Hey, I'm single and have two babies. I'm new to my area, so I don't get out much, and I'm not into going out and trolling for men anyway. I'm not looking for a serious relationship, just someone to go out with from time to time and someone to be physical with--I have NEEDS! Any suggestions for how to find someone? I don't want to lead anyone on, but I don't want to sound like a "woman of loose morals" in some online ad....
2007-01-25 08:11:34 · 6 answers · asked by Karyn B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, yes, you're all very funny. Southern California, but I don't think this site is going to get me very geographically desirable responses. And yes, friend with benefits, exactly. So seriously, how do I find someone?
2007-01-25 09:08:12 · update #1
were you from?
2007-01-25 08:17:52 · answer #1 · answered by Boondocksaint 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know why your so desperate to have a guy and be in a relationship. Your better off by yourself. Being single is great. I don't know why you can't see all the positives. Stop seeing the negatives on being a single woman. Your obviously very young and can't see how great you have it at the moment. Stop bitching about your male friends... obviously they care about their girlfriends even if you can see all their flaws. But at the end of the day your opinion doesn't matter. If your male friends are happy ... learn to be happy for them. It's their choice to have those women in their life. You must learn to love yourself and be happy with what you have. Guy find that girls that aren't comfortable with themselves, are insecure and negative very off putting. I know this because my brother was always complaining about his girlfriends always carrying on and criticising other women and complaining about superficial issues like the way they look and saying that they were fat when they definitely weren't. My brother couldn't stand it. If I was a guy and I had to listen to someone complaining and caring on like you are about why no-one loves you and why you don't have a boyfriend, I definitely would run a mile. Sorry but you sound desperate. Go and find a hobby, learn to be happy and start enjoying your own company.... you never know, you might actually start enjoying yourself and wonder why you were so stressed with such trivial issues, that in the big picture mean nothing.
2016-05-23 23:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you're looking for a friend with benefits... everyone has needs... NJ here by the way lol ;-)
2007-01-25 08:19:48 · answer #3 · answered by Paleface 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm game, where are you from, I'm near chicago
2007-01-25 08:26:21 · answer #4 · answered by adamcookie28 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm gain, email me
2007-01-25 08:39:27 · answer #5 · answered by Phil Ehrens 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
right here honey!
2007-01-25 08:26:21 · answer #6 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋