Family & Relationships - 25 January 2007

I'm a 14 year old girl and I'm not that happy with my body exspecially my legs and butt so if you could give me some diet tips along with excersises and/or websites that would be great!

2007-01-25 08:12:35 · 15 answers · asked by baby gurl 2 in Singles & Dating

A friend of mine has seemed to have lost his marbles. He asked me to fix his computer and reinstall windows xp for him. So like a good friend I did. When I gave the computer back (all fixed) he called me the next morning and asked were his laptop was. I scratched my head in confusion and said I just gave it to you last night. He said that I switched his computer with another one and the one I gave him back was not his and I stole his and he wanted it back. I asked him several times if he was joking with me. I was there when he bought his computer and I know it was his when I was fixing it. He still 3 months later insists that I switched his computer with someone elses. What do you think happened and why? What should I do about this?

2007-01-25 08:12:29 · 5 answers · asked by SVS Blog 1 in Singles & Dating

just has me puzzled, is it in thier genes as it is in thier jeans?

2007-01-25 08:11:53 · 41 answers · asked by josephine_uk 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 08:11:51 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i e-mailed my ex to say happy birthday , he never replied , i only e-mailed him coz i felt bad . he called me a few weeks ago and wanted told me to call him if i ever wanted to hang out . i never called . i dont want him back , but i felt bad not even acknowledging his bday . All my friends told me not to.He hasn't replied i feel wierd for even sending the e-mail. i expected at least a thank you

2007-01-25 08:11:44 · 6 answers · asked by nyasha33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I'm single and have two babies. I'm new to my area, so I don't get out much, and I'm not into going out and trolling for men anyway. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, just someone to go out with from time to time and someone to be physical with--I have NEEDS! Any suggestions for how to find someone? I don't want to lead anyone on, but I don't want to sound like a "woman of loose morals" in some online ad....

2007-01-25 08:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by Karyn B 1 in Singles & Dating

my brother, a long time ago was a Christian but then he just sorta grew away from it i guess, and i do NOT like him coming over anymore because he listens to metal and music that basically just criticizes God, and it drives me crazy! all he does is criticize the music that i listen 2 (Emo, Christian, and Rock) and he makes fun of my friends but i have NO IDEA about what i should do~!!!
any suggestions? i would appreciate it♥ thx
~Emo Chick~

2007-01-25 08:11:32 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my best friend (mark) is good friends with all these people in a band. one of those people in the band are named John. Mark called me with John on the other line. We talked for a while, and Mark showed John my myspace. Apparently, he thinks I am "insanely hot" and was talking to Mark about how bad he wants to "bone me." I was joking around on the phone and told John I'd give him a lapdance if he gave me and some friends a ride to the movies. So i probably led him on or something. Because I don't do things like that. Mark is having a party on Saturday and the whole band is going to be there. I'm afraid this guy John is going to try something on me and I'm not sure how to handle this. I've heard some bad things about John also, that he's an alcoholic and has a bad home-life. I know the typical answer is to "not go" to the party but I'm going to eventually meet this guy John somewhere because he's friends with a lot of people I know. And I really want to go to this party. what to do?

2007-01-25 08:10:46 · 23 answers · asked by jooooooolie 1 in Singles & Dating

I need to be able to talk to this person very soon, but she is stubborn and angry at the moment, I need to know how to penetrate this stubborness in order to get her to see eye to eye with me. Thanks

2007-01-25 08:10:25 · 3 answers · asked by Genesis 4 in Singles & Dating

Don't get me wrong. I've only read one Harlequin romance in my life, and it was only because it was about a hot Australian guy named Harry. For the most part, I find the plots uninteresting and the female characters not complex enough. If anything, it seems that the main things going for them is their looks and not their intelligence or strength of character. That being said, though, does anyone here think that these books have any bearing in reality?

2007-01-25 08:10:14 · 2 answers · asked by tangerine 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-25 08:10:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I stopped seeing each other because he could not accept the fact that I had a child and he was still in party mode (He's 36). I explained to him that I wanted a secure, committed relationship. He replied that he was not ready for that. After that conversation, I ended contact with him. A few months later he contacted me via email to tell me that he missed me and wanted another chance. Now that we have reconcilled, he has been wonderful with my son and calls me his girlfriend. However, I rarely see him during the week due to his work schedule and distance (45 min). He always spends Thurs with his friends fishing and Sundays watching football. Last night we argued because his plans were to go to bed early on Fri night to fish with his friend on Sat. Then he would visit me Saturday evening /Sun morning. That leaves 1-2 days with me during the week. I don't consider that a boyfriend. Am I expecting too much? I'm attractive/fun etc. Should I sit home on Fri nights alone?

2007-01-25 08:09:08 · 5 answers · asked by festefool75 1 in Singles & Dating

Be honest. I don't mean do you do anything about it, or that you want it to happen, but does it?

I think it's one of the challenges to step parents that no one talks about and that those who aren't step parents don't understand how it can happen (it happens because marrying their mother or father doesn't automatically make you relate to them as your child--it takes a while for a bond to develop, if it ever does).

Just curious.

2007-01-25 08:08:07 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been married for 5years but has been together since I was 15, and we had a small seperation but are back together, everything is there but the kisses and saying I love you. I'm a very affectionate person,but when he came back there is no affection,he feels that we know how we feel about each other and we don't have to say it. I'm lost, can it last without affection?

2007-01-25 08:07:22 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i was dating this girl and talked everyday, had a lot of fun and never argued. recently she asked me to give her space though. it's been 6 days now...how much longer should i wait? and then should i text her or something? and what should i say in the text? like "how's it going, have good day" or "hope you're well" or something like that? please give me some examples! i really miss her and it hurts to wait..

2007-01-25 08:06:40 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

worried

2007-01-25 08:06:35 · 15 answers · asked by deanalee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well i like this girl. but she's my firend first and i dont want to ruin our friendship and she's dating someone else. i've never dated before so i've never felt the way i do now and i feel really strong about her. and i want to see her happy and she is happy and im happy for her but i really like her and now i feel like im worthless and one by one my firends are getting annoyed with me. wat should i do?

2007-01-25 08:06:22 · 7 answers · asked by Lil' Avril 2 in Friends

what do you do if your boyfriend has some jealous exes who constantly try to break yall up?
he cheated on me once before, so when they say like oh hes cheating on you! i dont believe them.
but you know how it is.
after they cheat theres always this doubt.
how do i ignore them
and make sure they dont damage our relationship?
ahh help please:[

2007-01-25 08:06:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u were asked out, by someone u didn't love, but u htink they mite be worth it, would u go out with them or no?

2007-01-25 08:05:55 · 7 answers · asked by CurioslyPerfect 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy but for the past week we havent been talking as much and I find myself thinking about him less and less....i want to make it work with him...what should i do?

2007-01-25 08:05:16 · 4 answers · asked by Bee 3 in Singles & Dating

My mom met one of her old students,(my mom used to teach at Summerville High School) and she decided to have him over for Thanksgiving(he's 18). When she went to pick him up she saw that his apartment was a mess. So she let him spend the night for a day.Well, that day turned into him moving in with us. Now he acts like he owns the house, he eats as much as he pleases, he harasses me and my little sister, he walks around the house with his dirty shoes on, barges into my room (which I think is the worst because I'm a high school girl with an 18 year old coming into my room without permission), he yells rude comments at me while I'm in the shower, he puts his music on a full blast in the middle of a school night. And he sleeps till noon and walks around the house at night, trashes his room (our guestroom), and tries to beat me and my sister up. And on top of all this he doesn't have a job, a car, or a licence. And has been to jail. And my mom doesn't do a thing about it. What should I do?

2007-01-25 08:05:12 · 31 answers · asked by cellularchitchat 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

There is this guy and we have been talking for a little over 3 months, from the beginning he expressed to me that he was not ready or looking for a relationship because he just got out of a 2 year relationship 8 months ago, and I totally under stand that, but we talk everyday and if I go a day and not call him he says good to hear from you, when i see him he tells me it is good to see me, when i talk to him he tells me how he wanted to kiss me and I told him that i like him but I am not ready for a realtionship either , and really I am not, but I am just wondering what we are doing here,we talk about everything under the sun, we have so much in common it is ridiculous, is he just trying to be my friend or maybe trying to get to know each other better? Help Pleazzzzzzzz

2007-01-25 08:04:10 · 30 answers · asked by Tiffany 3 in Singles & Dating

Assuming its gone on for a while- so it ain't gonna change. Why not leave, life is way too short.

2007-01-25 08:04:04 · 16 answers · asked by James G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm married and I like to know everything my husband does. I tell him everything that I do , everything. I do that because I expect him to do the same with me, but he doesn't. I' m jealous woman. Since he doesn't tell me anything, I start suspecting and my brain starts to think alot of things, so I decide to check his cellphone and go thru his calls & txt messages. Now he has blocked the functions and I can read them which make me think a lot of things. He says that he blocked them because I'm a jealous person and that he doesn't want to be fighting over phone calls of number that I don't know and txt messages. The question is why did he block the cellphone and change the password to his e-mail? I think that as his wife I have the right to know . Am I doing things wrong here? Or is he in something else?

2007-01-25 08:03:53 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It is so stupid because all of my friends always they get in fights with me over what i say about a movie lets say.

2007-01-25 08:03:33 · 5 answers · asked by TennisStar12 2 in Friends

Im 29 and he is 23. He used to be my student and we started YMing recently and it was really cool. We talked about everything including drugs and sex and the sex part.. well it was steamy, he said he had a hard on I told him to unload (after we talked). The next day we had a nasty argument because I think he thought I was suggestng sex but I wasnt and he felt shy. He also sounded pissed off and said our conversation was going nowhere and senseless. Anyway, he said "The other night I didnt unload, i released the beast. I shouldn't have. Tonight, I will not touch my thing." I asked him what he meant cuz sorry I didnt get that... I know Im slow... I got pissed off anyway he said he is sorry i took it differently... damn! what is the kid trying to tell me???? I told him I wanna see him. He wouldnt let me. Then I texted him and emailed him once and he didnt reply... what should I do???

2007-01-25 08:03:33 · 1 answers · asked by Stefani 2 in Singles & Dating

I know this guy for 3 years were pretty close i kinda like him and kinda don't. we been talking alot now and he likesto bug me alot or trys to make me laugh. Does he like me or is he just trying to be my friend. I'm not tomuch into guys so i don't know

2007-01-25 08:02:58 · 4 answers · asked by jessie 2 in Friends

I've had most of my parties at my house and to me, it's getting boring. but I don't want to spend money on the party. so i'm just gona have it at my house again. what is there to do? there's gona be the whole cake, movie, pizza thing. but what else?

2007-01-25 08:02:34 · 8 answers · asked by mindi 4 in Friends

You'd have to be a little crazy nowadays bringing a child up in this world we live in. Don't tell me it's better than years ago when the world was a lot safer, and a better place overall. I just get so mad when people get married, they feel "pressured" into thinking "ok.......the next step is to have kids " ........this to me is ridiculous !
I think a marriage is actually better off without kids, this way here couples can spend more time with each other, travel, go out when they want, do what they want with no responsibilities. Every single guy I know that has kids looks 10 yrs older than he is cause he's so stressed out.
Oh well, this is just my opinion.

2007-01-25 08:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by godzillasagoodman 2 in Marriage & Divorce

dont say chilli or egg salad on hotdog bun or chicken salad on a taco bell shell.

2007-01-25 08:01:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce