Assuming its gone on for a while- so it ain't gonna change. Why not leave, life is way too short.
2007-01-25 08:04:04 · 16 answers · asked by James G 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well...sex isn't everthing, as I'm sure you know. You will hear that from many people. However, no one can tell you exactly how to cope or what to do that has not lived through your exact situation.
You aren't very clear on just what "not on the same page" means
if your partner never wants it...I can tell you that you may think you can deal with it, but if one of you has a normal sex drive and the other doesn't want it at all...you are headed for major trouble.
Good Luck to you and yours!
2007-01-25 08:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love this person, and he/she loves you, then try to fix it. Talk about it, add some toys, whatever it takes. It's not all about sex, but if sex is the only issue, it could be fixed. Check into a hotel room for the weekend to change the scenery. We live busy lives and forget that we all need special time with our significant other. Focus on what's important in your life. If you have kids, send them away for the weekend too. Hormones can be an issue to look into.
2007-01-25 08:14:12 · answer #2 · answered by zumi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have not been on the same page for a while now.. and you have talked about things.. ect... then I would say you need to seperate and see whats out there and maybe that will make you all closer and maybe you will both see that you shouldnt be together after all.
2007-01-25 08:08:47 · answer #3 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love and marriage are not solely based on sex. If you love your husband/boyfriend, you just work around these problems. If sex is a foundation for any relationship, it's not going to last long term.
2007-01-25 08:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by Laci R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite right too. Sex is just as important and yes life is too short.
2007-01-25 08:11:33 · answer #5 · answered by SOL SIREN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really want to be with this person, you would have to work on the sex. Be open with each other. Tell her want you really want. If she can't be open and try things you like than maybe you need to move on.
2007-01-25 08:16:50 · answer #6 · answered by littlez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Me thinks someone is daydreaming about getting with unhappy married ladies. Really transparent and kinda sleazy
2007-01-25 08:15:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do you not think it will be the same with someone else in time? Come on men and women do not speak the same language.
2007-01-25 08:15:29 · answer #8 · answered by txO3blueeyes 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, because you exchanged vows to each other and made a comittment...I take it your one of those people that hops around from girl to girl because he's the one afraid of committment? Why are you asking this question? It seems really retarded to me.
2007-01-25 08:08:59 · answer #9 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because I'm married for better or for worse. Some days are great, others...aren't. It's the way things are.
2007-01-25 08:22:51 · answer #10 · answered by Mommymonster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋