have some sort of eating disorder... then there isnt anything wrong with the way you are, who cares what others think!
2007-01-25 16:00:31 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
unless you're a straightline from heel to shoulders, you probably aren't too thin.
it could also be he's trying to protect "his property" & by getting you to put on a few pounds, that'll make you unattractive to other guys, thus he won't have to worry about you straying.
in short, only your physician can determine if you're "too thin" for your own good health. Laugh off your boyfriend's thoughts, they don't mean much to you.
2007-01-25 16:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that you are too thin in his opinion. He probably prefers "curvier" women. Maybe he is concerned that you have an eating disorder.
2007-01-25 16:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Therious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's obviously concerned about your health, you shouldn't take offense to that. go see a doctor and ask them if your weight is healthy for your height and age.
2007-01-25 16:00:48 · answer #7 · answered by LoriBeth 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are happy with how you look then don't worry about his opinion.
it is your body.
don't let anyone persuade you into eating more if you don't want too.
2007-01-25 16:01:46 · answer #8 · answered by StarShine G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either you are too thin or he likes meaty girls. but if he loved you he'd like you the way you are.
2007-01-25 16:00:17 · answer #9 · answered by Lady K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MABY YOU ARE TOO SMALL OR MABY HES A REAL *** HOLE. AND GUST WANTS A LITTLE MEAT ON HIS BONES
2007-01-25 16:01:29 · answer #10 · answered by baby gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋