Do men really like it better when women play hard to get? For example when they don't call, when they end the conversation first, when they don't often return your calls and when they do return the phone calls they always end the conversation first? Another example is always being busy and acting indifferent when they do call, as if they could care less if the man calls them. Why do they like this so much, what makes the woman more attracive to the man when she does this? Do they really like the chase that much?
2007-01-25 07:56:43 · 19 answers · asked by Lady K 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Or not having sex right away. that counts too.
2007-01-25 08:03:19 · update #1
No we don't. Men generally aren't into the games.
2007-01-25 08:00:43 · answer #1 · answered by artisticallyderanged 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
First off, everybody is different and I suggest not stereotyping. With that out of the way...GENERALLY speaking many men do like the "chase" and like a little challenge. I am sure you heard of the phrase, "you want what you can't have?" If a women is more difficult to "get" then the prize is so much more satisfying when the man succeeds. It strokes a man's ego when they know that they just obtained something that was difficult to get...bragging rights. On the other hand, there are just as many men who do not like the chase and have egos that can easily be bruised. They may not like the difficulty of the chase or may just shy away unless they get an immediate response. Either way, I always suggest a modest approach with very little "games," save those if the relationship progress and figure them out together.
2007-01-25 08:08:32 · answer #2 · answered by MrGin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those are games and games are not my bag. I think that women, if they like a man, should ask the man out. Put the shoe on the other foot. The sex should come in at least the first three dates.
2007-01-25 09:14:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO!!! men will only chase for so long so do not play hard too get for so long ......
Men have a very short attention span so you have to hold there attention and then let them natch you up!!! Good Luck!!!
2007-01-25 08:05:34 · answer #4 · answered by Mye 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I dont think its so much as hard to get, as it is hard to sleep with. I really think that if you can wait for a month or longer, guys will respect you more. Guys dont want easy girls. Also, dont make yourself completely available at all times right from the get go, you have to keep plans with your friends and keep doing things you normally do, if you are too accessible, then its the same as being too easy. He wont want it.
2007-01-25 08:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I can't help but think that guys like that must have issues. A real man would respond to a woman who's open about her intentions.
2007-01-25 08:01:10 · answer #6 · answered by tangerine 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Every man likes a challenge. No man wants to feel like If he gets you too easy, why can't the next man too? Anything worth waiting for is definately worth having. Make him EARN you.
2007-01-25 08:10:23 · answer #7 · answered by To live is to learn 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I assure you that there is nothing that will make a man angrier, or even violent faster. You're playing with fire. Don't listen to these other terrible answers.
2007-01-25 08:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Joseph C 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you can play hard to get, but don't cross over the line. If you really like that guy, or that guy really likes you, please, tell him, show some interest or tell him no. Guys evantually will give up on you, if you keep playing game with them, they wanted to know if you really like him or not!
2007-01-25 08:26:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Not all, some are not "game players". Same with women by the way.
2007-01-25 08:02:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋