2 days ago i broke up with my boyfriend. and hes saying it was completely out of nowhere, but i gave some pretty strong hints for a week or so. then i regretted it and told him im rele rele sry..and he just told me to get a life and go to hell. and i apparently shouldnt plan on talking to me.
but like the thing is hes been talking like that about me and saying he hates me..but last summer when he broke up with me it was even more random and he gave absolutely no hints. like seriously..and all i ever did was ignore him!! i dont think he should be talking..rele. so now i dont wanna go back out with him. i just wanna be friends. what should i do if he doesnt even wanna talk to me..like uhh NICELYY???
2007-01-25 07:53:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
btw im only like 13..dont say its childish..cuz i AM a child. and dont say im too young..its not helping me whatsoever.
2007-01-25 09:10:29 · update #1
He will come around if he wants to be friends. Friendships are really hard after a romantic relationship.
2007-01-25 08:00:38 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you "break up" with someone, it is exactly that. You should no longer have any concerns about him and his bearing on your life. It's natural to want that person in your life after so many strong feelings have been exchanged. Be fair to both of you and just end it...and when I say end it, it must be complete! When you quit smoking, you don't have an occasional cigarette. If you are both in a good place someday, when emotions are no longer involved then perhaps (though not a good idea) a friendship can develop.
2007-01-25 16:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by MrGin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to do some 'growing up' ... what you described happens frequently when you are an 'adolescent' and young adult, and it's 'perfectly normal behavior' on both your part and his. If you really do want to be 'friends' with him, then you'll need to 'give it some time' ... and that could be YEARS before you can 'hang out and talk together' as 'friends' ... and it may NEVER HAPPEN.
IF his 'talking' is in any way untrue and is 'damaging' your reputation, then you need to talk to an ADULT you trust, because that is 'abuse' and 'sexual harassment' and that needs to be STOPPED, and only an adult can make sure that is done 'properly' and 'legally.'
2007-01-25 16:08:42 · answer #3 · answered by Kris L 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Prediction: Once you finally grow up. You're gonna look back at this Note. And cry with embarrasment. Both of you are acting, REALLY CHILDISH. Get away from him, for the the time being. "Absence makes the Heart grow fonder". Put that theory to test.
2007-01-25 16:03:09 · answer #4 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I never did understand why anyone would want to be "friends" with an X. I still dont' get it.
Move on. Who needs a friend like him?
2007-01-25 16:00:40 · answer #5 · answered by ssssss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well here's my suggestion....
stop worrying about it and move on. The relationship is gone and damaged beyond repair. He broke up with you, you ignored him, you broke up with him, now he's being mean to you.....
Geeze.. a bit immature don't you think?
Just drop it, move on, drama sucks, not worth it.
Do what you did last summer.. just ignore him and move on with your life.
Good luck!
2007-01-25 16:08:19 · answer #6 · answered by wrkey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont need a friend like him u can do so much better..
2007-01-25 16:29:36 · answer #7 · answered by gardenia33_99 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want to be friends with you; stay away from him until he grows up and realizes how babyish he has been acting.
2007-01-25 16:01:05 · answer #8 · answered by Tones 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant be friends with some 1 dat you were with........!
2007-01-25 16:03:19 · answer #9 · answered by SW_GURL19 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DONT BE FRIENDS
2007-01-25 16:02:07 · answer #10 · answered by shewontletmefunk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋